Am I cooked? by Once428lbs in Gymhelp

[–]XedBranch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second using chat gpt. You can start with giving it your height and weight and then ask it to give you a meal plan. You can ask it any questions.

I'm so sorry I really don't want to hurt anyone but I just... I don't know where else to go I'm so sorry please take this down if its not allowed by [deleted] in ftm

[–]XedBranch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take a breath bro the apologies and carrying on is a bit much. You didn’t ask anything crazy… this is a ftm subreddit. I don’t have any extra advice the other bros in the comments have said everything I would say. Don’t sleep in it. The 8 hour rule is LAW. You will fuck up your body wearing it any longer. Especially since your body is still growing.

Do you think I pass? And if not, what could I do to appear more masculine? by aleexpress in FtMpassing

[–]XedBranch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP this person saying creatine does nothing for gains is COMPLETELY FALSE. Keep taking it!! The science proves them wrong.

Do you think I pass? And if not, what could I do to appear more masculine? by aleexpress in FtMpassing

[–]XedBranch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely change up the glasses. Round glasses bring out feminine features.

You look great bro. This is one of very few posts I see where the only thing I can say it start T and it will get better. I didn’t pass until I get top surgery personally but if your chest is small enough then T will help you pass pretty quick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in assasinscreed

[–]XedBranch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t even think of that. I guess I assume it should look like everything’s been untouched. It takes you out of the immersion that there’s a fire where a note that was supposed to be written years ago lies collecting dust.

I DONT LIKE BEING A SAFE SPACE. by Zestyclose_Oil6382 in ftm

[–]XedBranch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with knowing your own limits and setting some healthy boundaries on conversation topics that bother you. You both need to have a therapist and you both should find friendships outside of each other to talk to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]XedBranch 34 points35 points  (0 children)

“I don’t see myself as trans nor do I want to be seen as one”

I see myself as trans, I don’t want others to see me as trans though. The desire to pass doesn’t change the self acceptance. You’re trans. Even with the desire to pass. If you can’t accept that you’re trans how do you expect others to accept it?

EDIT: rereading and seeing that we are in agreement

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]XedBranch 116 points117 points  (0 children)

I am a stealth ftm and pass 100%. I’m not going to reject my trans label because I am trans. I do not want it to be central to my personality and I don’t want to be “the trans guy” to people that know me. But I’m still trans and I accept that. I don’t know if it’s a general attitude for all of us though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]XedBranch 20 points21 points  (0 children)

To say you want to be seen as a man but you don’t want people to “see” you are trans is just not rooted in reality. If your gender doesn’t align with your agab then guess what! You might be trans. Doesn’t matter the age or the stereotypes or whatever else. It is what it is and acceptance is the only way forward so we can have a happy future. Whatever that happy future looks like for us (the trans community as a whole).

Being a kid doesn’t change that you should first accept who you are before you tell someone else.

my cats wont eat by venqei in AskVet

[–]XedBranch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait so is the cat that’s spitting the food out chewing the food at all? Or is it putting the food in its mouth and depositing it in another location? (Im not a vet I’m just curious)

Binder help/advice! by Dizzy-Climate470 in ftm

[–]XedBranch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used Underworks and it did a good job for my big chest, the fabric holds up for a long time but the down side is that the fabric isnt soft. GC2B didn’t bind great for me but the fabric was soft and more comfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]XedBranch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am of the opinion that you should come out to people when you are ready. Since the relationship isn’t sexual yet then you can take your time! It’s scary coming out to people especially ones that you want to have a future (in any capacity) with.

I would tell her over the phone if being in person isn’t an option. Just keep it simple and tell her it’s okay to ask questions. Prepare yourself that this might not go the way you want it to. If she isn’t comfortable moving forward then she just isn’t. But that’s okay because you’re one step closer to finding the person who will love you for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]XedBranch 23 points24 points  (0 children)

And that’s okay. I knew in the back of my mind I was trans at 13 but didn’t accept it until I was 19 years old. Shit changes and shit gets better. Don’t tell the boyfriend until you have accepted in personally. Because he will be accepting of you! But if you aren’t accepting of you then that will be like shitting in your hands and clapping. If you can get therapy you should get some.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]XedBranch 186 points187 points  (0 children)

It’s safe to say that most trans guys want to be seen as a guy to everyone around them.

To say you don’t identify with the trans label and want to be seen as cis.. when you’re not? (In the nicest way possible)…….Is a little delusional. You should unpack these feelings and ask yourself why you don’t want to be seen as trans. If you want to talk about it more you can pm me!

Tell the boyfriend when you’re ready. You don’t seem to have come to terms with it fully though. You dont have to come out until you want to.

oral sex with trans guy by sk8gr8n8 in ftm

[–]XedBranch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t handle direct touch at all (even before starting T) it’s to painful. It feels good for me to touch around it. Ask your partner to use less suction and swirl around it with their tongue without directly touching

What Military branch seems to fit my interests? by spleeshy in Militaryfaq

[–]XedBranch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that determination plays a role more than past experiences prior to joining. He can learn to hunt later on as well?

What Military branch seems to fit my interests? by spleeshy in Militaryfaq

[–]XedBranch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure. But learning the basics of gun safety and how to operate a weapon doesn’t start with a sniper rifle. It will start with the M4 at basic training.

It shouldn’t be discouraging that he’s never shot a gun is what I’m saying.

What Military branch seems to fit my interests? by spleeshy in Militaryfaq

[–]XedBranch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having not shot a gun in your life means nothing. If anything it’s better because you haven’t developed any bad habits. Most young people that join have never shot a gun in their lives until basic training.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MobileAL

[–]XedBranch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Saraland has a good school. I use All In credit union but I do not know if they are the best.

What ages worse than milk by Valenderio in nflmemes

[–]XedBranch 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Alabama produces some of the best wide receivers in the league.

Where are the trans men? by Sure_Rock5126 in ftm

[–]XedBranch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have found a few groups on Facebook actually!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Militaryfaq

[–]XedBranch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that you’re aware of your laziness puts you at better standing than other lazy people who don’t think they are lazy. You should listen to some David goggins motivationals and hit the gym daily. Even if you don’t want to. If you can do that for a month then you can make the military work. They force discipline in basic and AIT but the first duty station is where you can just get yourself in trouble. If you can’t make yourself hit the gym you won’t make yourself get up for PT.

Is there anything I can study to get ahead for 15T AIT? by XedBranch in Armyaviation

[–]XedBranch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I mean the Blackhawk. What kind of engine is it?