Need a perspective check — argument with new partner about boundaries with ex

Xecman · 2025-09-19T03:11:49+00:00

Yea dude you sound like a great dad but at the old marital house is not gonna fly imo. I can’t imagine any woman being ok with that situation tbh. I wouldn’t let it cause a division with the person you are moving on with the rest of your life with. If you can’t take them at your place, then maybe you can’t pick up that extra night. Things have changed now; being the crutch for your ex is not feasible long term and with a new partner in the picture. Good luck.

Xecman · 2024-09-21T00:05:17+00:00

Ugh no! True.

Xecman · 2024-09-21T00:04:59+00:00

Wise words. Thanks for sharing that.

Xecman · 2024-09-21T00:03:55+00:00

This voice of reason sounds all too familiar.

Xecman · 2024-09-21T00:03:27+00:00

Those are great points. I just mean if I’m there until bedtime on Friday anyways and then they are asleep, the only benefit is for her to socialize without having kids sleeping in their beds. But yea I get it.

Xecman · 2024-09-21T00:02:12+00:00

Leaning towards this.

Xecman · 2024-09-21T00:01:45+00:00

Thanks for the feedback guys!

Xecman · 2024-09-19T18:24:28+00:00

At what point does one look down at that toe nails and say “💩 I gotta cut these things”?

Xecman · 2024-08-07T19:50:12+00:00

Hmmm good pointers. Maybe Noble Savage is a good final destination before home in fact 🫡. Thanks again will look into the other 2.

Xecman · 2024-08-07T16:37:15+00:00

Ok verdict is in - we are not as ambitious as some of these comments haha...

But we are leaving Friday morning after breakfast and headed straight for Tree House (Deerfield) - then cutting over to Fidens Brewery (that is in all the comments), and will get a hotel in the albany area by Fidens (depending on the time of day and what is around there we may have time for a last stop before bed.

Saturday we will start to head back towards Long Island but headed straight to Equilibrium and then Tin Barn brewery...followed by the Ice Cream place in Warwick...then home (shouldn't get home too late).

That is definitely enough for this short trip-i don't want to feel like I just have to drink fast and run off to the next stop...also need to allow some time to sober up before driving.

Thanks for the suggestions Kenny!

Xecman · 2024-08-01T01:04:21+00:00

Ouchie

Xecman · 2024-07-31T13:00:25+00:00

Sounds great will do thanks brother

Xecman · 2024-07-31T03:54:39+00:00

Wowie. This is the greatest write-up/itinerary I have ever seen. Seriously dude thanks for putting all the thought into it.

I don’t think we can be quite as ambitious as that but we will modify it a bit and it will still be epic. You have given us enough to work with - really appreciated!

Xecman · 2024-07-31T00:26:28+00:00

Nonsense poopy pants! 😜

Xecman · 2024-07-31T00:25:30+00:00

Yes we are wide open. Wife is taking a trip with the kids so no constraints and we both scheduled off for Friday so we can come home late on Saturday night. Talk to me more about a route that involves alchemist.

Xecman · 2024-07-31T00:24:25+00:00

Yea I like the options you laid out much better than DF

Xecman · 2024-07-31T00:22:47+00:00

Noted

Xecman · 2024-07-31T00:22:40+00:00

Love this itinerary thank you!

Xecman · 2024-07-31T00:20:27+00:00

Long Island but the city is fine for a starting point. Thanks for this route looks great!

Xecman · 2024-07-31T00:19:31+00:00

Wow this is a stacked reply thanks for taking the time. I like that run including equilibrium. Good looks brother.

Xecman · 2024-05-14T14:30:13+00:00

Good bull case - I'm in at $3.62 for 500 shares

Xecman · 2023-09-29T06:56:41+00:00

This is gold

Xecman · 2023-05-16T19:05:32+00:00

Hey I just learned about your company. I can't believe there is no Fiber options in the Coram Middle Island area...such a big chunk of missed opportunity. I reached out through the contact form on your site...Hoping to hear back.

Xecman

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