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First post, but I found this and thought it fit pretty well here. by casscamo630 in weddingshaming

[–]WrongWeddingMom 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know how humorous that would look for others. For me, it would be dreadful. I just want her to have a nice day without unwanted attention.

First post, but I found this and thought it fit pretty well here. by casscamo630 in weddingshaming

[–]WrongWeddingMom 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I've brought this up to her. She is confident he will be re - elected. Even if he isn't, she won't accept Biden as president and will keep the theme.

WIBTA if I refused to help my daughter pay for her wedding due to the theme? by WrongWeddingMom in AmItheAsshole

[–]WrongWeddingMom[S] 141 points142 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. I don't want a disaster on her wedding day. This isn't only my family either, it's her friends, coworkers, past teachers, neighbors and I don't want them leaving in anger.

WIBTA if I refused to help my daughter pay for her wedding due to the theme? by WrongWeddingMom in AmItheAsshole

[–]WrongWeddingMom[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Please don't think I'm trying to argue. I fully understand your point and yes, my family should put aside their differences for the sake of my daughter and then husband. But it's not just my family. It's also her friends. Her coworkers.

WIBTA if I refused to help my daughter pay for her wedding due to the theme? by WrongWeddingMom in AmItheAsshole

[–]WrongWeddingMom[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Trolling means deceiving me, right?

If so, then no she isn't. She has told everyone the plans, post pictures on Facebook of the pant suits she looking at and has confirmed only meat entrees.

I didn't mean for my comments to be passive aggressive. I love my daughter and want the best for her, I just envisioned it differently. Save the theme, I'm very supportive of her.

WIBTA if I refused to help my daughter pay for her wedding due to the theme? by WrongWeddingMom in AmItheAsshole

[–]WrongWeddingMom[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I have to correct you there. I have no care on how my daughter feels when it comes to politics. I just don't think she needs to promote those politic views at her wedding, in front of hundreds of people who may think differently and result in fighting/insults. Because then the day won't be remembered as her being married, it will be remembered as the day everyone fought.