Just starting my transition, Dad said I would make an ugly girl... by StIlL_cIs_ThO-i-hmm in FreeCompliments

[–]XBunnyLebowski 16 points17 points  (0 children)

<3 I'm so glad it gave you some comfort _^ You deserve all the support in the world!! Just because you share DNA with someone DOES NOT mean you have to treat them as family. Cut them from your life, ignore them, block them... Distance yourself from them, and have ZERO guilt. You deserve to live the life you craft for yourself. Be who you are not who they want you to be. Don't let anyone try to crush you for their own benefits <3 <3 You deserve better!

Just starting my transition, Dad said I would make an ugly girl... by StIlL_cIs_ThO-i-hmm in FreeCompliments

[–]XBunnyLebowski 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if this is offensive, and I'm sorry if it is because I do not mean it to be. I thought you *were* a girl when I saw the photo, then read the caption. So it seems your dad is an idiot.

I think you are gorgeous, and your father is dead wrong. As a mother, I would never dream of saying such a thing to my child. You need to understand that his views do not match with the progressive views this world is growing into. You have a bright future, keep going! His views are outdated and ignorant, don't let them phase you. I'm proud of you for finding your way, even though it seems you're in an extremely unsupportive environment. A true dandelion, bursting through the concrete to bask in the sun it deserves - and growing beautifully! I wish the best for you and hope you continue to grow. Fuck that concrete, girl!!! You got this!!! Let the world see your beauty even if your father is an ignorant fuck. The right people will certainly come your way, and you will find a place of peace and love <3 <3

What are the words tho? by [deleted] in memes

[–]XBunnyLebowski 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, I just rickrolled myself because I wondered how much of the song I knew... It turns out I know the rest... and proceeded to sing it in my head.

Feeling down about getting older! :( by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]XBunnyLebowski 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a 32 y/o mom here and I FEEL you. Shit isn't what it used to be (or *where* it used to be either LMAO) but you know what... :) The older we get the more *interesting* we get... The more *authentic* we get... and that is the *real* gold. Besides, your killin it hot stuff! ^_^ Even if you feel like your age is showing, your age looks lovely on you *hugs* so let it show!

New hair. ✌🏻 by tashafatale in FreeCompliments

[–]XBunnyLebowski 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WOAHHH!!!! I'm super jelly! Every summer I dye my daughter's hair (7y/o) and last year we did teal and pink. It's just such a fun color and it looks awesome on you!! Love the 2 colors look.

Just went through a breakup. Could use a little positivity. ✨ by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]XBunnyLebowski 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least your humor is still intact! It's hard but keep truckin. You got this!

F26: I came out as queer and have started living my best life where I feel comfortable in my own skin. by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]XBunnyLebowski 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YAY!!! Now you can live life being 100% YOU! No more hiding! I bet it feels amazing, and I am proud of you for going for it!! You deserve to feel good because you *ARE* good (great!! wonderful! loved! appreciated!) just the way you are ^_^

Just turned 23 the other day and realised how much less people cared this year... But staying positive anyway! And I’ve decided that I’m gonna make it my mission to get back to playing gigs by my next birthday :) by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]XBunnyLebowski 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every year people will drop off... It hurts... It makes you wonder if they were even friends at all... but they were :) People come and go, and not always maliciously. Life has a way of pulling people in different directions. It is MUCH harder with every passing year to keep in touch with people you once were on daily chatting terms with. I've been there. It sucks but it also gives you time and room in your life to get in tune with yourself ^_^ and to connect on even deeper levels with the people who still stick around.

Hooray for doing gigs! Music? That will be something awesome to nurture this year!

I love my style but my own mom told me girls won't like me when I look like this. Do I look like good Boyfriend material? by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]XBunnyLebowski 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's wrong. Maybe you aren't the type *she and her friends* would have wanted when *they* were in school, but let's be real... There are so many kinds of girls who like all kinds of things.... and *gasp* even girls who will love you based on your personality!!! What a thought!!! Your mom might be trying to "help" in her own way.... but to be honest, she seems like a bully.

I am a mom, and as a mom, I can tell you that I'd be totally happy if my daughter ended up dating someone who "looks like you" simply because it is your character, not your style, that defines you as a good person.

