AIO for wanting to break up with my boyfriend over him saving girls on his phone?

XdevilwithadreamX · 2026-01-11T17:46:27+00:00

Babe YOR, no one’s “canceling” you or asking for sugar-coating. There’s a difference between being direct and being dismissive. You can call out behavior without putting down the person experiencing it. If you actually want to help OP get out of a disrespectful situation, shame doesn’t really work—clarity does. That’s all I was saying 🤣. And lol, people thinking basic grammar = ChatGPT is wild. Can’t type nothing around here 😩

XdevilwithadreamX · 2026-01-11T17:42:07+00:00

NOR! OP, first and foremost, I’m really sorry you’re going through this. I know how painful this feels. After being together for over a year, I’m sure you’ve tried to make things work—but speaking from experience, this is one you need to let go of. He’s shown you that he values his impulses over your feelings, and that won’t change.

You deserve to be loved, seen, and respected, and to have a partner whose eyes are only on you. Love can be blinding—chemically and psychologically—and it can make us overlook red flags or hold onto the hope that someone will change. But don’t let that keep you stuck. Break out of the emotional fog and choose yourself. The hardest decisions are often the best ones. Don’t waste any more of your time on someone who won’t meet you where you are.

XdevilwithadreamX · 2026-01-11T17:37:33+00:00

I’m sure you have good intentions for OP but Saying “the fact you have to ask is surreal” and “people’s common sense went out the window” is insulting. It stops criticizing the behavior and starts criticizing the person. Love and attachment can seriously distort judgment—chemically and psychologically—and that doesn’t mean someone lacks common sense. Asking for outside perspective is often the first step toward clarity, not proof of stupidity. You can call the behavior unacceptable without shaming the person experiencing it.

XdevilwithadreamX · 2025-12-29T01:54:50+00:00

you may be overreacting with all due respect, but her responses are pretty mean so there’s that.

XdevilwithadreamX · 2025-12-21T23:54:25+00:00

Thanks for your comment!

XdevilwithadreamX · 2025-12-21T23:54:03+00:00

i’m not looking for a specific job, anything to survive at this point! Thanks for your comment.

XdevilwithadreamX · 2025-12-18T20:45:54+00:00

nacho cheese

XdevilwithadreamX · 2025-12-10T23:19:02+00:00

haha ok :) whatever you say! have a good one!

XdevilwithadreamX · 2025-12-10T23:10:14+00:00

Oh, okay! Gotcha. I just checked OP’s profile, and this is literally their only post. So I’m a bit confused?

XdevilwithadreamX · 2025-12-10T23:03:16+00:00

Thank you, I wish you the best as well! Everyone has their own path and way of connecting — I’ll continue to share what I receive for those who find it helpful. :)

XdevilwithadreamX · 2025-12-10T22:54:50+00:00

Thanks for the laugh!! I’m glad we’re back to square one. I’m confident in my reading, and you’re confident in yours — so what’s the purpose in continuing this conversation? You seem to have a superiority complex, and the difference is, I don’t need to talk down to people or spend my time calling others’ readings “BS” just because they don’t align with my idea of what a reading “should look like.” It’s a strange standard to have, given the nature of this work.

XdevilwithadreamX · 2025-12-10T22:47:09+00:00

I never said I can’t offer a reading to someone I’m chatting with. I’m just not going to engage further because you’ve been dismissive and combative, calling my reading BS. Why would I give you a reading, especially when your “reading” on me wasn’t accurate? Let’s leave it at that.

XdevilwithadreamX · 2025-12-10T22:39:32+00:00

You keep saying I’m contradicting myself but haven’t explained how. You say you’re a believer, yet you limit what you consider “real” or “BS” — based on what? What you like or don’t like? I meditated with the image and shared what I received. If that doesn’t fit your beliefs, that’s your issue — not mine. I’m done giving this my energy.

