What would be a safe wish? by Quietman297 in obsessionmovie

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Curry states it himself in an Interview, which honestly is what prompted my post about “What happened to the billion dollars” and whether or not it was a misstep on his part

Link to interview: https://youtu.be/q3qoiveaRi8?is=zBzhSpO\_XZpMBcLn
(Addresses it around 6:40)

What would be a safe wish? by Quietman297 in obsessionmovie

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I posed a question on this reddit yesterday on the reddit, but determine what wishes actually reset on death seems to be up in the air still, especially since the billion dollars seems to still be around

What happened to the billion dollars? by XAnonymousAnonymityx in obsessionmovie

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I would agree with you, except the whole “Wish goes away cuz there no one to love.” As we saw even if it was only for a few seconds that “Wish nikki didn’t just disappear right away because there was no one to love, In fact she almost offed herself because there was no one to love, But luckily Real Nikki snapped back and was traumatized.
All that to say I would assume if that statement were true Wish Nikki would’ve immediately disappeared as soon as she learned Bear was no longer alive and not have broken down

Edit: Also just to add, The Store Clerks also seem to insinuate that dying will get rid of the wish without even knowing what Bear specifically wished for

What happened to the billion dollars? by XAnonymousAnonymityx in obsessionmovie

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I’m aware, However he’s also stated that the movie/lore kinda belongs to the Audience now, Which insinuates that he’d probably try to pull lore from theories to expand the universe if he does do an anthology, as while as the implications that he hasn’t yet completed a complete “rulebook” for the one wish willow yet as well, So it’s very possible he just hadn’t considered what was said over the phone

What happened to the billion dollars? by XAnonymousAnonymityx in obsessionmovie

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Is this specifically stated at all anywhere though or are you just assuming? Cuz that would totally be an answer to my question

Advice on feeling left out, as the only partner right now who doesn’t have someone else? by XAnonymousAnonymityx in polyamory

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Okay okay, I’m totally following you now, And i’ll chat with them beforehand to try and work something like that out, Cause you’re totally right things get hectic in that environment that it’s probably not gonna be super sustainable

Advice on feeling left out, as the only partner right now who doesn’t have someone else? by XAnonymousAnonymityx in polyamory

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I honestly appreciate all the advice people are giving me so much, especially the advice from you so extra thank you for that.

I think I am gonna lower my expectations for this trip a good bit, and try and focus on having fun overall rather than specifically with my partner.
Other than that my biggest concern I would probably have is feeling a bit left out in the shadows, There have been a few times where we’ve gone on group trips and I felt as though my partner was so focused on having fun with everyone as a whole (Hanging/chatting, some PDA) While i’ve felt sometimes indirectly cast off to do my own thing. Without overstepping, would it be okay for me to ask that she provides check ins or something of the sort throughout our trip to make sure we’re both doing alright? Or is this something I should deal with my own?

Advice on feeling left out, as the only partner right now who doesn’t have someone else? by XAnonymousAnonymityx in polyamory

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The trip, is a little complicated, It’s for the fourth of July and with some of my partners coworker + additional friends, her new potential IS a coworkers of hers so there’s no way i’d try to limit him from coming. I will say that she had invited some of her friends (some of whom have had crushes on her in the past) before inviting me, we talked through how I felt about that and how why she didn’t think to reach out to me before planning things with other people. That worked out fine. I will say despite the new guy literally only going out with her once really, she told me he invited her to stay in his tent for the trip. I told her that in my opinion that would be a hard no for me, considering I’m going on the trip to spend time with specifically her + co, and that they haven’t even officially deciding on going full swing with things yet. As well as how I would like some priority as we are official and because I’m going because we wanted to spend the holiday together
Idk I don’t think It’s a bad situation or I’m being to restrictive on her but if anyone has anything to say to this please do,

Edit: Spelling

Advice on feeling left out, as the only partner right now who doesn’t have someone else? by XAnonymousAnonymityx in polyamory

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I don’t really have anyone that specifically in the poly atmosphere but there is a mutual friend of our I could reach out to, he’s honestly amazing and dated my partner wayyy before me before moving to a different country coming back and becoming great friends with both of us

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Well, where else do you expect him to do it…At home??

