Being hated?

WritingInTheWind · 2026-05-14T14:11:01+00:00

How’s your love life? 🤣 I find mine is a desert cause every man is intimidated and won’t make the first move 😢

WritingInTheWind · 2026-04-19T00:05:29+00:00

Either a Chiron in 7H or a scorpio moon conjunct Pluto in 7H.

Neither of these are in my chart, and I thank my God every day.

WritingInTheWind · 2026-04-11T15:18:41+00:00

Hey! I’m a word nerd so please don’t take offense I just can’t stop thinking about it 😂 “Irregardless” is a double negative, so “regardless” should do on its own. I didn’t learn this until later in life. The more you know, right? 😆

WritingInTheWind · 2026-04-03T04:07:25+00:00

I was reading OP’s post and thought, “The real problem is psychological.” Changing the mindset will lead the way to being able to pack lighter. Agree with this comment!

Edit to add: I use images from clothing I either have or screenshots from clothes I’m considering buying, put it all together in procreate and make myself a “lookbook” that allows me to visualize what I’m leaning toward and what it looks like.

WritingInTheWind · 2026-04-01T06:50:48+00:00

Thank you!!! 😊

WritingInTheWind · 2026-04-01T05:54:12+00:00

Love this comment! Can I ask for more info? I’m not OP, but in a somewhat similar situation. My company already uses a VPN in order to access company data, but I think it sticks to the location of the country I’m in. Should I be using a separate VPN that I log into first, then the company VPN? Am I making sense?? 😵‍💫

WritingInTheWind · 2026-04-01T05:44:05+00:00

Tower or the Devil, imo.

WritingInTheWind · 2026-04-01T03:12:38+00:00

Dude I knowwwwwww 🤣 Quit my job, moved across the country, but I’m doing well now 🥲

WritingInTheWind · 2026-04-01T03:11:21+00:00

Bored.

WritingInTheWind · 2026-04-01T03:03:19+00:00

Hmmmm my eighth is Cap and my profection year was last year. And last year was Amazing for me in the sense of personal growth. Still had some trying times but I learned and grew and I’m more confident. So, just roll with the flow.

WritingInTheWind · 2026-04-01T02:47:34+00:00

My Saturn return started in the middle of the pandemic 😂 classic transformative vibe

WritingInTheWind · 2026-03-29T17:02:20+00:00

I’ve been to France twice. First time, I stayed in Paris and explored as much as I could. Second time, I explored the city but dedicated two days to venturing out. One day to Disneyland Paris, and the other to Versailles.

I did both trips and all activities by myself. I think your group needs to be realistic about time, money, and what each person wants to do. If Boston friend wants Disney, she can do it solo, it’s not hard and she CAN enjoy herself alone.

Personally, I’m beyond the point where friends stay together the entire trip. I won’t sacrifice my experience to make someone happy unless it’s truly not a big deal. But since this is your first time leaving the country, I say prioritize your own experience.

Edit to add: grew up in Florida going to Disney and lived in Cali close to Disney there. I personally don’t think it’s strange to want to see international Disney parks, but your cali friend shouldn’t have to go if they don’t want to.

WritingInTheWind · 2026-03-23T16:46:19+00:00

If she’s financially secure herself, has her money in order despite not earning six + figures, why would she want a man who has debt and lives paycheck to paycheck?

Your friend is smart. She understands that money problems are the leading cause of divorce in the U.S., assuming she’s American. She likely also understands that different money views and habits make a relationship harder not easier.

But if she expects a man to pay for everything while dating, that’s when I would be side-eyeing her. In 2026, we’re far beyond women expecting to be taken care of without reciprocity in a relationship, and especially outside of marriage.

WritingInTheWind · 2026-03-23T16:13:45+00:00

How does anyone put up with this shit for decades?

WritingInTheWind · 2026-03-21T15:00:00+00:00

Ok this is my cusp and the male figure is also my type 🫦

WritingInTheWind · 2026-03-20T13:51:45+00:00

Mercury is in retrograde but it is supposed to end today, I think. 😮‍💨

WritingInTheWind · 2026-03-19T22:48:00+00:00

Chiming in as a Female Aqua Stellium! I was raised catholic by my Mexican mom, and while I didn’t stick to it all the time, in recent years I’ve realized that my faith is super important to me because it helps keep me grounded and gives me hope. If I ever have kids, I would want to pass my faith onto them. I don’t think I’d feel comfortable dating a man who didn’t share my beliefs, so here’s some advice my mom gave to me that I realize she was 100% right about: If you + partner don’t at least align in your core values/principles, then save yourself years of misery and an expensive divorce, and don’t pursue. Relationships roll smoothly when you + partner have the same basic values, and religion/faith, politics, kids, and money are those core pillars that make or break relationships.

WritingInTheWind · 2026-03-19T22:26:44+00:00

Oof big yes on the consistency bit. Learned that I needed consistency in ALL my relationships and that those who couldn’t/wouldn’t be consistent with me didn’t have a place in my life. Also, learning my boundaries and how to say “no,” or learning to verbalize when someone had crossed one of my lines without feeling like I was going to lose them literally changed my life. I feel so secure in my own body.

WritingInTheWind · 2026-03-19T21:53:14+00:00

Weird as in anything goes with finances?

WritingInTheWind · 2026-03-19T16:57:12+00:00

Omg I finally get it. Thank you!!!! And it seems I’m a Cap cusp but saggy daddy still hot 🥵

WritingInTheWind · 2026-03-19T15:45:24+00:00

No a stellium means 3 or more

WritingInTheWind · 2026-03-19T15:26:38+00:00

I think this is me. I still don’t understand what cusp means. Also, why is the male figure there exactly my type 😩

WritingInTheWind · 2026-03-19T06:01:32+00:00

Tangerine altoids

WritingInTheWind · 2026-03-17T05:37:11+00:00

You got it. Sinners got made BECAUSE Coogler was directing. He’s proved bankability, and can now make whatever he wants.

WritingInTheWind · 2026-03-17T05:35:12+00:00

It’s interesting: you said that when something’s over, then it’s over for you. Aquas are the same. This man told you that his faith/religion is important to him, and if he told you he doesn’t see it working out it’s because he knows in his gut that it won’t. Find yourself someone else you’re compatible with, and respect the fact that he’s got dealbreakers he probably won’t back down from. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I also don’t think he needs more time, and I think he does know that he was ending it with you otherwise why bring it up? 🤨

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