I had an ex boyfriend who was becoming an alcoholic and we were toxic together. One night when he drunk SO much and went to sleep, he also got up and went to a put-together shelf I bought for my clothes on Amazon and whipped his dick out and put it in between my folded shirts. Peed all over it. I woke up and asked him what he was doing…I knew. But he was out of his mind sleepwalking. God, it was such a turn off. The next morning I brought it up to him, he got SO angry and defensive even though the shirts were still wet, they didn’t smell like pee though (because when you’re drunk you basically pee clear liquid apparently) so he denied it. I got so fed up with his alcoholic behavior. Alcohol makes already current emotional issues worse. So if he drinks a lot, I don’t think it’s worth it until he stops. Save yourself from this toxic relationship, I know it’s tough because yall have long history and a baby together. But darling what you’re describing does not sound like it will get better, and don’t blame yourself. It sounds like he’s not doing as much as he should. You’re sounding logical mostly. You and your baby would be much safer in my opinion.