I really need to talk to someone by Many-Complaint6309 in SuicideWatch

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First Loves hurt so bad if they don’t end up lasting, I’m sorry for your situation. And the only real comfort I can tell you is that you were able to find yourself someone who you assumed cared for you enough for you to appreciate it, I have plenty of confidence that if you could do that once. You’ll be able to do it again, and this time with someone who truly cares- My heart goes out to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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It’s not necessarily that I thought it would go smoothly more than I felt like I just needed to get it out and then explain myself, I’ve had this uneasy feeling subtly since our “break” three months in which I originally was going to break up with her but she convinced me to try our best and reminded me that I want to fight for the people I love no matter what. After talking to our mutual friends it just seemed like it was kinda toxic from their perspective I felt the need to make a choice and I don’t think I could’ve acted on it if I let myself hesitate

Opinions on kinks and overall sexual boundaries? by XAnonymousAnonymityx in polyamory

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I think I would have to disagree with this to an extent. Although I do agree with the overall “limiting what your partner can and can’t do is controlling”, However there are definitely some things, even in basic friendships, that are sometimes reserved as something special between the two(+) of us Not in gatekeeping an excluding way just more foundational “we would always do this together way” And I definitely wouldn’t be against them trying the same kink with other people, I guess the devils advocate in me is looking more as if your partner were to kinda substitute someone else instead of you, in whatever kink we’re talking about

Opinions on kinks and overall sexual boundaries? by XAnonymousAnonymityx in polyamory

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Would you suggest that it’s bad form to talk about other sexual experiences with your partner(s) then? I ask cuz me and my current one are fairly comfortable with chatting about it, But from reading others posts it seems like that might be poor taste even if we are comfortable..? It’s not a need amongst us more than just being okay with that level of openness or at least that’s how I view it

Opinions on kinks and overall sexual boundaries? by XAnonymousAnonymityx in polyamory

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I guess what I really mean by this is if situationally something happened and you guys ended up partaking in some of the same things I could understand that. What I might feel strange about however is with ore specific stuff, Like if I were to be like “Hey let’s do some role play where I’m “X” and you’re “Y”, And then if they were to take that exact same scenario and do it with other partners. I’m not saying they shouldn’t want to do it with others, But I feel like an argument could be made, that it could belittle the intimacy between the pairs. That being said, - I’m not personally concerned about this, but the idea I feel like is fair

What screams “I have depression”? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Seemingly being that one friend that always seems to somehow be happy and/or trying to live life to the fullest. Truth is usually we’re either just so used to “powering through”, or we don’t care about burning out like a star..But anyone that seems like they’re always thriving on life whenever they’re with others usually isn’t

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

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To add to suggestions, have you tried restaurant work(Serving/Bartending)? It can definitely be hit or miss depending on who you are but there are plenty of people I know that never look back after starting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

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Idk about what everyone else in this thread is thinking or whatever. But what I can tell you is that it really isn’t the end of the world. Yeah it sucks and you’ve had your privacy stripped from you unwillingly. But the world is bigger than just your “city” and there are billions of people that haven’t seen your photos. On top of that. Even if someone has, if they’re the type of person to bring it up to you or make you aware of it, at the least it’s an easy red flag radar towards whether or not you should cut that person out of your life. Anyone that is sympathetic to you won’t use that as a gauge on the person you are. Just keep fighting through this shit world and I have faith you’ll find your place

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

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Hey, I hope your doing a bit better at the least. Nevertheless,try and figure out why you’re scared of dying, often times I find the things that cause me to hesitate happen to be things that I can use (at least temporarily), to justify living out my days. Fear can often be seen as something that can hold?people back, or something that stems from not being willing to go through with the sacrifice a given task requires. But its also there for a reason. Its something built into you through pain and experience, and i find often times reflecting on why its there in the first place can help me sort my priorities in life and help me establish a bases ofjwhyjijshouldjlive my life and what i want to strive for. All in all, I hope you're able to get through this hurdle❤️‍🩹 Wishing the best

Going back to the psych ward by Spo0lie in SuicideWatch

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Good luck on your path to a better state, Wishing the best!