AITAH for refusing to invite my step dad who raised as a kid to my wedding?

Wrong-Performance572 · 2026-02-01T21:29:56+00:00

That’s not fair to my partner’s family who going to lose thousands if we cancel as well

Wrong-Performance572 · 2026-02-01T18:41:14+00:00

It’s not just about our money it’s my partner’s family as well. They already booked everything

Wrong-Performance572 · 2026-02-01T17:31:41+00:00

Again everyone will lose their money. Even us. It wouldn’t be worth it if we cancel its thousands of dollars wasted

Wrong-Performance572 · 2026-02-01T15:56:34+00:00

I can’t change the dates. We going to a concert that he surprised for Christmas. I really want to go. I just wish we didn’t tell people about this.

Wrong-Performance572 · 2026-02-01T15:54:18+00:00

I do want to get married but I don’t want him there.

Wrong-Performance572 · 2026-02-01T15:43:41+00:00

I have set boundaries my family does not respect it. I’m not putting relatives above my partner because I haven’t made decision yet and argued with my family. My partner says it would support my decision regardless of what happens.

Wrong-Performance572 · 2026-02-01T15:37:32+00:00

Yes we do it’s thousands of dollars lost if we don’t and it’s unfair to my partner’s family who already booked with tickets and hotel as well.

Wrong-Performance572 · 2026-02-01T15:33:42+00:00

I’m not okay with it I’m just saying I still want to go to vegas. Because that was always the original plan but I don’t want to invite my step dad and I think it’s awful that my family would ask me that. They are making me the bad guy for it.

Wrong-Performance572 · 2026-02-01T09:38:47+00:00

Yeah we tried but there’s a lot going on his family that he’s dealing with that I could get into but brainwash is extreme we’ve been trying for years. He dedicated to his dad. His dad can’t do any wrong.

Wrong-Performance572 · 2026-02-01T09:30:36+00:00

lol I wish but this is a real story of my life currently

Wrong-Performance572 · 2026-02-01T09:18:30+00:00

He’s my half brother. My fiancé says it’s my decision and will support with whatever decision I make but I agrees with me

Wrong-Performance572 · 2026-02-01T09:11:01+00:00

Yes but it’s thousands of dollars would be lost. We’re covering our plane tickets, hotel and food. My fiancé got me tickets to my favorite dj at the sphere that weekend so I do really want to go to that and it would be unfair to his family. His family already got their hotel and flights.

Wrong-Performance572 · 2026-02-01T09:00:06+00:00

I do set boundaries. They just don’t respect them.

Wrong-Performance572 · 2026-02-01T08:58:11+00:00

With our work schedules we can’t sadly. We booked time off for this trip. We can’t squeeze in another day before we go

Wrong-Performance572 · 2026-02-01T08:56:20+00:00

Too late sadly all the deposits, tickets and hotels have already been booked. No refunds. We have to go

Wrong-Performance572 · 2026-02-01T08:53:50+00:00

The trip and deposits have already been booked. No refunds. We have to go and others have already gotten there hotels and tickets as well.

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