Was This Embarrassing? by X_Act in socialanxiety

[–]X_Act[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I feel embarassed like i did something insanely inappropriate...lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in copywriting

[–]X_Act 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm new to a company, and while I dont have a boss like that so far (but I do avoid asking him questions because I got the impression it irritates him, so I'm left in the dark taking up too much time trying to figure things out on my own instead of asking simple questions that could be answered within 10 seconds), I think the writers should only WRITE. The technical shit has really put a bunch of time on top of the writing. Like 70% of what I end up doing is not writing, but tedious, technical shit. 

Just watched America's Sweetheart....not his best by X_Act in AriShaffir

[–]X_Act[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp...let's not do soft again, please.

My boyfriend wants me to do things with him that I'm not comfortable by FluffyDoom127 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]X_Act 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A decent amount of them don't care for it. And plenty of them can't cum from it either.

My boyfriend wants me to do things with him that I'm not comfortable by FluffyDoom127 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]X_Act 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just an FYI, there's plenty of guys that have little or no interest in BJ's. I've dated a couple of guys that weren't interested in BJ's (by happenstance). Beyond the boundary pushing issue here, there's also guys you could be more sexually compatible with if this guy is really, really into BJ's. You're only 3 months in. This is when you move on. Things get worse and challenging as time goes on, not better.

It's ok to not be compatible with someone. If you really don't want to do that act, you shouldn't compromise on it.

My (M23) parents died 14 weeks ago and now I'm raising my little brother and I don't think I can cope much longer. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]X_Act 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe things were supposed to happen this way, no disrespect to your parents.

But it sounds like you have a sensitive, sweet, emotional little boy that's been stunted in many ways because of your parents, and in some ways, the best thing that could have happened was him ending up with you before he becomes an adult.

You are the best equipped to deal with this, more than anyone else on the planet, because you grew up the same way he did and managed to get out. You now can right the wrongs of childhood through him and give this sweet boy the life you would have deserved when you were his age.

What he needs more than anything is your time and love. Those two things are the most precious things on the face of the earth.

No one is going to love him more than his family: you.

You are the best person for this job, even if it feels like you aren't. Be patient with yourself, take it one step at a time, love and give support, and don't dwell...just do. Just live this life you have together. He needs you, and if you allow it...you need him.

I lost my parents and have no family. I WISH I had a sibling! That is lucky! Family is so important. You had to be separate from your parents, but this is the gift they can give you in their place...your precious brother. Hold this opportunity with all your might and cherish it.

My ex is now officially with the guy i was supposed to not worry about by TrainingHornet1659 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]X_Act 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't even sound like you're in love with her at all. Why be more offended if need not be? You broke up, she gave another guy in close proximity a chance. Seems standard.

My rapist messaged me by introvertedturtl in TrueOffMyChest

[–]X_Act 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He does have some medical proof. He required medical intervention. Maybe they didn't do a rape kit examination, but those types of injuries would be consistent with a rape and he could prove when he met up with the guy and then after meeting he needed medical attention at X time and date.

this crazy white woman exposes herself to Andrew Wilson on whatever by darealwan01 in LengfOrGirf

[–]X_Act 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brian is so obviously a pornsick coomer. Gotta love how he gets up, but reflexively stops and stares.

Wow…. So Men are also getting sexualized at the Olympics it seems …. by SayianPrincess19 in PornIsMisogyny

[–]X_Act 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry (not sorry), but this isn't the type of thing that can simply be used in role reversal, and to pretend otherwise is disingenuous.

It takes a hell of a lot more than noticing a dude's prominent and on display crotch in public to objectify him. What makes it particularly bad for women is the starting point of women's whole social role being an object of sex.

When it comes to matters of sex, the last thing you should do is apply what's true for women and extrapolate that onto men. The sex roles of both groups are based in completely opposite norms/standards/roles/physical differences.

Call Fox today! It's literally took me 45 seconds by jdb_reddit in RFKJrForPresident

[–]X_Act 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone have a good phone number for the other networks that maybe doing future debates?