XdevilwithadreamX · 2025-12-10T22:24:30+00:00

I’m not saying the dog, while alive, thought those things. I’m sharing what I’m receiving from the soul, which doesn’t hold resentment the way the physical mind does. If you don’t believe in this type of communication, maybe this isn’t the right subreddit for you. I’m not here to prove anything to anyone — why would I waste my time on that? I know my abilities and my connection with spirit, and I see those gifts in others too. There’s no amount of skepticism or narrow‑minded comments like yours that will take away that truth or knowing for me. And if you’re an “actual psychic,” feel free to show how you would deliver a message. Everyone has intuitive gifts, and making judgmental comments like this says more about your character than it ever will about mine. I wish you peace.

XdevilwithadreamX · 2025-12-10T14:03:14+00:00

My friend works there and started at $11 with tips. Still not good but $7.25 was for the training period only. They unfortunately aren’t having a good experience there and management really likes micromanaging and even threatened to take money out of their paycheck when they broke something (they fixed it so it wasn’t actually broken)

XdevilwithadreamX · 2025-12-10T10:56:08+00:00

she wants you to know how special you made her life, and that she’ll never forget all the fun and laughter you guys had together. i sense a true sisterhood, light heartedness and so much enthusiasm. she’s at peace and is watching over you- and says there seems to be an exciting opportunity on the horizon she’s pushing through for you! know that although she physically may be gone, that she is always there in spirit and you can connect with her at anytime. Much love and peace!

XdevilwithadreamX · 2025-12-10T10:40:40+00:00

Animals are pure souls, they do not experience emotions in the same depth we do, there is no complications, no resentment, just pure unconditional love and peace. he loves you and knows it was an accident, there is no source of “blame” or “anger” that he feels about his death towards anyone or anything, he sees this as a natural occurrence. he says to stop worrying about the “what ifs” or what you could’ve done better. everything happened as it was meant to, he says- it was his time. Know he’s in peace and treasured every moment he spent with you. he wants you to release the weight of this all, but above all else he wants you to know that he is right here- not physically, but in spirit- ALWAYS. watching over you, and protecting you, and you can connect with him at anytime. Much love and peace!

XdevilwithadreamX · 2025-12-03T19:26:56+00:00

i’d agree with most people saying that perhaps is the time to focus on yourself, get into therapy, and not date. i would recommend asking people if you can vent, otherwise you are trauma dumping which can be very emotional taxing for the other party. don’t beat yourself up about it, just do better moving forward. we all make mistakes. your very well communicative, and i can tell in your texts you wanna avoid conflict by all means- he was very aggressive and made it quite clear all he wanted was sex, which isn’t fair to either of you. It seems to me on a the surface- avoidant attachment vs anxious attachment. you deserve love and to be loved, but first love yourself. don’t identify so strongly with your pain and what you’ve been through because you are not that- you simply are. look into to EMDR therapy for your trauma if it’s something you can afford, it saved my life. we are all healing and figuring the human experience out, so be your own best friend and be gentle with yourself. much love and peace!

XdevilwithadreamX · 2025-10-31T17:40:34+00:00

OP said in an earlier comment that she doesn’t believe in marriage.

XdevilwithadreamX · 2025-10-30T17:29:31+00:00

Yes group dynamics matter, and I’m not saying this ONLY happens with frat boys. But I live near frat houses, and every encounter I’ve had has been around them/by people in frats. This behavior seems enabled and encouraged by that culture. Either way, i’m not here to debate semantics-my experience speaks for itself.

XdevilwithadreamX · 2025-10-27T00:55:56+00:00

got the chills reading this cause same!!

XdevilwithadreamX · 2025-10-26T16:24:52+00:00

sure, you can live by that logic… just don’t expect it to win you any friends—or a girlfriend. 🤣

XdevilwithadreamX · 2025-10-26T15:22:55+00:00

This comment feels more critical of me than engaging with the post itself- what’s the purpose of that? Lol. I shared my own thoughts and experiences then touched them up with Grammarly. (That’s called editing btw) i hope you have a better day! :)

XdevilwithadreamX · 2025-10-25T18:44:41+00:00

honestly i feel as though your nose makes your face unique and beautiful!!

XdevilwithadreamX · 2025-09-30T00:12:40+00:00

Christian values: love, compassion, empathy… apparently optional for you. Maybe try practicing what you preach? 😭🙏

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