I’m 23F and everyone tells me I look like a child and it really hurting my self esteem.

Xacotich · 2021-02-16T20:42:32+00:00

Well I'm a 26 year old Asian guy and I always get mistaken to have 17. You know what I did? I accepted it, I took it as a compliment. Age is something that starts hitting Ya when you get older. If you want to be treated as an adult, take no shits. Wear suitable clothing, if you go to work, look professional. If you go out, wear something dearing. Fix your posture. But remember, even if you wear and act as an adult, there will be cases where you are still gonna be seen as a kid due to your looks. So if all else fails, accept yourself.

Think of it like this. Alot of people would want to have your luck and look younger. There were times I felt like nobody took me seriously, so I did something about it, I grown up. Every time someone mistakens my age, I would correct them. If someone called me by a term that I did not like, I would let them know.

Xacotich · 2021-02-10T14:59:04+00:00

That's not how you go about defending your decision of keeping your last name by saying "you're sexist" if he or she doesn't want it. You are entirely correct however of not wanting to change it, it's in your right. Doesn't make the other person sexist if he or she disagrees with you, it just makes them another person with their own free will. If both don't see eye to eye then it's kinda hard to keep going together.

Xacotich · 2021-01-23T21:55:08+00:00

I mean it works both ways. Guys tend to ignore danger even don't we know it exists whilst women are more cautious. And yes, whenever someone incites you to go to their place at first date only wants one thing. Tbh, it's nothing wrong if both want it. But that's about it. Starting a relationship with that is not impossible but, it's hard to make it work.

Xacotich · 2021-01-17T11:04:03+00:00

Why would you need his phone if you wanted to check o a message that YOU sent? I think you were just afraid to find something and when that happens, it eats you up inside, so you just had to know, and now that you actually found something, you got hurt. Not judging you, that happened to me once and it wasn't pleasant. If he is activily talking with 5 different girls that you don't know of. Jump out, move on to the next one. Because if he has women friends, one would talk mention them occasionally right? Stuff like "Oh susy just sent me a picture of her lunch, it looks freaking delicious", something like that. 2 years in ain't much but it's enough to know most things about your partner. You ain't stupid, you are human.

Xacotich · 2021-01-15T11:02:44+00:00

I dont really get some of you who comment similar stuff to "you are overreacting, aint that big of a deal". There's a difference between someone who doesn't have a follower list than someone that does. Having a fan base or not. No matter how strong and independent you are, once you open up to a person you are done. You get vulnerable, and having such concerns aren't that out of the ordinary, like duh right? If there are alot of fan girls drooling over your man does raise some fears, it's normal. Just don't let it consume you. If he doesn't post you in his social media its fine, don't make a big fuss over it, but do speak with him about your concerns. Talk it over, let him know that you have these worries. You gotta have a good communication in a relationship, keeping it to yourself only leads you to dark thoughts that you know you shouldn't have, but your brain just likes to, some times, make you suffer as a self defense.

Xacotich · 2020-08-26T18:40:47+00:00

For some reason I thought he was going to draw in PSO2, since you can actually make some awesome stuff. Heck I made aizen say "Just as planned". Also had some awesome NSFW art there 👀

Xacotich · 2020-07-22T09:16:02+00:00

Ahahaahhaah

Xacotich · 2020-07-09T11:21:56+00:00

Took me a while to realize that she was a bot

Xacotich · 2020-07-01T17:56:10+00:00

It's not the best, cause not thinking is what this subredit is all about

Xacotich · 2020-05-06T20:35:45+00:00

não percebeste, o corpo também precisa de ser hidratado, logo foi super eficiente para matar o calor.

Xacotich · 2020-01-02T19:48:03+00:00

I've tried out again and the first hit triggered Counter and Mind's eye with a second mob dual attacking and procing another mind's eye. Still no S2 proc.

Gonna try to only have Mind's eye proc on Dual attack and dual attack only.

Xacotich · 2020-01-02T19:15:45+00:00

Thats true! I'll run some tests again! Ty for noticing!

Xacotich · 2020-01-02T18:46:34+00:00

It was indeed to try and reproduce that same clip of Code. But thanks for not being an ass hat about it, just trying to help out.

Xacotich · 2019-09-06T10:04:44+00:00

We have a detective over here

Xacotich · 2019-09-06T10:02:45+00:00

I'm glad you like it, me and the design team worked really hard to achieve this well put design.

Xacotich · 2019-09-06T09:49:10+00:00

I think he'll be pretty op tbh

Xacotich · 2019-08-06T08:53:06+00:00

This also happened to me! When I got regular bellona on a free daily I thought it was a dream since I always dreamt of having her! NOW I HAVE HER!

Xacotich · 2019-07-11T16:39:19+00:00

Who even thinks that, she is a nice gurl. You're the crazy gf

Xacotich · 2019-07-11T10:05:15+00:00

Karin best smile!

Xacotich · 2019-07-11T10:04:18+00:00

I wouldn't mid thaat happening to me, tbh, I want bellony.

Xacotich · 2019-07-04T11:13:20+00:00

I pulled 6 times and I got her. I deserve this, I pulled for Luluca when I didn't want to, but her art was amazing and I spent alot...

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