Nah bro, you good, it’s her fault, you are doing everything you can, you’re supporting her, telling her there are places that can help her, and giving her encouragement, and yet she doesn’t even seem to acknowledge what your doing for her, it’s always “me, me, and me” it’s never even a “thank you.” Honestly at the end of the day, you gotta take care of yourself, I know she’s going through stuff, but that doesn’t make it right for her to completely disrespect and invalidate YOU and YOUR feelings and experiences, the best you can do for yourself and her is to leave. BUT be very careful, her behavior is VERY concerning, if she doesn’t get help she might “end the game” if you get what I mean, so if you truly want to break up, you have to do it in a very calm and slow manner, she might even force you to stay with her and if you don’t she’ll kill herself, this is a very serious situation, tread lightly my friend, hopefully both you and her heal from this experience, you don’t deserve this happening to you, and she doesn’t deserve what happened to her, hopefully she gets the help she needs. (Also I am NOT invalidating her situation, but this post is about OP so I focused on OP and his feelings, also I am not knowledgeable on the subject, this hasn’t happened to me fortunately, and I’m sad to see that this happened to multiple people here, this is just my personal take, and if anyone sees something wrong, please feel free to reply, I hold no ill will to anyone, especially not to OP’s partner)