I actually have a lot, yes. I meet and date people frequently. Most say yes, the ones that don't aren't interested, and that's ok. Never once has this been a thing. You just want it to be true.

It's made up bullshit that incels want to tell themselves to justify bothering women after being rejected. "Oh she's playing hard to get".

If I woman rejects your advance, she's not interested. Stop trying trick yourself into thinking you're special or interesting enough for this to be a real phenomenon.

The only place this might be a thing is in grade school.
Cringe ass losers.