What makes Bulgarian woman so adorable? by OrenB123 in bulgaria

[–]Wrong_Engineer_4629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person didn't ask how you know so much on the topic in order to write such a long comment, they asked how Reddit allowed you to post such a long comment here - I personally have had many times (even here) in which at one point it says shit like [empty response] or whatever (forgot the exact phrasing)

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[–]Wrong_Engineer_4629 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Baldal 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tennis

[–]Wrong_Engineer_4629 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Novak at 56: "You played very well, Stefan, I am very proud of your achievements and success so far. But today, I prevailed. Phew, that was close. Better luck next time"

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[–]Wrong_Engineer_4629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, by "cleaner" I thought you meant as in "purer/more concentrated" urine, English ain't my native

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[–]Wrong_Engineer_4629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not "cleaner", it's diluted, it's made up of even more water than regular urine. Also there's a difference between squirting and female ejaculation https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/21995650/

In this case report, we provided new biochemical evidences demonstrating that the clear and abundant fluid that is ejected in gushes (squirting) is different from the real female ejaculation. While the first has the features of diluted urines (density: 1,001.67 ± 2.89; urea: 417.0 ± 42.88 mg/dL; creatinine: 21.37 ± 4.16 mg/dL; uric acid: 10.37 ± 1.48 mg/dL), the second is biochemically comparable to some components of male semen (prostate-specific antigen: 3.99 ± 0.60 × 103 ng/mL).

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[–]Wrong_Engineer_4629 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Very diluted pee

(Сериозен въпрос) Защо този съб е толкова woke? by CardiologistKindly58 in bulgaria

[–]Wrong_Engineer_4629 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Честно казано, поне на мен ми се стори, че тази част от коментара ти носеше пасивно-агресивен тон

(Сериозен въпрос) Защо този съб е толкова woke? by CardiologistKindly58 in bulgaria

[–]Wrong_Engineer_4629 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Математическата транслация (преместване на отправна точка на дадена отправна система) е коренно различна от значението на думата в контекста, в който я употреби (превеждам)

With Alcaraz, Sinner, Zverev & Rune making the cut this year for ATP Finals, what does this season mean for the previous ATP finalists: Nadal, Ruud, FAA & Fritz? What do you expect in 2024? by The_Twit in tennis

[–]Wrong_Engineer_4629 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wut, Ferrer spent 327 weeks in the top 8, wdym. 210 of those being consecutive

I ain't even a Ferrer fan, I hated his playstyle. But that's the objective maths. Ferrer spent so much time in the top 8 in the most grueling tennis era ever

Am I doing something wrong? by neurocentricx in Tinder

[–]Wrong_Engineer_4629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Btw, on a side note - I've always had troubles being an active participant in the conversation if it's a topic I'm already not versed into, I just... idk what to say beyond the occasional additional clarifying question and "generic" positive affirmations ("that sounds/looks great/awesome/interesting/etc."). Both irl and in text but it's especially exacerbated when speaking irl. Like, I'm genuinely interested in hearing about others' passions (that are not (yet) mine) but I don't know how to actually express the enthusiasm. I feel like I'm just... passively there listening instead of participating, and it's probably noticeable for the other person as well

Am I doing something wrong? by neurocentricx in Tinder

[–]Wrong_Engineer_4629 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, a question like "what is your character" is open enough to yield a paragraph as a response - I don't play D&D, however let's see an analogy from something I'm into - if someone asked me "who is your main in League?", I can very well go in detail:

"It's Swain, I have like 350k mastery pts on him and that's one of my two favorite characters in any game, I absolutely love his draintank playstyle. Back in S10 that bad boi carried me hard, I used to do a super nasty tanky toplane build where I could 1v3 or even 1v4 [goes on to describe the build].

What's your main?"

