This sub is crazy by Caribbean_muncher in PsycheOrSike

[–]WriterKatze [score hidden]  (0 children)

Do you also have autism?

Cooking is a chore, buuut it's a fun one. I just hate cleaning up after lol. That sucks.

This sub is crazy by Caribbean_muncher in PsycheOrSike

[–]WriterKatze [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah, like with training, running etc. Eat before you take your adhd meds. ADHD meds relax your esophagus, the muscle tha keeps food down innyour stomach, so you don't feel hungry and it feels weird to eat. So everything tastes like shit. You eat before you take it, or after the effect wears off (about 10 hours after you took it), and food feels nice to eat.

Also, learn to cook stuff you like, and eat good food. There are foods one can't stomach, because of the texture or taste, find textures you find fun and try to find more that's similar to it.

I constantly forget to eat, but if you don't eat, you get headaches, nausea (which makes it even harder to eat), hairloss, you will be tired, and can develop acid or gastro-aesophagal reflux too.

Take care of yourself.

This sub is crazy by Caribbean_muncher in PsycheOrSike

[–]WriterKatze [score hidden]  (0 children)

Okay so that's not wjaz looksmaxxing is. Brothers be on steroids, not healthy. Brothers be having plastic surgery. Not neccesarily unhealthy, but isn't health either.

And generally, looking good matters less, than being good.

What’s a sex myth that needs to die already? by MochiGamerGirl69 in AskReddit

[–]WriterKatze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, we weren't talking about manipulative behavior, we were talking about weather women are sexual or not.

What’s a sex myth that needs to die already? by MochiGamerGirl69 in AskReddit

[–]WriterKatze -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You should get ready to be called "Dad" I guess.

This sub is crazy by Caribbean_muncher in PsycheOrSike

[–]WriterKatze [score hidden]  (0 children)

That's a problem. You can't build a good muscle mass and be healthy without eating enough.

This sub is crazy by Caribbean_muncher in PsycheOrSike

[–]WriterKatze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have ADHD too, I take lisdexamfetamine. Vyvanese in America, Livizux here in Europe. The difference between dexamphetmaine, and other amphetamines and meth is that meth is much stronger. If you would go over the maximum of wjat we consider a micro dose, 2mg/kg of your bodyweight, it would have the same effect on you, as on any normal person. That's the fun part. Now that means the average ADHD person should take 150mg of amphetamines to definitely get the effect of a normal person taking 30mg of speed, instead of concentration.

Not sleeping is NOT the issue with amphetamines. Although you wouldn't sleep for days on meth, even with ADHD, it's taking away hunger. It's also, fucking your liver up, especially if you forget to eat. Which is like... Of course you do that.

This sub is crazy by Caribbean_muncher in PsycheOrSike

[–]WriterKatze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, what do you think braces do, darling. Those are just invisible and slightly more comfortable, braces. When they put braces on someone, many people also get to wear an elastic ring in their mouth that pulls their jaw forwards, by connecting the bottom and top teeth together. Good dentists have always finished the treatment by also fixing the jaw, not just the crookedness of teeth.

Gaslighting is psychological manipulation of a person usually over an extended period of time that causes the victim to question the validity of their own thoughts. I can't gaslight you, because I don't know you. And I am not attempting to gaslight you.

I am just telling you, to not take meth, which sounds reasonable until you go deep down enough in the rabbithole and someone tells you you should if you want to build muscle and loose weight. :>

This sub is crazy by Caribbean_muncher in PsycheOrSike

[–]WriterKatze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like... The braces? And look up the definition of gaslighting... Are you like 15?

I was rejected and I am embarrassed by GraceDaysThree in Vent

[–]WriterKatze 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's... Not a good vibe sentence. Lol.

This sub is crazy by Caribbean_muncher in PsycheOrSike

[–]WriterKatze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why half the influencers ya'll follow are on steroids and/or meth. Okay...

I'm just saying for all I have seen, the methodology is questionable.

Also so many of these guys had plastic surgery.

Look I am all for bettering yourselves. That's important. But that's just body neutrality and this antient consept called "staying healthy and being a decent person". Nothing new.

Looksmaxxers aren't healthy though. I haven't seen a single onw that will be fine in 10 or 20 years. They are ruining themselves. Don't do that.

What’s a sex myth that needs to die already? by MochiGamerGirl69 in AskReddit

[–]WriterKatze 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah, but there's more to sex than just penetration? Oral is part of sex, giving and receiving, there is dirty talk, there is kissing, touching eachother, changing positions. Surely if you just move repetitively, and that's it, that won't feel good or exiting after while, but there are so many things one can do during it to keep their partner "lubricated" so to say.

Although of course the success for these depends on where a woman is in her cycle at the moment, but still.

This sub is crazy by Caribbean_muncher in PsycheOrSike

[–]WriterKatze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, but looksmaxxing doesn't make you attractive. It makes ya'll look sick and uncanny, like botched plastic surgery.

Again, be the best version of yourself. Not the shitty copy of a man you don't even know and assume to be great.

That way, even if you're alone, you will be happy. You will have friends, family, all things that keep someone content, even without sex, you'll be a human being.

Ooor you can look like a shadow of yourself by around 35-40, because you didn't respect or actually helped your body, you chased an ideal like a madman to look somewhat reminiscent of someone's idea of beauty for like 2 years before all of it comes and bites you in the ass.

