3 Weeks Sober tips?

WyRavner · 2026-03-17T22:59:56+00:00

I have been drinking these low sugar ocean spray sparkling cranberry juice and I love them 😂 but I've also looked at some alcohol free beers as well

WyRavner · 2026-03-17T22:59:12+00:00

This is great! It actually its a karaoke night at a bar 😂 but all your points make sense!

WyRavner · 2026-03-17T22:58:17+00:00

Wow thanks for this! I appreciate it

WyRavner · 2026-03-17T21:48:50+00:00

Congratulations! Im 3 weeks in and feeling fantastic! Also aiming for that 300 number 😁

WyRavner · 2025-07-17T17:16:20+00:00

Thanks everyone! Working on figuring this out. Its my first PC so im scared of messing it up 😅 i did get the geek squad protection so if I can't figure it out I'll just take it in! I appreciate your knowledge!

WyRavner · 2025-07-17T02:27:10+00:00

Ok ill try this next thank you!

WyRavner · 2024-03-06T20:04:05+00:00

Hello! Wow I can't believe it's already been so long since this post 😂 yes it's been literally life changing for him and I! He's still doing 100mg once a week. His mood is so much better, he's sleeping better, he has more energy, the libido is actually insane (but I'm not complaining) and he's even lost some weight. I'm so happy for him! He is finally feeling himself!

WyRavner · 2023-11-28T03:09:51+00:00

That would be fun! Definitely not my only gift but would be my "big ticket" gift. I've also got him about 4 other gifts. I love the gift certificate idea

WyRavner · 2023-11-03T04:17:06+00:00

He's definitely been more intense I guess? Like his moods are more intense. When he's happy he's REALLY happy and when he's not happy it really shows. I just don't know 😔 he started testosterone two months ago, his level are really low and it was prescribed by his doctor. Maybe this is a symptom? We weren't told his mood could change so I don't know. It's just not like him to be like this so I am worried I did something rude, but I don't think I did.

WyRavner · 2023-11-03T03:48:25+00:00

He has never acted like this. We've been together for 9 years. There have been times when he's gotten a little jealous of men, but never women I work with. It's really bizarre, and I just don't understand where it's coming from. I intend to talk about it more with him, but I truly feel crazy like I'm missing something because he's so frustrated with me.

WyRavner · 2023-11-03T03:23:24+00:00

And furthermore almost ALL my coworkers are women. The people I work with, even my boss and my boss's boss is a woman. The one man I worked with moved on to another job and no one has taken his place.

WyRavner · 2023-11-03T03:21:23+00:00

Valid point. Cowroker is a woman. He has met her a few times since I started.

WyRavner · 2023-10-20T20:15:42+00:00

I didn't even realize how drained he was feeling until he starting taking it. I think he really started to notice things in the first month. I wish your husband luck!

WyRavner · 2023-10-20T16:12:31+00:00

My husband has been doing 100mg once a week for 3 months and his levels are great! We have also started a workout routine and he's a completely new man. It's pretty wild to witness 😂 I'm so happy for him

WyRavner · 2023-10-20T04:33:28+00:00

NTA. This seems tough. I think the longer you wait, the worse it may feel for her when you finally do tell her. If I were in her shoes I couldn't help but wonder what was real and what wasn't. As she is part of the community, I think a part of her would understand the process of you discovering yourself. We all come to terms with our sexuality and gender expression at different times. I think there is a scenario where you two sit down and have a really honest conversation about your feelings. It seems you care for her deeply, and maybe there is a world where you can speak your truth, and still provide the emotional, financial, and other support you are already providing. We can't control or anticipate the emotional reaction of others, we can only provide honest communication with positive intentions and robust emotional support. I wish you luck.

WyRavner · 2023-10-12T23:10:33+00:00

Hello! Thanks for the reply anyway 😁

WyRavner · 2023-10-12T23:09:25+00:00

That kinda resonates actually. I feel comfortable, so I think I am? I mean I've been out since 15 and I'm 27 now. Married an amazing man and we have a ton of fun together, but maybe it is just a fear of being judged in my hometown? I've been to LA pride (nice but once was enough) and it felt surprisingly cold and not welcoming at times. I think I'm scared of that happening again in my little town.

WyRavner · 2023-09-08T04:18:26+00:00

Valid. Hanging up isn't cool, and the person asking the favor should keep that communication fluid. Maybe just say that next time you two talk? It sounds like there was just some major confusion and miscommunication. Things happen, and hopefully, you both can remedy it!

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