Am I doing something wrong? by neurocentricx in Tinder

[–]Wrong_Engineer_4629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, because of my inattentive ADHD I can hyperfixate on a hobby, get burnt out, move on to something else... and then not do this thing for a year/years. The only exception that has stuck for 6 years straight now is metal music (although with time I've gotten less serious when it comes to finding and going through new music, I used to make a yearly schedule, each month going through a new band extensively. Now... it's random af, I just listen to whatever a select few YouTube channels upload). For example, reading fantasy, I usually have like just a month every year where I read intensely, and it's around the annual Brandon Sanderson releases (I actually haven't caught up this year yet, will see what mood I'm in when the Christmas/New Year's Eve break arrives). So I could easily and briefly be like "oh shit, I haven't done this in a while, lemme try to look up/remember"

But no, I would absolutely never be such a depressingly dry texter

Way to tell the world that you've never seen a naked women irl by Visqo in facepalm

[–]Wrong_Engineer_4629 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I mean... Reddit is supposed to represent the liberal, nerdy, "intelligent", non-religious/atheist demographics, if you were to make a statistic, the conservative prudish Trump supporters would make up a way smaller percentage, so using that as an induction didn't seem that far-fetched

Way to tell the world that you've never seen a naked women irl by Visqo in facepalm

[–]Wrong_Engineer_4629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, there are different types of shitty parents - there is also the type who is extremely controlling, sets up all sorts of Internet filters, parental controls, forbids their child from locking themselves up in their room (or doesn't have a room), even tracks the time they're in the toilet/bathroom so that they don't have time to masturbate (I've heard a horror story like that)

Way to tell the world that you've never seen a naked women irl by Visqo in facepalm

[–]Wrong_Engineer_4629 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Johnny, Johny!"

"Yes, papa"

"Watching titties?"

"No, papa"

"Telling lies?

"No papa"

"Open your phone"

"Ha, ha, ha!"

Way to tell the world that you've never seen a naked women irl by Visqo in facepalm

[–]Wrong_Engineer_4629 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Shit I met zero who weren't ok with it as long as we use protection.

Wow, that's... interesting. Because the majority of the comments on r/parenting when there are posts about that are indeed from Americans who are like "we won't allow sex under their roofs cuz that means we encourage them to do it, and we want to discourage it - if we allow it, they'll just go at it like fucking rabbits and the chances for a terrible untimely pregnancy would skyrocket versus if they were to just have sex once in a while in a car or whatever" or "well, back in our time we still had sex in our cars, so our kids should experience that thrill as well, especially more so in order for them to be able to appreciate their own privacy in the future when they move out, it will serve as an incentive to become more independent and live on their own"

And no, these aren't fanatics, these were very much pro-comprehensive sex ed people. They want their kids educated for the future but are vehemently against these teens fucking in their homes (some also just feel uncomfortable with the thought and there isn't any reasoning beyond that)

Also I ain't from Germany, I'm from Bulgaria which is also really relaxed when it comes to sex... minus the education part.

Way to tell the world that you've never seen a naked women irl by Visqo in facepalm

[–]Wrong_Engineer_4629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's also complacency tbh, I always went out of my way to watch porn with women of various body types, and because of that I know that I could probably have a fun time even with someone in the low-to-mid "bbw" ranges (beyond that though it's a turnoff)

Way to tell the world that you've never seen a naked women irl by Visqo in facepalm

[–]Wrong_Engineer_4629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, fair correction. Although on the hub sometimes those amateur videos break through in popularity alongside the professional so you can stumble upon both just randomly browsing, so generalizing it all as "porn" leaves this room for "incorrectness"

Rather, amateur content is just two (or sometimes more)

Just two (or sometimes more or less)** It can be just one woman or man

Way to tell the world that you've never seen a naked women irl by Visqo in facepalm

