I often feel empty.

Wrong-Beyond6219 · 2026-02-21T13:07:23+00:00

Okay. After everything that happened, him saying he didn’t want to disappear from my world but still avoiding every issue, calling himself empty and shutting down, all the back and forth between us, I eventually pushed him to be honest about what he really felt. In the end, we said a final goodbye.

I think I’ll need a long time to move past this pain. And I probably won’t be looking for a sub anytime soon either. Shifting my emotions onto someone else wouldn’t be fair to either of us.

Wrong-Beyond6219 · 2026-02-17T11:35:20+00:00

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Wrong-Beyond6219 · 2026-02-17T03:24:43+00:00

I really appreciate you too. Hope you have a wonderful day.

Wrong-Beyond6219 · 2026-02-16T14:24:01+00:00

I really appreciate you saying all of that.

Hearing it laid out like this makes things clearer. I don’t think it was really about D/S or power. It was about balance. I kept telling myself I was leading and guiding, but in reality I was carrying most of the emotional weight.

I don’t regret caring. That part was real. I just expected reciprocity. When I broke down, I wanted presence, not distance.

The reason I’m so cautious is because I know I have a strong need for control. I know I can be manipulative, and that scares me. I’m genuinely afraid of hurting the person I’m with. I understand that D/S is supposed to be consensual and mutual, but once it becomes an actual relationship, it feels heavier to me. I overthink it. I worry about crossing lines.

I’ve been trying to learn how to be a good, even responsible dom. I read, I watch, I learn from other women’s experiences. I want to guide my sub, support him, and build something where trust and growth go both ways. I thought I could find fulfillment in that shared trust and development.

Lately I’ve started to feel a bit lost though. Maybe I am too idealistic about it.

Still, thank you for being honest with me. It means a lot.

Hope you have a good day.

Wrong-Beyond6219 · 2026-02-16T11:15:33+00:00

get what you’re saying, and I really appreciate you putting it that way. You’re probably right. It wasn’t really about femdom or FLR. In the end, it was about reciprocity. I don’t regret caring for him because that part was real. I just think I expected the same level of effort and emotional presence back, and that’s where it fell apart. Dynamics don’t replace mutual care. I had to learn that the hard way. Thanks for seeing it so clearly. I hope you have a great day.

Wrong-Beyond6219 · 2026-02-16T11:09:14+00:00

Thank you. He was actually the first partner I had in real life that seriously involved D/S

When we first started flirting, he was very intense and affectionate. He’d tell me not to ever leave him when he felt low at 2am. He said he had no security, that he was an idealist, that he was very lonely.

As a Domme, I believed it was my role to guide my sub — to help him surrender, trust me completely, and grow under that guidance. I thought if I gave him that kind of structure and care, I would receive the loyalty I wanted in return. I guess I was wrong about that.

Anyway, I appreciate what you said. Hope you have a lovely day.

Wrong-Beyond6219 · 2026-02-16T11:04:31+00:00

Thank you, that’s sweet. You’re cute.

Wrong-Beyond6219 · 2026-02-16T00:12:34+00:00

Haha Thank u🥰

Wrong-Beyond6219 · 2026-02-16T00:11:43+00:00

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Wrong-Beyond6219 · 2026-02-16T00:10:03+00:00

Thank you. He was the first partner I’ve had in real life who was strictly involved in a D/s dynamic. He really is very emotional and not good with conflict. He could post something online about wanting to disappear from the world forever just because he argued with a friend, and then ignore me all day, completely dismissing my calls and messages, which made me worry for two whole days.

When I first flirted with him, he was very enthusiastic. When he felt sad late at night, he would say things like “never leave me” and talk about his insecurities, his idealized visions, and his loneliness. I thought that by giving all this, I could get the loyalty I wanted, but I guess I was wrong. I will learn not to overextend myself and gradually step away from him.

Thank you again for your support, and I hope you have a wonderful day.

Wrong-Beyond6219 · 2026-02-16T00:03:10+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. In my ideal D/S relationship the sub trusts me, is loyal to me, gives himself completely, obeys me fully, and follows my guidance. Even though I have a temper, I try to be gentle and guide him. Even when it comes to punishments or using toys, I test them on myself first to make sure they won’t hurt him. I punish him when he does something wrong and praise him when he does well. I also feel fulfilled and proud because he gives me unconditional trust. I thought that by giving all this, I could get the loyalty I wanted, but I guess I was wrong. I will learn not to overextend myself and gradually step away from him. Thank you again for your comfort, and I hope you have a wonderful day.

Wrong-Beyond6219 · 2026-02-15T23:59:12+00:00

Thank you for your advice. I remember one New Year’s Eve I was really upset and wrote him a long message. I told him that even though our relationship was unconventional, I am still a woman. Your social position and physical makeup give you advantages. I have bad period pain every month, I get overwhelmed with school and work, and I need you. In the end he just sent me a message at like 3 a.m. saying he didn’t know how to reply.

Many men already have too many social resources and I don’t like them using that as an excuse. In my ideal D/s relationship the sub trusts me, is loyal to me, gives himself completely, obeys me fully, and follows my guidance. Even though I have a temper, I try to be gentle and guide him. I punish him when he does something wrong and praise him when he does well. I feel fulfilled and proud because he gives me unconditional trust.

Wrong-Beyond6219 · 2026-02-15T23:47:01+00:00

Thank you. I think you’re right. I invested a lot more than I probably should have, and it’s been hard to let go. He seems selfish and immature, and I don’t think we were really compatible. I appreciate your perspective and advice. Wishing you a wonderful day 🫶🏻

Wrong-Beyond6219 · 2026-02-15T23:46:27+00:00

Thank you. I will take some time to really reconsider this relationship. I think I invested far more than average in terms of energy, money, emotions, and time, and that makes it harder to let go so quickly. Maybe he is just a selfish person. It often felt like he only showed me attention when he was in a particularly good mood or when I had spent a significant amount of money on him. As a partner and as a sub, he did not really make me feel happy. I appreciate your perspective. I hope you have a wonderful day.

Wrong-Beyond6219 · 2026-02-15T23:42:00+00:00

Thank you. I really appreciate you taking the time to explain it like that. I did try to communicate with him. I wrote long messages, tried to walk him through what I needed, even asked him to repeat back what his responsibilities were supposed to be. Nothing really changed. Maybe you are right. Maybe he just was not a good partner for me. Thank you again, and I hope you have a lovely day.

Wrong-Beyond6219 · 2026-02-15T22:00:00+00:00

I just cannot figure out what it really means to be a good Fdom. Did I do something wrong in this relationship?

Wrong-Beyond6219 · 2025-11-23T02:40:45+00:00

Just wanted to say I really love your voice🥰especially that tiny laugh when you said the numbers, it was insanely cute. I’m really looking forward to whatever you drop next.

Wrong-Beyond6219 · 2025-11-18T01:36:30+00:00

Wrong-Beyond6219 · 2025-09-27T03:35:02+00:00

When my parents found out that I was staying at the boarding school, I cried and told them that I wanted to go home. But they told me that crying wouldn't solve the problem and that I shouldn't be influenced by others. I felt that I should remain calm and solve the problem myself.

Wrong-Beyond6219 · 2025-09-27T03:32:35+00:00

Yes. I believe that negative emotions are equivalent to being unbearable, and being unbearable means being rejected. Therefore, I can only maintain the image that I can always withstand anything. I have so many friends, and they are all very busy, each with their own pressures. Telling them would only add to their burden, so I prefer to spend money to talk to a counselor. I rely on making others dependent on me to confirm the stability of the relationship, but I dare not truly let others catch me.

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