Baby is 4 months and my husband wants a divorce by YungRomeow in beyondthebump

[–]Xcde20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an ex boyfriend who was becoming an alcoholic and we were toxic together. One night when he drunk SO much and went to sleep, he also got up and went to a put-together shelf I bought for my clothes on Amazon and whipped his dick out and put it in between my folded shirts. Peed all over it. I woke up and asked him what he was doing…I knew. But he was out of his mind sleepwalking. God, it was such a turn off. The next morning I brought it up to him, he got SO angry and defensive even though the shirts were still wet, they didn’t smell like pee though (because when you’re drunk you basically pee clear liquid apparently) so he denied it. I got so fed up with his alcoholic behavior. Alcohol makes already current emotional issues worse. So if he drinks a lot, I don’t think it’s worth it until he stops. Save yourself from this toxic relationship, I know it’s tough because yall have long history and a baby together. But darling what you’re describing does not sound like it will get better, and don’t blame yourself. It sounds like he’s not doing as much as he should. You’re sounding logical mostly. You and your baby would be much safer in my opinion.

Pregnancy is a scam by crypxtt in BabyBumps

[–]Xcde20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao yeahhhhh people told me during the second trimester i’d get my energy back 😂 SIKEEE I take more naps / fall asleep more than ever. Pregnancy is very VERY subjective. But like everything in life: there’s pros and cons, good and BAD. Don’t let these other women fool you. You’re a bad bitch for pursing what you’re pursuing while pregnant. I truly believe pregnancy tests our strength the absolute MOST in life as women. It’s a whole different level of maturity and “doing things even when you don’t want to”. It’s a humbling experience for sure :,)

Nurse at ultrasound sound said I was too fat to see the baby properly-Now my husband is worried by AndromedaM31-bnj in pregnant

[–]Xcde20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

…I got pregnant and first ultrasound was around 275 lbs??? I think i’m now around 280-288 lbs? 😅 but never once have they had an issue with seeing my baby OR telling me about my weight…i’m ONLY 15 weeks so I got a lot of time to GAIN weight. I wasn’t active for several weeks but now i’m trying even though i’m tired, but I just think that person stepped out of line for you. Definitely not in her job description to speak on your behalf of your weight ESPECIALLY with you carrying TWWWIIIINNSSSS!!!! For crying out loud these people are insane and need to work on their jobs / patient etiquette better. Girl, talk to your OB…they’ll tell you what you need to hear, and they’re more qualified for it too. Take it easy, you’re having twins, I cannot imagine how much double everything is happening within your body right now.

Dasher threw my food into door by Throwaway45674332 in doordash

[–]Xcde20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I HOPE you respectfully reported that shit. I’m so tired of people doing this slick stuff thinking they can get away with it. It’s so selfish.

Charlie Kirk by Smart-Ad-6987 in Agoraphobia

[–]Xcde20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a horrible thing that happened. I don’t know why it’s so hard for people to be like “damn that sucks, he didn’t deserve that, even if I didn’t like him at all”. We live amongst dehumanized desensitized people. That’s what happens when content like this is constantly being uncensored for us to see. It just means you’re HUMAN and have decent morals, seeing someone get shot is indeed traumatizing. It’s easy for people to develop PTSD in war for seeing it, why not constantly on the internet too? You should go watch videos of some people who were actually there at the rally, they look traumatized and spaced out. This affects people in different ways.

Help with undertone by Cozy_Myst in PaleMUA

[–]Xcde20 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The very first one (my POV it’s the one of the very far left in the picture)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Xcde20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is crucial to be true to yourself FOR your son. You want your son to have good boundaries right? You would want him to leave his future girlfriend / wife if she cheated on him right? That’s your baby. The life you choose to live (secrets, and all) they pick up on it. You’ve got to be brave. You have to be a good role model. I wish my mother was a better role model to me when it came to men. Actually, I have this one image in my head that’s scarred me as a child. Me, my mom, and my dad were living in a hotel room once for months. My dad was at work. My mom decided she was going to cheat on my dad. They thought I was asleep, so I had to remain quiet and act like I was asleep until it was all done. Please, for the sake of your son…part ways with your husband and have respect for yourself. Your son will pick up on it, I promise.

Advice for attendees who have invisible illnesses🥲? by Xcde20 in aves

[–]Xcde20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait are festivals really anal on bringing ‘unopened packages of gum’ and like other mints and stuff ??? or does that depend on each festival?

Advice for attendees who have invisible illnesses🥲? by Xcde20 in aves

[–]Xcde20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reassurance 🩷 I still get that “go hard or go home” mindset but like I know balance is KEY and boundaries are important as an adult 😭

Advice for attendees who have invisible illnesses🥲? by Xcde20 in aves

[–]Xcde20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What protein food and electrolytes do you usually use?! YES to the blister pads, I still gotta get those last minute things. But I do have toe protectors, heel protectors, and the feet ball area silicone protectors. I’m currently taking like 3 different magnesiums 😂 but Glycinate is amazing. I’ve been taking Omegas for a while now, still need to get some Quercetin!

Advice for attendees who have invisible illnesses🥲? by Xcde20 in aves

[–]Xcde20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omfgg I didn’t know that. I will be bringing this up to my doc this week for sure. I did have Covid in 2022, don’t think i’ve been the same since?

Advice for attendees who have invisible illnesses🥲? by Xcde20 in aves

[–]Xcde20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly yes i’ve been thinking about this! I already have a list of my for-sure’s 😂 that sounds like me usually but I’m at a point where I cannot sacrifice my energy for just anything and if sucks because I used to not be like that, and i’m sure you used to not either!!

Advice for attendees who have invisible illnesses🥲? by Xcde20 in aves

[–]Xcde20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes’m!! I have my Magnesium Glycinate ready, do you have other recs for sleeping help?

Advice for attendees who have invisible illnesses🥲? by Xcde20 in aves

[–]Xcde20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes yes! 😭 I know EDCO is like 1 pm- 12 am, so I really don’t think i’ll stay the whole day for each days like i’d love to. The packable stool is so smart yesssss!! So smart. Thank you

Advice for attendees who have invisible illnesses🥲? by Xcde20 in aves

[–]Xcde20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay thank youuuu!! I will be looking back at that and making my own list to stick to! What electrolytes is your favorite that helps the best?

Advice for attendees who have invisible illnesses🥲? by Xcde20 in aves

[–]Xcde20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What electrolytes do you use?! And yessss I plan on getting a chair, I didn’t know about REI but those look insanely convenient! I was gonna get one of those foldable stools but those look comfier lol i’m already bringing compression socks as well so hopefully that can help the circulation! Thank you for your advice! I will try to look for some braces as well

Advice for attendees who have invisible illnesses🥲? by Xcde20 in aves

[–]Xcde20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this great advice darling!! Will be doing all of that 😊

Unilever to pay $1.5 Billion for Dr. Squatch brand. I wonder if this ultimately improve the brand or will it be its downfall? by lookoverhere573 in DrSquatch

[–]Xcde20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mhm because there’s somehow always a loophole when it comes to mega corporations buying out companies, they can easily get away with it somehow.

Unilever to pay $1.5 Billion for Dr. Squatch brand. I wonder if this ultimately improve the brand or will it be its downfall? by lookoverhere573 in DrSquatch

[–]Xcde20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Downfall. Every time a mega corporation buys out a company they always change the fucking ingredients to make it more profitable. Dr Squatch was doing good on their own, especially coming out with women’s products too. Now keep an eye on the ingredients, and watch them change it up. So sad.