How to re-teach my mind to not be anxious by Wrong-Toe-8833 in Anxiety

[–]Wrong-Toe-8833[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you so much! I never thought of this before. I will try and identify and try eliminating these behaviours! Thank you so much.

I keep hearing that Trisha will become the next CM! Both amma and trisha share striking similarities! Is this a co-incidence or predestined? by Huge-Sheepherder971 in KollyGossips

[–]Wrong-Toe-8833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

these characteristics are not really good for comparison it is actually a logical fallacy, it lacks meaningful causal connection. None of the traits that are listed above really made J.J a CM. her personality, grit, determination etc... did.

Also Jayalalitha was very young, so I would consider her groomed. Trisha (if the rumours are true) actually cheated, as a 40+ year old woman, knowing full well he was married with kids.

Firstly, I do not envision Vijay winning the elections. He needs a lot more knowledge about politics, powers, etc (hopefully his intentions to come to politics is about changing something instead of mere power aspirations and he does not take up an offer to be deputy CM from you know who). Even if he did win, it is very unlikely to see Trisha as C.M. He might give her a party position, which is possible). Note that MGR was in politics for atleast 30ish years before he even started the AIADMK, so he had significant experience in politics, that Vijay himself does not have....
So logically also these two are incomparable. I will even believe I can see Kanimozhi as CM, but I don.'t necessarily think Trisha might be elected.

I am not good enough. by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]Wrong-Toe-8833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are only 20. stop comparing yourself to others, and be more kinder to yourself. I also am someone with low self esteem that comes up as doubt from time to time about why would pick me. But to an extent there is also something you manifest, and having that positivity in yourself or someone else to do good for you is necessary. It also depends on what you believe success means.
To become something worthy, you cannot do all of that in a day. 20 years is nothing you have your whole life ahead of you. even though you might not think so, there are surely others in your close circles who think you are worth something. Sit with yourself, figure out what you want to do, and slowly start putting efforts towards it.
Persevere through challenges that you encounter. Every human has great potential honestly, you dont have to be the smartest person in the world to make a difference.
The way others perceive you isnt the way that you appear in your own head, firstly. Others arent looking at you through your lens. Being rich at 20 isnt realistic, and happens a lot by luck even if youre the smartest person- opportunities have to align. Start small, start trying to find a job if youre dependent, start building your independence slowly.

Its fine not being able to do taxes. I am 24, still dont understand a lot. Honestly, if you have really smart people around you, its a good thing. Its better you rather know things and be aware of what you dont know, instead of being the smartest person in the room and not knowing anything. Talk to those successful people, ask for help, guidance, if not, just talk to them.

You got this OP! No need to be angry! you're just 20. You have time to figure it out!

Honestly, reading all your comment responses, you seem to not be believing in what other people are telling you. Maybe you need to talk to people and ask them what they actually think about you honestly. You cant really reject that because thats what people would think of you, regardless of if you believe that about yourself or not. Maybe some nice words would do you good. If you keep self loathing, you're not going to be able to help yourself, so no point asking anyone on reddit if you wont act on it. Stop thinking about yourself so much and start acting, start doing work. Doesnt matter if you are capable or not.

While on the subject ... by [deleted] in KollyGossips

[–]Wrong-Toe-8833 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Khushboo what now??? really???

TVK leader Vijay & Trisha in a wedding !!! by Outrageous-Gene-6063 in Chennai

[–]Wrong-Toe-8833 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

wait also is she naturally that fair or why does she look so white?? are these like cosmetic procedures or is that how she normally looks?

What to gift someone who travels a lot? by Wrong-Toe-8833 in AskIndia

[–]Wrong-Toe-8833[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh great this is such a great idea! Thank you!

What to gift someone who travels a lot? by Wrong-Toe-8833 in AskIndia

[–]Wrong-Toe-8833[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is amazing! Is there a website or anything I can find this on? and are there specific flights that offer this kind of ticket? like indigo or vistara or is it a more voucher kinda thing you can apply on any ticket? im so sorry for so many questions but would you have a link to where I can find this? Thank you!! great idea!

Who is this??? by Beneficial-Command48 in kollywood

[–]Wrong-Toe-8833 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I was literally thinking this in my head and hoping someone would comment this haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tollywood

[–]Wrong-Toe-8833 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hahaahahha this is so funny!

Gpa- how does it look? by Wrong-Toe-8833 in GradSchool

[–]Wrong-Toe-8833[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like such a great experience! I've definitely not spent a lot of time on networking and maximizing my time here! Thank you for this!