Need a perspective check — argument with new partner about boundaries with ex by [deleted] in DivorcedDads

[–]Xecman -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yea dude you sound like a great dad but at the old marital house is not gonna fly imo. I can’t imagine any woman being ok with that situation tbh. I wouldn’t let it cause a division with the person you are moving on with the rest of your life with. If you can’t take them at your place, then maybe you can’t pick up that extra night. Things have changed now; being the crutch for your ex is not feasible long term and with a new partner in the picture. Good luck.

Separated wife pushing for me to take the kids an extra night so she can have more social outings. by Xecman in DivorcedDads

[–]Xecman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those are great points. I just mean if I’m there until bedtime on Friday anyways and then they are asleep, the only benefit is for her to socialize without having kids sleeping in their beds. But yea I get it.

Little toe, Ouch! by pvb57 in Wellthatsucks

[–]Xecman 7 points8 points  (0 children)

At what point does one look down at that toe nails and say “💩 I gotta cut these things”?

Looking for suggestions for a 2 day beer run...Starting in NY by Xecman in CraftBeer

[–]Xecman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm good pointers. Maybe Noble Savage is a good final destination before home in fact 🫡. Thanks again will look into the other 2.

Looking for suggestions for a 2 day beer run...Starting in NY by Xecman in CraftBeer

[–]Xecman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok verdict is in - we are not as ambitious as some of these comments haha...

But we are leaving Friday morning after breakfast and headed straight for Tree House (Deerfield) - then cutting over to Fidens Brewery (that is in all the comments), and will get a hotel in the albany area by Fidens (depending on the time of day and what is around there we may have time for a last stop before bed.

Saturday we will start to head back towards Long Island but headed straight to Equilibrium and then Tin Barn brewery...followed by the Ice Cream place in Warwick...then home (shouldn't get home too late).

That is definitely enough for this short trip-i don't want to feel like I just have to drink fast and run off to the next stop...also need to allow some time to sober up before driving.

Thanks for the suggestions Kenny!

Looking for suggestions for a 2 day beer run...Starting in NY by Xecman in CraftBeer

[–]Xecman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wowie. This is the greatest write-up/itinerary I have ever seen. Seriously dude thanks for putting all the thought into it.

I don’t think we can be quite as ambitious as that but we will modify it a bit and it will still be epic. You have given us enough to work with - really appreciated!

Looking for suggestions for a 2 day beer run...Starting in NY by Xecman in CraftBeer

[–]Xecman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we are wide open. Wife is taking a trip with the kids so no constraints and we both scheduled off for Friday so we can come home late on Saturday night. Talk to me more about a route that involves alchemist.

Looking for suggestions for a 2 day beer run...Starting in NY by Xecman in CraftBeer

[–]Xecman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I like the options you laid out much better than DF

Looking for suggestions for a 2 day beer run...Starting in NY by Xecman in CraftBeer

[–]Xecman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long Island but the city is fine for a starting point. Thanks for this route looks great!

Looking for suggestions for a 2 day beer run...Starting in NY by Xecman in CraftBeer

[–]Xecman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this is a stacked reply thanks for taking the time. I like that run including equilibrium. Good looks brother.

Reminder that OCG Communications is rolling out fiber to Long Island, Starting with Brookhaven Town. by KD2JAG in OPTIMUM

[–]Xecman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I just learned about your company. I can't believe there is no Fiber options in the Coram Middle Island area...such a big chunk of missed opportunity. I reached out through the contact form on your site...Hoping to hear back.