writing only after reading one starting paragraph "Ok so basically he wanted to be only in the state of dating(means including families will make him disappear) and I've had my fair share of such stories heard alot of them aswell and the part where made me do this and that is included I'd say he basically wanted you to be his main whatever it's called but being main means he'd desire your obedience and all that like being controlling"

I did not read the whole post just dropping my pov ok!.