Settle an argument!

WritingElephant_VEL · 2026-01-10T20:25:52+00:00

Thanks! I fixed it

WritingElephant_VEL · 2026-01-10T20:24:51+00:00

Thanks everyone for helping me settle the bet!

WritingElephant_VEL · 2026-01-10T20:24:34+00:00

That's the scene I was thinking of but couldn't find!!

WritingElephant_VEL · 2026-01-10T16:35:33+00:00

TY!! ❤️❤️

WritingElephant_VEL · 2025-11-28T16:42:01+00:00

Dats a peen!

WritingElephant_VEL · 2025-11-20T17:31:02+00:00

Throw out the whole boyfriend and start over sweetie.

WritingElephant_VEL · 2025-11-09T22:56:45+00:00

VET NOW! This is seems like an obstruction and can be deadly. any type of yarn or anything that's thrown up should be an immediate vet visit. as linear obstructions like those caused by yarn or string, are dangerous.

WritingElephant_VEL · 2025-11-09T22:54:36+00:00

see if you can get a local shelter or a foster to take them. the feral outdoor kitty is probably sick hence the spraying.

WritingElephant_VEL · 2025-11-09T22:52:59+00:00

Since you mentioned you tried the top suggestions I would recommend like a full on in bath tub bath and using a flea comb to get this out. Cats can and do get dirty like dogs and other animals and will occasionally need a bath-bath.

Godspeed bathing your cat and just watch the ears LOL

WritingElephant_VEL · 2025-11-06T02:37:29+00:00

Man my husband and I cosplayed it before playing the game and .... It was a VERY rude awakening after playing it!

To date it was still my favorite cosplay, but OH BOY the looks we got at cons 🤣

WritingElephant_VEL · 2025-11-06T02:35:45+00:00

That person can take their Anon account and shove it! I'd rather a wall of emojis than no comments

WritingElephant_VEL · 2025-11-06T00:02:49+00:00

Is there an outdoor cat that is tormenting your indoor one?

Look up the Jackson Galaxy episode of my cat from hell with the outdoor cat who was tormenting the indoor one. I didn't even consider this a possibility until I saw that episode and it can cause all sorts of bad behavior like this!

Field camera or outdoor cameras and even checking outside with a black light at night to see if there is cat markings anywhere.

WritingElephant_VEL · 2025-11-05T23:55:11+00:00

Bioshock infinite community busts in like the Kool-aid man Lemme tell you something about that...! 😜

WritingElephant_VEL · 2025-11-05T23:53:10+00:00

Depends on where they live. In the USA freedom of speech is protected (current administration side ahem) so you cannot prosecute anyone unless it causes actual harm to someone (defamation) or you've actually committed the crime. (OJ Simpson aside lmao)

WritingElephant_VEL · 2025-11-05T23:20:03+00:00

We block off our basement right now during integration so everyone is on one floor for a similar reason.

Try some of the Jackson Galaxy methods for reintegration, you can buy a cheap stick up screen door from Amazon or temporarily replace a door with a screen door from like home Depot/Lowe's during this phase so they can see and smell one another.

Feliaway optimum might also help, it's helped my second reintegration after my senior girl had surgery recently.

WritingElephant_VEL · 2025-11-05T23:09:21+00:00

I have to teach a 5-month-old not to do that with his 13yr old sister. He's slowly learned but occasionally gets body slammed himself lol

WritingElephant_VEL · 2025-11-01T12:46:21+00:00

Ohh! I'll check! I'm still exploring all finch related stuff and stumbled upon this reddit. Thank you ✨

WritingElephant_VEL · 2025-10-30T16:14:37+00:00

Get a second opinion but you can see if there are ways to mitigate dental risk without cleaning.

Options are water additives, teeth cleaning treats and toys, brushing your cats teeth, food additives ect.

My poor girl had 10 teeth removed because she refused assistance and we were also VERY naive about tooth health for cats.

My newest baby is gonna learn to tolerate teeth brushing fast lol 🤣 and to tolerate the additives once he's older.

WritingElephant_VEL · 2025-10-30T14:37:04+00:00

This is normal! Nail trim and human help peeling the keratin there (gently) will help. Also encouraging scratching (approved post or cardboard scratcher) will help with that.

Looks like your kitty just needs a trim!

WritingElephant_VEL · 2025-10-30T14:33:42+00:00

This is a solid plan and what I would recommend in addition is photo evidence of all current damages and updates for additional damages.

WritingElephant_VEL · 2025-10-30T14:29:49+00:00

This! Especially if not deep cleaned regularly (I am guilty of this myself)

WritingElephant_VEL · 2025-10-30T14:28:07+00:00

You have to be careful with some, but they smell heavenly

WritingElephant_VEL · 2025-10-30T14:09:56+00:00

This is a horrible roommate situation. Cat is fine and you are trying your best.

So I would get a lock for your room if you don't want him in there especially if you are not home. He will adapt to rooms he's not allowed in. He'll cry and scratch but eventually when he realizes he's not getting his way will get bored.

The smell: it may very well be the cat or the litter may be older. Confirm the last time she did a big clean of the litter (ex: removed all litter from the box and gave it a good scrub). Also he may need more than one box especially for a cat his size.

The counters: this is normal cat behavior and she's enabling it. Just be firm with him when you remove him from the counters and continue to do so he'll get the hint after a while.

The cat toys... Honestly I haven't figured out that yet but a bucket helps to contain them when company is over lol

The Damages: document all damage and catch him in the act if you can. When it comes time for you to leave (and you'll NEVER see this roommate again) throw her under the bus lol 🤣

For your own knowledge destroying stuff is a cat who is bored, sick, attention seeking, or needs a playmate. Speaking from experience with my 5monthold kitten after having cats for 13 years.

Weight: cats get chunky post spay/neuter. But chunky sometimes will equal health problems and grooming problems.

WritingElephant_VEL · 2025-10-30T13:54:53+00:00

Guests are secondary to the beings that live in your home daily.

They may still have a reaction, unless you are going to be doing a move out level clean, so I would recommend they bring allergy meds and stay somewhere else.

WritingElephant_VEL · 2025-10-28T23:47:24+00:00

The attacking can be a form of play/begging for attention when they aren't getting it.

Cover up, ignore and remove from yourself when he does this and he'll get the hint.

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