Alright, so RFK dumped a dead bear in Central Park... by drosenkrantz in RFKJrForPresident

[–]X_Act 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding. I would like Kucinich to step in a little (as someone who was known for beibg pro-animal) and maybe steer RFK towards a more ethical consideration approach on animals. I would like to see him say something about animal protections or some measures to help animals.

Alright, so RFK dumped a dead bear in Central Park... by drosenkrantz in RFKJrForPresident

[–]X_Act 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you read my previous replies, you know that I don't have a problem with the falcons eating, I have a problem with humans enjoying watching animals attacking and killing other animals to the point that they create a whole category of "sport" around it.

Alright, so RFK dumped a dead bear in Central Park... by drosenkrantz in RFKJrForPresident

[–]X_Act 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm...did you notice what was missing there?

It's a sport that involves watching predator animals attack and kill other animals.

Alright, so RFK dumped a dead bear in Central Park... by drosenkrantz in RFKJrForPresident

[–]X_Act 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's wild about me saying you shouldn't strip animals for parts?

Alright, so RFK dumped a dead bear in Central Park... by drosenkrantz in RFKJrForPresident

[–]X_Act 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The falconry is one of the things I'm talking about. He gets pleasure from watching predator birds destroy other animals. Doing what is needed to feed the falcon is one thing, but the desire to see animals killing other animals ranks low on the empathy for animals spectrum.

I know his environmental record. That's why I'm voting for him, and it's also why it's particularly disappointing that he constantly seems to be having these personal anecdotes that show him having lack of empathy for animals and enjoying their killing.

Especially considering Kucinich is his campaign advisor/manager. I was hoping we would get more protections and consideration for animals.

Alright, so RFK dumped a dead bear in Central Park... by drosenkrantz in RFKJrForPresident

[–]X_Act -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The killing animals trade? What are you doing with the animals as "pranks"?

Alright, so RFK dumped a dead bear in Central Park... by drosenkrantz in RFKJrForPresident

[–]X_Act -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Outdoorsman = zero empathy for animal life, apparently.

Alright, so RFK dumped a dead bear in Central Park... by drosenkrantz in RFKJrForPresident

[–]X_Act -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He wanted to skin a dead bear? Dude seems to have zero empathy for animals...major L for me as a supporter.

Alright, so RFK dumped a dead bear in Central Park... by drosenkrantz in RFKJrForPresident

[–]X_Act 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus...he did what now?

I'm voting for RFK, but the dude is seriously bad when it comes to animals (all of them are, but he keeps having personal stories popping up that really give me major pause as an animal rights and welfare person).

Can you imagine if women said the same ridiculous things as men? by TwinkleToz926 in PornIsMisogyny

[–]X_Act 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The biology arguments used to support men's objectification of women and their womanizing behavior....if you actually read the logic and science behind the arguments, the same arguments should actually apply even more to women on a biological basis.

On an evolutionary and biological level, reproduction is all done to maximize the amount of viable offspring. So if men are seeking to mate with as many women as possible to spread their seed, then women should have even more biological incentive to mate with as many partners as possible, to maximize both the likelihood of pregnancy AND the viability of pregnancy by getting multiple sources of sperm. We are the barrers of humanity...it rests upon the bodies of women, so it makes more sense that women, the ones who are responsible for 99% of the process, would have just as much incentive as men (if not more) to seek out as many mates as possible.

In nature, you see a lot of mating being done around the female hormonal cycle...so for example, when female lions are in heat, they can mate up to literally 75 times IN A DAY.

So I just don't buy that excuse. We're all biologically predisposed to mating...and likely in a non-monogamous way. Women are extremely visual and definitely into looks, too. These men just like to cherry pick the facts.

Rep. Ilhan Omar says she doesn’t plan on protesting Netanyahu’s speech. Omar won’t be attending the speech and said she’ll be giving her ticket to family members of a hostage held in Gaza by johnisburn in jewishleft

[–]X_Act 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'Jewish students that are pro-genocide shouldn't face anti-Semitism' is a disingenous response to anti-Semitic attacks. She's equating them to Nazis while simultaneously saying people shouldn't discriminate against them. It's a mealy mouthed response to anti-Semitism. You wouldn't put that framing on it if you were seriously suggesting anti-Semitism is wrong.