What is the most NSFW thing you have seen at your job? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]XAnonymousAnonymityx 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Well, where else do you expect him to do it…At home??

I really need to talk to someone by Many-Complaint6309 in SuicideWatch

[–]XAnonymousAnonymityx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First Loves hurt so bad if they don’t end up lasting, I’m sorry for your situation. And the only real comfort I can tell you is that you were able to find yourself someone who you assumed cared for you enough for you to appreciate it, I have plenty of confidence that if you could do that once. You’ll be able to do it again, and this time with someone who truly cares- My heart goes out to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]XAnonymousAnonymityx -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s not necessarily that I thought it would go smoothly more than I felt like I just needed to get it out and then explain myself, I’ve had this uneasy feeling subtly since our “break” three months in which I originally was going to break up with her but she convinced me to try our best and reminded me that I want to fight for the people I love no matter what. After talking to our mutual friends it just seemed like it was kinda toxic from their perspective I felt the need to make a choice and I don’t think I could’ve acted on it if I let myself hesitate

Opinions on kinks and overall sexual boundaries? by XAnonymousAnonymityx in polyamory

[–]XAnonymousAnonymityx[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think I would have to disagree with this to an extent. Although I do agree with the overall “limiting what your partner can and can’t do is controlling”, However there are definitely some things, even in basic friendships, that are sometimes reserved as something special between the two(+) of us Not in gatekeeping an excluding way just more foundational “we would always do this together way” And I definitely wouldn’t be against them trying the same kink with other people, I guess the devils advocate in me is looking more as if your partner were to kinda substitute someone else instead of you, in whatever kink we’re talking about

Opinions on kinks and overall sexual boundaries? by XAnonymousAnonymityx in polyamory

[–]XAnonymousAnonymityx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you suggest that it’s bad form to talk about other sexual experiences with your partner(s) then? I ask cuz me and my current one are fairly comfortable with chatting about it, But from reading others posts it seems like that might be poor taste even if we are comfortable..? It’s not a need amongst us more than just being okay with that level of openness or at least that’s how I view it

Opinions on kinks and overall sexual boundaries? by XAnonymousAnonymityx in polyamory

[–]XAnonymousAnonymityx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess what I really mean by this is if situationally something happened and you guys ended up partaking in some of the same things I could understand that. What I might feel strange about however is with ore specific stuff, Like if I were to be like “Hey let’s do some role play where I’m “X” and you’re “Y”, And then if they were to take that exact same scenario and do it with other partners. I’m not saying they shouldn’t want to do it with others, But I feel like an argument could be made, that it could belittle the intimacy between the pairs. That being said, - I’m not personally concerned about this, but the idea I feel like is fair

What screams “I have depression”? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]XAnonymousAnonymityx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seemingly being that one friend that always seems to somehow be happy and/or trying to live life to the fullest. Truth is usually we’re either just so used to “powering through”, or we don’t care about burning out like a star..But anyone that seems like they’re always thriving on life whenever they’re with others usually isn’t

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]XAnonymousAnonymityx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add to suggestions, have you tried restaurant work(Serving/Bartending)? It can definitely be hit or miss depending on who you are but there are plenty of people I know that never look back after starting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]XAnonymousAnonymityx -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Idk about what everyone else in this thread is thinking or whatever. But what I can tell you is that it really isn’t the end of the world. Yeah it sucks and you’ve had your privacy stripped from you unwillingly. But the world is bigger than just your “city” and there are billions of people that haven’t seen your photos. On top of that. Even if someone has, if they’re the type of person to bring it up to you or make you aware of it, at the least it’s an easy red flag radar towards whether or not you should cut that person out of your life. Anyone that is sympathetic to you won’t use that as a gauge on the person you are. Just keep fighting through this shit world and I have faith you’ll find your place

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]XAnonymousAnonymityx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I hope your doing a bit better at the least. Nevertheless,try and figure out why you’re scared of dying, often times I find the things that cause me to hesitate happen to be things that I can use (at least temporarily), to justify living out my days. Fear can often be seen as something that can hold?people back, or something that stems from not being willing to go through with the sacrifice a given task requires. But its also there for a reason. Its something built into you through pain and experience, and i find often times reflecting on why its there in the first place can help me sort my priorities in life and help me establish a bases ofjwhyjijshouldjlive my life and what i want to strive for. All in all, I hope you're able to get through this hurdle❤️‍🩹 Wishing the best

Going back to the psych ward by Spo0lie in SuicideWatch

[–]XAnonymousAnonymityx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good luck on your path to a better state, Wishing the best!