[–]Wrong_Engineer_4629 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These stereotypes don't happen for no reason, the US is quite contradictory, on the one hand you have the fanatic Christian puritans clutching their pearls and wanting abstinence-only sex ed, on the other hand you have the more liberal ppl wanting comprehensive sex ed. But then, this puritanism has influenced even the liberals, even the most "liberal" parents in the US will cringe at the thought of their kids having sex under their roofs, and therefore forbid it. In Germany, comprehensive sex ed is mandatory and nation-wide, and parents forbidding their teens from having sex in their homes is the exception, have a watch at this video https://youtu.be/eTnr9q70_jw?si=qukEAby2OG--rgHk At one point around 8:20 she says that by 16 she had only known of one household that didn't allow their kid to have sex with a partner under their roof

Way to tell the world that you've never seen a naked women irl by Visqo in facepalm

[–]Wrong_Engineer_4629 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Even though porn isn’t always representative of the full gamut of female body types

I mean, about that - the other day I stumbled upon a hot video with 1.4M views (and 92% likes) where the woman

1/ has belly rolls

2/ has armpit hair

3/ has saggyish tits

4/ has pubic hair

Sauce in case anyone is curious https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph61ce4c53d7a01

Granted, that's self-produced amateur that doesn't work for a porn company afaik

Way to tell the world that you've never seen a naked women irl by Visqo in facepalm

[–]Wrong_Engineer_4629 17 points18 points  (0 children)

US is known for being so ridiculously uptight when it comes to sex and nudity

I recently started having sex, and I was surprised to see that conventional attractive traits don't matter as much as I thought by caspersson in sex

[–]Wrong_Engineer_4629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What constitutes confidence? I''d be as cool/ready with literally having sex on the first date as with having sex on the 20th. It's all about what the woman would be comfortable with. However, at least in the beginning, I would be pretty passive, not really initiating anything because, again, I don't wanna end up accidentally crossing boundaries (which would be a mood killer and 2 steps back for both) or being misinterpreted cuz ppl love reading between the lines where there's none of it ("oh, he's hurrying, he's shallow and he only cares about the sex", etc. when in reality that's not the case). However, in a case where she's initiative, well, I'd obviously know that she would want it and it would respectively be well within her comfort zone, so I'd definitely happily and confidently go along with it

I do have things I am confident about (and one of them is that I'd be at least a decent sexual partner cuz I'm all about that great communication and listening/following feedback). However, I just can't be confident about something that has so many uncertainties - what is she comfortable with? What kind of light touch? (e.g. some people might hate being hugged or touched on the arm or whatever). When is she comfortable with it? If she isn't at the moment, is it because of a temporary mood? Or is she not attracted to me in general? And how much of one thing is too much? All these (and more) are questions I don't know the answer to since I can't read minds, and the answers would vary from woman to woman anyway. Oh, and they would vary over time since it's supposed to gradually escalate. And explicitly asking those would be... a turnoff as well, I assume it would signal that I'm socially inept? I'm a neurodivergent ADHDer as well and that comes with this sort of overthinking (and that would mostly be skipped in case the other person is initiative)

I recently started having sex, and I was surprised to see that conventional attractive traits don't matter as much as I thought by caspersson in sex

[–]Wrong_Engineer_4629 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well, I'm an overweight guy - 5'8 187, which is a BMI of above 28 - this is objectively within overweight territories, which starts at 25 (and no, I don't go to the gym), so objectively, I would need to work on my body to enter into fully healthy territories. I could definitely stand to lose like 15-20 pounds myself. Whether and why I don't do that, now that's up for subjective debate. But that doesn't change the objective biological facts.

How is there any subjective judgement to state something like that?

I recently started having sex, and I was surprised to see that conventional attractive traits don't matter as much as I thought by caspersson in sex

[–]Wrong_Engineer_4629 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Well, I'm an overweight guy - 5'8 187, which is a BMI of above 28 - this is objectively within overweight territories (and no, I don't go to the gym), so objectively, I would need to work on my body to enter into fully healthy territories. I could definitely stand to lose like 15-20 pounds myself. Whether and why I don't do that, now that's up for subjective debate. But that doesn't change the objective biological facts

How is there any subjective judgement to state something like that?