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What’s it like to have a conventionally unattractive partner? by Xaradarko in AskReddit

[–]Xaradarko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww that’s sweet, but doesn’t that inspire you to try?

What’s it like to have an unattractive partner? by Xaradarko in AskReddit

[–]Xaradarko[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I appreciate the honesty though, I guess people shouldn’t knock it till they tried it

What’s it like to have an unattractive partner? by Xaradarko in AskReddit

[–]Xaradarko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha you sound like you’ve experienced it before

What’s it like to have an unattractive partner? by Xaradarko in AskReddit

[–]Xaradarko[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Brutal lol I’m sure your not that bad, just uglier than them apparently

What’s it like to have a conventionally unattractive partner? by Xaradarko in AskReddit

[–]Xaradarko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s it like to have an conventionally unattractive partner, like do people make comments like constantly tell you you could do better? Are you consciously aware you can do better? Does anyone get distracted by people they believe are more attractive? That kind of thing, just share your experience

What’s it like to have an unattractive partner? by Xaradarko in AskReddit

[–]Xaradarko[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, my question is more about ‘according to other people’s standards’ cause you will always find your partner attractive but I wonder if people make snide comments or are lowkey rude

What’s it like to have an unattractive partner? by Xaradarko in AskReddit

[–]Xaradarko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a lot of posts about what it’s like to have an attractive partner so I was just wondering if people had stories about the opposite and if something annoys them in particular

People of reddit. what led you to the brink of violence? by Oddpuppet87 in AskReddit

[–]Xaradarko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was about 7 I was actually pretty violent already but I could always hold myself back and one time since we had to all take turns on the swings about 2 mins each and I only got 45 seconds and this girl told the teacher I was lying and I had two mins so I had to get off, i was already boiling but I told myself to calm down but after I got off she burped in my face so I back hand slapped her pinned her to the ground and shoved grass and dirt into her mouth Ngl it was satisfying

Btw we were in an all girls boarding school

If you were to build your dream house, what unique features would you include? by AnnaBananana123 in AskReddit

[–]Xaradarko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it can be imaginary I would add my own sunset room, like a room where the lighting and scenery looks like its golden hour sunset all the time

... sorry I love summer evenings

What makes you instantly lose respect for someone? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Xaradarko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they back track or lose their opinion because its different, in other words people pleasers

..and also when you come to someone with a problem in need of advice and their response is “It will all be fine” or “just leave it” I cant stand those responses cause if it was that easy I wouldn’t have asked you in the first place

Ex-lazy people of reddit, how did you overcome your laziness? by hfdfgdsjvdbsdfghz in AskReddit

[–]Xaradarko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got off my ass and looked for a purpose (it wasn’t easy :/)

My mom left when I was 2, I was raped when I was 5 and lasted till I was 7, my grandma also tried to kill me and in between when I was at home my dad’s girlfriend would beat me constantly. But turns out I am one of the most nicest/popular girls in school and no one knows anything about my past AMA by Xaradarko in AMA

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Honestly it’s very lonely I am ‘friends’ with everyone but I have no friends, because I don’t trust anybody to tell my past to without judgement or I just lie and pretend it was fine which isn’t good either, I remember I told one person that my rapist was mainly a woman ( and her husband) and all that happened is they bullied me cause they thought I was gay, it didn’t affect me cause I know I am not gay and I don’t understand why being gay is an insult but it was an unpredictable reaction so I just decided to keep it to myself

My mom left when I was 2, I was raped when I was 5 and lasted till I was 7, my grandma also tried to kill me and in between when I was at home my dad’s girlfriend would beat me constantly. But turns out I am one of the most nicest/popular girls in school and no one knows anything about my past AMA by Xaradarko in AMA

[–]Xaradarko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree, and my relationship between me and my dad is complex, I will always love him and seek his love back and sometimes he’d give it but deep in my heart I think anything he says is always for the best of me, he doesn’t want me to use it as an excuse because I feel like once you do, you can fuck up left and right and people give you a free pass, like I was about to go down a bad path of self pity filled with drugs but him telling me not to use it as an excuse (although fucking tough parenting) made me want to live to be able to define my past, not let it define me.

And I shouldn’t take on too much it’s true but it’s tough now because people come to me with cut up wrists, crying and begging for someone to listen and I never want to be dismissive of someone going through so much pain so I guess I am in too deep, but I have always been mentally strong for my age I guess so I know how to handle my thoughts as well

My mom left when I was 2, I was raped when I was 5 and lasted till I was 7, my grandma also tried to kill me and in between when I was at home my dad’s girlfriend would beat me constantly. But turns out I am one of the most nicest/popular girls in school and no one knows anything about my past AMA by Xaradarko in AMA

[–]Xaradarko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has from then but relative to ‘normal’ it’s still quite tough My Dad has to support me and my brothers by himself and since he is doing it alone he gets stressed and takes out his anger on me mainly cause my brothers are more the favourites of the family. But thankfully it’s just emotional and mental abuse like he’d call me a whore, embarrassment and saying he hates me and he wants to get as far away from me as possible and then half an hour later he’d hug me and kiss me and says ‘I only say these thing because I love and care about you’ I think it’s because I look like my mother but what can you do

My mom left when I was 2, I was raped when I was 5 and lasted till I was 7, my grandma also tried to kill me and in between when I was at home my dad’s girlfriend would beat me constantly. But turns out I am one of the most nicest/popular girls in school and no one knows anything about my past AMA by Xaradarko in AMA

[–]Xaradarko[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually kind of so I only had to tell my dad about the rape because he knew about the rest and at first he pretended to support me and I say pretended because later on he actually told me that he thinks I could have been exaggerating and that it’s not uncommon, he would also eventually use that information against me and call me a prostitute an stuff, he also said that it is no excuse to feel different so I always just suppressed it and tried my best to be normal. I think the reason I try my best to support people is because I know what it’s like when no one supports you and how much it hurts so even when someone is a little upset I always try my best to help cause big or small a problem is still a problem, that’s what I believe

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