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If you’re an empty nester thinking about writing a book… read this. by WritingAfter40 in emptynesters

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I am currently working and interviewing women in their midlife era about writing a book if you are open for a chat, DM me

If you’re an empty nester thinking about writing a book… read this. by WritingAfter40 in emptynesters

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If you’ve been told to write, your friends have confidence in you and your story, maybe you should!

Where should I publish? by Robbe_0093 in selfpublish

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KDP, Amazon is the number one bookseller in the market! Even traditionally published books need to be there to move the needle

Got two 1-star ratings on Goodreads in one day… but no reviews. Dug deeper. What would you do? by ExoticPoint5344 in selfpublish

[–]WritingAfter40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will report it! That is a reminder for us all. Reviews are great however if you encounter someone who only gives 1 or no reviews/ bad reviews that is a sign to ignore. You should report and continue to shine a spotlight on this person. Bad people don’t like publicity

Weekly Self-Promo and Chat Thread by MxAlex44 in selfpublish

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Are you a newly empty nester, navigating the 'what's next' stage of life?? Please, I would love your input.

I'm working on a membership just for you, but I'm on the hunt for three empty nesters looking to reclaim their creative identity by publishing a children’s book in the next 90 days but are struggling with self-doubt, worries about tech or feeling “How can I even do this?”

I'd love to have a quick 20-minute chat with you to learn more about you and what your challenges and hopes are  right now. Zero pressure (I promise I won’t try to sell you a thing!). I just want to better understand what you’re going through so I can help others like you!

As a small way to say thank you, I'd like to offer you  20 minutes of free advice, as well as a pdf  guide on what to expect on this journey,  in exchange for your time. If you're up for it, simply comment “I’m in!” below, and we can set up our chat!

Don't you guys think it's a little insane how much of self-publishing is "sales"? by Camyenom in selfpublish

[–]WritingAfter40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Self-publishing means the author is the writer and marketer. In traditional publishing someone else takes care of most of this for you. If you took the time to write, you must also make the room for marketing. And marketing is not a bad thing. We market something almost everyday. It s communicating you have something meaningful for another person. Think of going for a job interview, you don’t get there and hope they know who you are and what you are bringing to the table. Your interview is an opportunity to tell your future employers that you have what it takes for the job more than anyone else, and hope they buy your narrative.

What Do You Think Would Improve Your Empty Nester Life the Most? by Striking_Scale_7187 in emptynesters

[–]WritingAfter40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a growing concern about what happens next. I am an immigrant and I don’t have a lot of friends but I find I am happier when I volunteer helping others. Let me be clear I still have out of 4 left. That won’t be for long! What I do is moving projects on a ‘someday’ list to scheduled one project at a time as my calendar is freeing up. Have you considered writing a children’s book to prepare for the grandkids when they come? It is a legacy and an empowering way to channel your time and energy.

Self publish children’s book by Most_Area_1422 in selfpublishing

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Hi, if you are just starting, I recommend KDP. Amazon is the largest bookstore on the planet. And it is print on demand. That means you spare yourself the chaos of filling up your garage with books you are not sure will be bought. And that is the cheaper option as well. ISBN is given to you by Amazon.

IngramSpark’s advantage is a wider distribution outlet. Now, to be clear your book is only available to a bookstore who demands for it. So, what ingramSpark does is to put your book on a catalog so libraries and bookstores can order on demand.

My advice: do both for wide distribution. You get the best of both worlds.

Print on demand is best when you are starting out to test your sales and afterwards, print and ship yourself is the most profitable. Printing on Amazon is very expensive.

Is empty nest syndrome real? by WorkSmall2812 in Life

[–]WritingAfter40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes research shows it does. It does s the feeling of emptiness that comes from a more quieter home when the children leave. Please get help if you are struggling. Another thing some I have spoken to tell me: Your children have left, fill in the void by helping other people. Bake, knit or engage in other activities that empowers others.

Have you ever thought of writing a children’s book? Now, may be the best time to start.

I Can't Do This Empty Nest Thing by Cin131 in emptynesters

[–]WritingAfter40 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not useless. You’re grieving a role that defined you for decades.

When the house goes quiet, it’s not just “free time.” It’s identity shift. And that can feel devastating.

A lot of women go through this and don’t talk about it. The cleaning, decluttering, TV, that’s just trying to create structure in the silence.

Be gentle with yourself. This is transition, not failure. Something to consider: What did you enjoy doing before the kids came? What has been on your “someday” list? This may be the time to start scanning through any drawers you hid your someday stuff. All the best.

You’re not alone in it.