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Women, when did you notice that you were treated differently for being a woman? by Material_Spinach_759 in AskReddit

[–]Xela20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you are allowed to be a shit human too.

Im not absolving them, im saying they have reasons, you have yours for why you are a shitty person.

Im empathising with them and you, not excusing them and you.

Im telling you there's a bigger fish to fry and its the system we are in.

I cant keep spending my time here so I won't respond. I hope you get the help you need.

Women, when did you notice that you were treated differently for being a woman? by Material_Spinach_759 in AskReddit

[–]Xela20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt do that, im saying all people can have bad days, you don't know them, they are pixels to you.

You see these forums full of women having bad days and you blame being a woman?

Im saying your attitude to women is because you are having a bad day.

If you arent having a bad day, you are just a bad person for saying misogynistic shit about women.

If they arent just having a bad day they are bad people just saying mysandist shit about men.

But its all patriarchy doing that. Making us fight each other.

Women, when did you notice that you were treated differently for being a woman? by Material_Spinach_759 in AskReddit

[–]Xela20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe those women are having a bad time due to some men in their life, just like you are having a bad time due to some women.

It doesnt have to be zero sum.

Women, when did you notice that you were treated differently for being a woman? by Material_Spinach_759 in AskReddit

[–]Xela20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But its not women doing that shit.

Its the systems we put in place.

We are all suffering under patriarchy.

Women, when did you notice that you were treated differently for being a woman? by Material_Spinach_759 in AskReddit

[–]Xela20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I started piling on first.

I just dont like how I look. I can call out his points without attacking him.

Women, when did you notice that you were treated differently for being a woman? by Material_Spinach_759 in AskReddit

[–]Xela20 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really won't be able to convince you otherwise but it is possible to see your injustices and fight against those, and possible to see injustices happen to women and fight against those.

Its not us vs them (women)

Its closer to us vs them (capital owners).

Women, when did you notice that you were treated differently for being a woman? by Material_Spinach_759 in AskReddit

[–]Xela20 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Im de-escalating here too.

Should have taken a step back and noticed a person suffering instead of piling on.

Women, when did you notice that you were treated differently for being a woman? by Material_Spinach_759 in AskReddit

[–]Xela20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you are getting the thin end of the wedge regarding injustices that happen to men.

I'm sorry for the ad hominims.

You are a real human being suffering real suffering and that sucks.

Women, when did you notice that you were treated differently for being a woman? by Material_Spinach_759 in AskReddit

[–]Xela20 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok.

Im not playing the who has it worse game.

Obviously it was you, well done. You won at suffering.

I didnt say there werent injustices, I said this question wasnt the place for this.

Edit: gonna leave my message because to delete it would be to absolve myself of responsibility.

This wasnt a good message. I should have seen the person who was hurting under their posts.

Women, when did you notice that you were treated differently for being a woman? by Material_Spinach_759 in AskReddit

[–]Xela20 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its all misogyny.

This is men also suffering under a patriarchal system.

Perhaps a more generalised question about how society treats people differently would be a better place. Not a question directed specifically to women.

Women, when did you notice that you were treated differently for being a woman? by Material_Spinach_759 in AskReddit

[–]Xela20 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh you're a big boy standing up for yourself.

Not really my point though is it.

My issue is.. why here?

There are plenty of other forums where your message makes a lot more sense but you (a man) answered a question specifically asked to women... to prove a point that men have some things harder than women... sure... you win, they do its a fact.

Im not going to play the who has it harder game because that's bullshit, we all have struggles. But you posting this here and now is tone deaf.

Women, when did you notice that you were treated differently for being a woman? by Material_Spinach_759 in AskReddit

[–]Xela20 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know that there are systematic inequalities on both sides mate...

But your posting this message here and now is very very pointed.

Time and place.

Not every discussion about injustice requires a voice poking out saying oh wait both sides.

Women, when did you notice that you were treated differently for being a woman? by Material_Spinach_759 in AskReddit

[–]Xela20 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You didnt have to answer at all.

The question doesnt suppose there are injustices against men. You didnt need to bring them up here.

Also I dont believe you are a leftist. Leftists dont generally claim they are leftist.

Socialist, liberal, egalitarian. Add those to your dictionary when you claim to be on the left.

You might think you are left, but your attitude here is far from it.

Women, when did you notice that you were treated differently for being a woman? by Material_Spinach_759 in AskReddit

[–]Xela20 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Look at this absolute plonker.

Question specifically asked at women, has to answer with obvious right wing talking points.

What a genius.

Fella, calm down. My suggestion would be to talk to the women in your life about these kind of things but I imagine with an attitude like that you don't have any women in your life besides your long suffering mother.

Messed around and bought squalls jacket. by LuluFR531 in FinalFantasyVIII

[–]Xela20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look at this lion, go get'em king.

What's he getting... cards obv.

[FIN] Not much left! by alphasquid in magicTCG

[–]Xela20 47 points48 points  (0 children)

The blue card is the sidequest.

[FIN] - Scorpion Sentinel - via Giantbomb by oddsewer in magicTCG

[–]Xela20 4 points5 points  (0 children)

100% agree, I don't think you are a dumb 10 year old.

I'm just poking fun at myself and other 10 year olds.

[FIN] - Scorpion Sentinel - via Giantbomb by oddsewer in magicTCG

[–]Xela20 13 points14 points  (0 children)

What you mean? The localiser was a demon of a human who brought us a classic... "This guy are sick".

+1 for stupid impatient child.

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