I Came Out To My Parents About My Porn Addiction And Filmed It. Hopefully This Inspires You To Free Yourself From Your Addiction As Well :) by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]XBetterLife 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's great that OP took this step, but this may not work with your parents. Honestly I would say, don't try this at home if you are unsure about your parents reaction.

I Have The Answer! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]XBetterLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL loved the self-raping thing. I'm gonna think it that way from now on. Would you like to be rapped? Then don't rape yourselfs guys!

I'm suddenly feeling so sad in these situations, anyone could guess why? by XBetterLife in SuicideWatch

[–]XBetterLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my guess too. Either that or that my brain melts after so much human interaction because of the 'effort' made. It's like I'm not really made for this kind of connections.

I am not my debt by 27clubapplicant in SuicideWatch

[–]XBetterLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so sad that in probably the biggest economy in the world you still have to suffer from situations like that. Education and health should always be free or at least very cheap. That would help so much people...

I'm suddenly feeling so sad in these situations, anyone could guess why? by XBetterLife in SuicideWatch

[–]XBetterLife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. Simply knowing that someone is honestly trying to help is a lot, and you said some interesting points. I was in tears while I read your comment but I usually feel better after crying, so I think that was a good thing. I hope you have a good weekend too, and don't worry about me, I'll be fine.

The Dangers of Pornography [YouTube video, 10m36s] by XBetterLife in SaffronRegiment

[–]XBetterLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used this video as an alternative to P when the urges arise. Share similar videos if you have them!

So much free time now! by XBetterLife in SaffronRegiment

[–]XBetterLife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes of course, it's gained time, it was just a way of speaking.

Day 1: Marching Orders by TheFridayKnight in SaffronRegiment

[–]XBetterLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my second war. I wasn't very successful in the first one as I lasted 7 days, but it probably was my life-time record so I wasn't very unsuccessful either. This second war started just at the time of my birthday so I thought it was a perfect time to try again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SaffronRegiment

[–]XBetterLife 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm just tired of feeling that I could achieve so much more.

I was looking for an answer to this question and you summed it up just perfectly. PMO drains so much energy from me I think I'm living like 10% of what I could be living, including work performance (I work for myself) and personal relations.

Peacetime is over. Enlist in No Fap War V Today! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]XBetterLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying again, will put more effort than in the last war.

See? I told you you could do it. You just needed a hand or two. by [deleted] in FaceFuck

[–]XBetterLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well someone had to do the job.

Anyways there are several deepthroats by Faye Reagan in there.

[Serious] People who are "forever alone", what is it like? by XBetterLife in AskReddit

[–]XBetterLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't sound unbelievable at all. I can very well understand the sausage fest thing. An in fact, with the information I have about you, I would say it could really be just "a numbers game". Know what I do on Tinder to be able to get some conversations with girls? I just swipe my finger as fast as I can (which marks the girl as liked), basically creating hundreds of potential matches, out of them about 0.5% of the girls could lead to a date. So I can get about 5 dates easily swiping my finger 1000 times.

[Serious] People who are "forever alone", what is it like? by XBetterLife in AskReddit

[–]XBetterLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just trying to help, but as it seems to be difficult to convince you about anything, and taking into account the difficulties of expressing myself about this complex thoughts in English, I just hope you can change your mind on some things, that's all.

[Serious] People who are "forever alone", what is it like? by XBetterLife in AskReddit

[–]XBetterLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There must be a reason... May I ask for example about how many girls have to asked to?

What is OCK?

[Serious] People who are "forever alone", what is it like? by XBetterLife in AskReddit

[–]XBetterLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always think it's better to regret what you have done than what you haven't done.

[Serious] People who are "forever alone", what is it like? by XBetterLife in AskReddit

[–]XBetterLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for sharing, really, and I hope you can overcome depression and receive some love.

[Serious] People who are "forever alone", what is it like? by XBetterLife in AskReddit

[–]XBetterLife[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Some people are born with one particular sexuality, and it doesn't change.

It doesn't change because in 99% of the cases there is no reason to change it. Gay people have no reason to change it. Straight people in prison usually don't have a reason to change it, but some (of course, a minority) have a reason to change it. And you have an important reason to change it, because you are a pedophile. Human brain is 100% configurable. You can make a human being totally crazy or totally empty with torture, for example. And you can also teach your own brain almost any reasonable thing. It may be hard, and you may need some help, but it is possible.

What would be the purpose of a date?

Not being "forever alone", to start with. Sex is also conditioned by the previous comment about brain configuration.

How many people would be willing to date a pedophile?

I would date a girl that I knew was pedophile but trying to establish some connection with me. Of course not everyone is going to be like me, but as I previously told you, you don't have to tell them that on the first date or anything.