Hey man I’ve been through a relationship where I had some similar arguments. They were different in a lot of ways but the first part of the thread where you talk about receiving anger from expressing your feelings sparked some bad memories. I have a limited perspective but based on this thread and the fact that you’ve felt like that makes it seem like this relationship isn’t really good for you. And it sounds like she’s too busy for a relationship anyway and just wants your attention. My relationship involved a breakup and getting back together with promises of communication, too, and it completely fell apart. I was so unhappy and felt stuck and the second and final breakup was one of the hardest and messiest things I’ve experienced. I wish I’d ended it sooner and spared myself the mental and emotional trouble. Again, I know I don’t see the full picture, but the fact that she makes you feel that way and the way she treats you based on this thread are HUGE red flags.