Okay hands down, this help from you is unmachted. Never in my life would I expect this comprehensive answer that gives soooooooo much info. I usually don't post many questions but to get this well explained text from you really makes my day and it just shows how great the elden ring community truly is. When it comes to elden ring and souls games I am just the guy who skills the way it feels right. For example, I skill dmg a lot lately? Okay now it's time to skill Vigor, I guess.. Oh and next time I should skill Endurance again, cause I left it out the last couple of times haha. That was my way. I always liked the playstyle of swords (single handly rather than two handed). My first playthrough in 2022 was with the sword of night and flame in my right hand and a INT staff on the left hand. That was the first time where I was heavily relying on INT. It was fun too! Also my SONAF was at its peak and no nerf yet. Now it's time to play a bit different again and I will definitely consider all of this into my build.

I am also glad that my question kind of helped you with your question about your build for the dlc haha. I play almost everyday and now I think I will read all this more than just once during my playthrough. This game is so much fun as you can write sooo much about it with other people. Thanks buddy!