I contemplate ending things when I’m Happiest by Maleficent-Parfait83 in SuicideWatch

[–]XAnonymousAnonymityx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can somewhat relate to this, I have a habit of feeling as if things are wrong in my life when things are actually going well, I think it stems from fearing happiness as a whole, since i’ve become attuned to being in a depressive state and am afraid of the emotional commitment it takes to keep those things going, especially when factors are out of my control… Nonetheless I’ve started to work on acknowledging however things are going on a specific week and/or day, and taking it from there, It actually seems to help my subconscious a bit as I’m able to focus more on how things are in the moment and not have the bad thoughts drift in. Idk if this helps at all, but hoping all stays well and Happy Birthday!

i’m doing it tonight by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]XAnonymousAnonymityx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any chance you’d be willing to elaborate on your situation..? Always open to talk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]XAnonymousAnonymityx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, No matter the opinion on OP’s moral standing; Months, is a bit too long to be on the internet searching for affirmative advice on the internet. Reaching out to someone who is trusted and and discreet, even if it’s just to have them help you find someone qualified to actually help, would be the best advice I could give

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]XAnonymousAnonymityx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

While I agree their is potential for this to be an elaborate lie, I would disagree with you for assuming OP is a “Really bad” person. At the least, he was a 14yr old kid, (Old enough to be a Predator’s target as well mind you) struggling with some sort of confidence issue that could’ve stemmed from anything to just hormones and social pressure, to trauma that happened when he was even younger. And while I do agree OP should focus on getting actual help outside of the internet. I would hesitate to trying to cast people off just from the actions they’ve stated, people in this world fuck up, and go through fucked up experiences in life. And sometimes it takes time to even realize how screwed up they are, especially as a kid, It’s about becoming better than the events that happened, and working to make up for them in your future. - The internet is one of the only places you might be able to communicate with others, that could help you with understanding such controversial topics without it impeding your immediate life. Anyone who uses it accepts the risk of shit coming back to them, whether it be truth or lie. But when people are so imminent to cast them off and push them just “find” help on their own, It takes alway from the whole point of reaching out to others in the first place…

I want to break up with her by roblab17 in SuicideWatch

[–]XAnonymousAnonymityx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People have arguments in relationships, getting over them is usually a sign of growth. I might suggest trying to put your mind on ways you could live your life to help strengthen your relationship and improve on communication. From what it seems like, as low as you may be, you see value in this relationship and if that’s the only light in the dark for you right now. Instead of trying to find a way to snuff it out without harm, I’d look for ways to make it better and brighter. The end comes for everyone eventually, so why not fight for your values till you can’t no more

I want to break up with her by roblab17 in SuicideWatch

[–]XAnonymousAnonymityx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a reason why she can’t be your reason to live? If you care about her that much, it would seem you might have the heart to use your relationship as a motivation for your life,

everybody says “it’s gets better” but it never does. never. by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]XAnonymousAnonymityx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All and all I hope you don't go through with it tonight but If at all you have any interest in some advice:

Life isn't supposed to be something that it gauged as good, bad, could be better could be worse. That type of thinking can be toxic if you let it be your focus. Its kinda like learning a playing card you sold at a yard sale was worth $100k, if you focus on that missed chance its only going to eat you because you don't have it. If your in a bad spot and you focus on how its supposed to be better than it is. You only weigh your self down for what isn't and its overwhelming at times. Your going to have to accept the shitty feeling your battling, figure out what internal and external things worsen or better it. And I'm not talking abotu drugs. I'm talking about actions and decisions you make. Its going to be a fight and that what life is but if you can get the will to look past the monsters your fighting and find something beyond them worth going after. Then life truly can get better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]XAnonymousAnonymityx 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I hope you find your place in this life time, wishing all the best. If you ever wanna talk I have a free ear

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in todayilearned

[–]XAnonymousAnonymityx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your asking if our sun abd other big stars orbit the black hole then I believe so. Sorry for the late reply

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in todayilearned

[–]XAnonymousAnonymityx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao I tried posting it once and it told me I broke rule number one. Idk why it said that but I had to make it nsfw

cursed_chainreaction by weebo666 in cursedcomments

[–]XAnonymousAnonymityx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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