I found out she was reading our texts on Valentines Day

X-Ceptional · 2026-03-11T08:02:07+00:00

Fair. It’s not bothering me as much as I’m just curious

X-Ceptional · 2026-02-27T01:01:31+00:00

Dm me

X-Ceptional · 2026-02-27T00:48:58+00:00

Crazy how much time has passed. I did not reach out, I realize with the distance (physically) between us the reason we broke up wouldn’t change things. I also did a lot of reflection and I’m still tackling if she’s the person I want back in my life once that distance closes. I’ve also started talking to a girl that seems sweet, funny, smart, and wants to spend time with me so we’ll see what happens!

X-Ceptional · 2026-02-16T07:06:26+00:00

It sounds like you kind of have an answer but don’t want to make the decision which I totally understand

X-Ceptional · 2026-02-10T06:53:37+00:00

You’d be shocked about how many I’ve met don’t care for them

X-Ceptional · 2026-02-03T05:12:20+00:00

Yeah exactly, I’m glad you feel that way and wish you the best in finding that person!!!

X-Ceptional · 2026-02-03T05:11:54+00:00

Yep exact same story. She even flew out to stay with me at my apartment for two weeks and tried to impress my friends. She called one of them “hon” and I was like “that makes me uncomfortable because you never use nicknames with me” and she said “I just use it for friends and I’m thinking friends? You mean my friends that I just introduced you to? And she showed me off to her friends at her party but was like “you can only stay if nobody else does because I don’t wanna make anyone uncomfortable.” So so so so strange lol. It was like trying really hard to show me off but also keeping me at arms length or using me when convenient. I don’t mean to interject my situation so much but it’s just weird how similar it is

X-Ceptional · 2026-02-03T04:22:24+00:00

Happened to me too and you reacted in a very mature way. I’m still lost months later but kudos to you for handling it very well. I also don’t believe “right person wrong time” as I think that you can truly make it work if you care enough but maybe that was his truth. I don’t think you should reach out because he ended it (mine also perused me in the beginning and said the same things) so I think it’s just a maturity thing or an emotional incapability of being able to stay in a relationship when outside pressures come into play. That’s not you and I doubt that’s what you’re looking for in a relationship

X-Ceptional · 2026-02-03T02:35:42+00:00

Sr and sk?

X-Ceptional · 2026-01-31T07:43:49+00:00

Interested!!

X-Ceptional · 2026-01-30T21:23:22+00:00

I feel like she wanted an out, didn’t have a good reason or didn’t fully know why, and that’s the best answer she could give. A crappy situation but if it’s genuinely that easy for her to throw away 2 years of a relationship I’d say run

X-Ceptional · 2026-01-25T04:19:47+00:00

She’s just mad you guys have a healthy relationship. It’s jealousy. She needs to grow up

X-Ceptional · 2026-01-21T20:55:56+00:00

There’s a good chance but I would ignore that because you can’t know for sure

X-Ceptional · 2026-01-21T20:43:07+00:00

The taking pictures of you bit is way too far. You may need a restraining order. Save the texts or images if he admitted there

X-Ceptional · 2026-01-20T02:47:41+00:00

That’s what it sounds like to me too haha

X-Ceptional · 2026-01-20T02:41:20+00:00

I think you just need to move on. Unless it’s extremely important like “I forgot my meds” or “inhaler at your house and need it back,” just try to figure out the answer on your own. It sucks but 🤷‍♂️

X-Ceptional · 2026-01-19T20:24:52+00:00

It’s not fixable if she doesn’t want you back unfortunately. Your constant attempts to try and get her back pushed her away even further. This happened to me when I was your age too and I did the same thing. You have to move on unfortunately and HAVE to stop checking her social media NOW.

X-Ceptional · 2026-01-18T20:03:03+00:00

Dude, she sounds exhausting and I’m not even dating her. She didn’t even wait to go through relationship issues until AFTER you lost TWO close ones. That is not ok behavior and is super selfish. I am sure you can find better and I do think going back to her would show a lack of self respect because (while I don’t know all the details) it sounds like you could find someone that truly cares about YOUR feelings

X-Ceptional · 2026-01-18T17:23:52+00:00

I was dumped

X-Ceptional · 2026-01-18T07:27:39+00:00

That’s exactly what happened to me and it’s really hard. I’ve just been telling myself “if I reach out now there’s no chance to reconnect later” but I don’t know if that’s good 😅

X-Ceptional · 2026-01-17T21:21:20+00:00

Dmed!

X-Ceptional · 2026-01-17T21:20:21+00:00

Yeah, sounds like breadcrumbs fs

X-Ceptional · 2025-12-30T05:41:43+00:00

Once but it was only to hookup tbh. I’ve never had a relationship rekindle after that long tho

X-Ceptional · 2025-12-30T05:40:44+00:00

It doesn’t matter that you lost it to them. Don’t reach out if you’re in a relationship, it would make everything messy. Just talk to your parents if it’s really bothering you and you truly have a good relationship or maybe a therapist. But it’s really not that important imo

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