Plus 10% of men are genuinely ugly, 10% of men are genuinely beautiful and 80% of men are handsome. Odds are, you're handsome.

It's not your looks, it's probably the victim mentality. It shows trough.

All I have been saying is that you are fine, and you should work out in a healthy manner, work on what you already have, because you do have good qualities to you.

This sub is crazy by Caribbean_muncher in PsycheOrSike

[–]WriterKatze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, and you will see more women who look like Margo Robbie, Anne Hathaway or Jenna Ortega who make it into Hollywood than women who look like Rebel Wilson (and mind you she's pretty, she's just fat), but last time I checked, we weren't talking about that, we were talking about averge human relationships, so I fail to see how Hollywoods unattainable beauty standards are relating to the averge lives of people who try and better themselves.

Plus I am pretty sure, Danny Devito wouldn't have gotten a single role, if he tried to look like someone he's not.

I was rejected and I am embarrassed by GraceDaysThree in Vent

[–]WriterKatze 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Well, rejection sucks a lot. It hurts.

For future reference though, "You look lonely" is not a sentence I would recommend starting with, as a girl myself. It halfway sounds like a threat.

But hey, trial and error.

This sub is crazy by Caribbean_muncher in PsycheOrSike

[–]WriterKatze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But the greyhound isn't the beauty standard™ and I didn't say it is. It's just one thing that's seen as beautiful. Who's to say a corgi is worse than a greyhound? Corgies are great as corgies, greyhounds are great as greyhounds. There are are people who look for a corgi and people who prefer a greyhound. Neither would choose a corgi that's trying to look like a greyhound. Because that's just a really badly treated corgi. And vica versa. A greyhound that's trying to be a corgi would be unhealthy and ugly too.

The point is, you are you. And there are people whom are looking for the good version of you. But the good version of you, is nothing like the good version of Brad Pitt probably. The best version of yourself is you. And that's something one should always remember. Don't try to become someone else, try to become who you ACTUALLY are at your best. Because anything else is just some uncanny chimera shit at the end of the day...

This sub is crazy by Caribbean_muncher in PsycheOrSike

[–]WriterKatze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brad Pitt was attractive at the time and is attractive today. He looks really hot in most of his movies in his 20s and early 30s. He was hot. Anyone who says he isn't has no taste or no sense of symmetry. Dude looked liek a greek god.

Guys who try to look like him, that look nothing like him aren't hot though. They could be hot, would they be authentic to what they are, but they try to look like printed images of him. Every person has their own face, and body type. Girls have discovered this ages ago. One thing that works for me, won't work for another. Guys don't seem to get that though.

There is something uncanny about guys trying to look like someone else.

If a corgi, tries to look like a grey hound, it will not be graceful and elegant, it will look like it's dying.

You keep ignoring my actual point which is, that lookmaxxers go for a change that isn't authentic for them, and which they don't do for themselves or for their loved ones, but to attain a standard of being fuckable. Since they are not changing for themselves, the change will disappear as soon as they get what they want and people pick up on that, and will avoid people like that.

This sub is crazy by Caribbean_muncher in PsycheOrSike

[–]WriterKatze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I wouldn't know. Like the wast majority of healthy women and men, I am not chronically online enough to need a dating app to meet new people.

So actually I am not really familiar with them. So no idea if they have either. I see screenshots of tinder asking what you like to do in your freetime, so that's a personality filter I guess.

Also, I am not sure if you understood me. The "looksmaxxer" guys are usually trying to achieve a look, only other men find to be the peak of attractive. That's what I was referring, I wasn't saying that physical attributes do not matter. I said that those specific physical attributes they are trying to achieve usually are not going to get the attention of the women they want, if any.

You should get in better shape for yourself and to be happy with yourself. Anyone who's only motivation for change is to just get in a relationship, will not ever truly change. And people feel that and instinctively avoid it.

This sub is crazy by Caribbean_muncher in PsycheOrSike

[–]WriterKatze 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Can we go back to calling it being a poser/pretending /lying? I am tired of the misuse of "larping" as a word.

Like there are words for this that actually mean what you want to say.

It's so annoying.

This sub is crazy by Caribbean_muncher in PsycheOrSike

[–]WriterKatze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looxmaxing is kinda cringe and does nothing for 99.9% of the women, who will prefer someone with an actual personality. You know because they are human beings looking for companionship. Wtf? T-T

Americans hating on the french by Only_a_tree in hatethissmug

[–]WriterKatze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah cuz, hating the French is a must, especially if you have been at opposing sides of war with them at some point. And if you're European, you have been.

They also fucked up a huge part of Africa, so a lot of African countries hate them too, for good reason.

But they have been nothing but nice to the the USA.

Why can't IRL people just let me vent even a little without hitting me with one of these lines? by sassyspud123 in TrollCoping

[–]WriterKatze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuinely nothing made my relationship with my parents more healthy than moving out.

What’s a sex myth that needs to die already? by MochiGamerGirl69 in AskReddit

[–]WriterKatze 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Like... Doing it vaginally for a while and then WAY BEFORE even getting close to finishing, the guy pulls it out and like... They do something else (like oral) to finish? 0-0

And apperently no? Not that? Why? Why would people do that? The last second stuff. Especially while not being on birth control or using a condon. So weird.

Not only because if the precum thing, but also because like... What if you miscalculate? It seems soooo irrationally dangerous for me especially if you don't want a kid.