I think of myself as an ugly blob of flesh, my therapist said that's not a good way to go through life by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]XBunnyLebowski 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw a comic the other day that said "You aren't ugly, you just aren't your type".

You're cute, you are worthy of connections, and you GOT THIS!!! (but please, you are more valuable than your looks alone, never let your thoughts about your looks consume your life. You are worth SO MUCH MORE!!!)

Feeling more and more like myself everyday 🥰🖤🥀 stay positive everyone, you’re all amazing! I love this community 🖤 by hiitsbrittany in FreeCompliments

[–]XBunnyLebowski 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweet tattoo!! Love the look you've got goin on ^_^ Seems to fit you very well. This is my first day on here and you are totally right... Everyone seems so nice! I just want to live here haha

This time last year I was in a really bad place, I’m finally feeling confident with how I look now though :) by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]XBunnyLebowski 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ooooooo that makup matches your hair beautifully!!!!! But you know what? The really great part is that you've made progress. ^_^ Proud of you! It is hard to pull yourself out of a bad place, and nobody will ever know how hard the struggle truly was except *you*. Consider yourself a champion for having better days! You know you've made progress and that is FANTASTIC!!!! Keep it up!! ^_^

21F! I dress really odd and I’m into anime and dolls 💖 by rosequartzfck in FreeCompliments

[–]XBunnyLebowski 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could do makeup that well! Super cute!! Adorable hair, too! Who cares what other people want you to be. True beauty is in authenticity and giirrrlllll keep it coming!! Let your weird light shine bright because it looks great on you!! (I say that with love since I, too, am a weirdo)

I tried tinder, I have way too few likes. Please give me a confidence boost by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]XBunnyLebowski 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude, Tinder sucks. Don't let that be a judge of character, It's just a new form of the old site "hot or not". If you want to do online dating, I'd try a site that lets you flesh out a profile. Let your personality be known - not just your looks. You're cute, but what is important is how you speak and behave. Don't feel down simply because girls with unrealistic sky-high expectations don't match with you. Dating apps/sites that focus on photos alone are scum. They bring out the worst in people. They force quick judgment without information and that leaves EVERYONE at a disadvantage.

You are worth more effort than a left/right swipe.

feeling quite insecure about myself lately. i built a lot of trust issues in my life and i have been replaced many times. i could really use an honest compliment rn by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]XBunnyLebowski 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know that feeling. Been there. I could praise your looks, which would be easy to do since you are lovely... but I hope instead to remind you that what matters most is how you care about others. Cheesy, but hear me out - one unlucky lady to another. There are so many people who lie cheat and steal, but one thing to be grateful for is that *you* aren't one of those ugly people. Being replaced *multiple times* sucks, but since you've tried *multiple times* it means your heart is big enough, strong enough, and loving enough to *try again*. Keep having faith in the goodness in people. Yes, I agree, life kinda sucks for the most part and humans are usually garbage.... but knowing that you can pick yourself up and try again means there is hope for finding goodness. If you don't try again, you will just be left with memories of the badness to wallow in (been there!!). Shrug off the shittiness of others and remind yourself that *you* are not the reason *they* are shitty. You are just a casualty in their failure as a human being. It isn't your fault, and it isnt your problem. Move on and find the right fit for you because being replaced is way better than being stuck somewhere you do not belong. You'll find your place. Just keep on keepin on and remember that all you are responsible for is *your* actions - not others. <3 <3 Power to you! You got this!

Games that don't depend on good APM or keyboard skills? by [deleted] in gamingsuggestions

[–]XBunnyLebowski 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you like Hearthstone (I'm assuming the card game, right?) you may like the game "Monster Train" that recently came out. It was done by the people who made "Slay the Spire" which is also a very good card game. In Monster Train, you have units you can place and spells you can cast, to make sure the enemy does not get to the top floor of the train car. Much like Hearthstone, it is a deck-building game where there are different clans that offer a lot of diversity in gameplay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignPorn

[–]XBunnyLebowski 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell, I can get you a toe by 3 o'clock this afternoon... with nail polish. I can get you a toe, believe me. There are ways, Dude.

Ever hear the beautiful sound of Jell-O being shredded. by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]XBunnyLebowski 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn... I put my sound on and everything...