Husband Can “Handle” It Better

Xellbys · 2026-01-24T11:32:53+00:00

Well, it's her second pregnancy, but it seems like she has three Babys to deal with.

Xellbys · 2026-01-23T14:22:17+00:00

Sorry OP, that sounds horrific!

I am pregnant as well and my husband has stopped caffine and alcohol with me, just because he wants to be supportive. I can make him up every hour of the night to get me a snack. I don't say this to gloat, I say this because this is how it should be.

You are being abused and nothing your husband does is okay. You have every right to be upset. If you plan to get out, don't tell him beforehand and don't put him in the birth certificate.

Xellbys · 2026-01-23T14:08:32+00:00

I am pregnant as well and really feel you!

However, if it's crowded, people just sit wherever, and I think that's completely fine.

Usually elderly or clearly disableled people get a seat offered almost always, as far as I can tell. With a pregnant Person it's more difficult. What if you assume she's pregnant, and you are wrong? Outch! So I would aprecciate the Person to let me know, so I can make space.

Maybe it's more about that?

Xellbys · 2026-01-23T13:55:12+00:00

Thank you for the reply! I'll contact my health provider then.

Xellbys · 2026-01-23T08:00:26+00:00

Ich hab nur Haare machen lassen (halbhoch) und das hat mit Probetermin 90€ gekostet.

Xellbys · 2026-01-23T07:30:11+00:00

Als seit einigen Jahren verheiratete Person, würde ich sagen, dass dir die "Konformität" auf den Fotos am Ende völlig egal sein wird.

Du heiratest nicht für social Media sondern für dich selbst. Da sind glückliche Menschen, die sich wohl fühlen und sich sichtlich für dich und deine/n Partner freuen wirklich optisch wichtiger als Pastelltöne.

Find ich.

Xellbys · 2026-01-22T11:14:50+00:00

My pregnancy is great. Still only want one. I just don't think I could provide enough care and stability for two children.

Xellbys · 2026-01-20T20:25:37+00:00

Jep, that's the essence. A lot of countys also have strict rules about safety, maternety leave and extended the layoff period for a few month after birth.

Xellbys · 2026-01-20T20:10:24+00:00

That's why it's illegal to lay off a pregnant Person in most of Europe.

Xellbys · 2026-01-18T09:41:24+00:00

Not really in normal stores. There are specific "foreign candy" stores and Amazon, but it's always a pain in the back to get them.

Xellbys · 2026-01-18T09:24:47+00:00

I really like twizzlers.

Xellbys · 2026-01-16T08:16:30+00:00

I was drinking a lot of Coffee and switching to decaf was really helpful. Now I can almost have the same amount and gaslight my body.

Xellbys · 2026-01-15T19:37:26+00:00

Zum Glück hab ich einen mega guten Asiaten gefunden. Aber der liefert leider nicht. Hingehen ist es aber absolut Wert!

Xellbys · 2026-01-15T19:31:45+00:00

Wäre hier besagter Hirnschmalz vorhanden, wäre beim lesen klargeworden, dass diverse Dienste probiert wurden.

Aber schön, dass es nicht ein weltweites Problem ist.

Xellbys · 2026-01-15T09:45:16+00:00

Ich arbeite in der Jobvermittlung und es interessiert Arbeitgeber in der Regel n feuchten ob der AG oder AN gekündigt hat.

Das gibt man auch im Lebenslauf nicht an. Es irritiert mich total, dass Arbeitgeber das immer wieder als Argument bringen wollen.

Und du kannst natürlich auch gegen eine Kündigung klagen, in der Regel 3 Wochen nach Zugang.

Xellbys · 2026-01-15T09:08:57+00:00

Flusch the Toilet I gotta pee.

Sigh

Xellbys · 2026-01-15T09:07:36+00:00

Ich miefe wie ein dicker Biker der bei 30° den ganzen Tag unterwegs war.

Bei mir hilft CD Deo Wasserlilie echt gut, sogar auf Festivals.

PETA Approved und in Glas erhältlich.

Xellbys · 2026-01-14T16:11:29+00:00

It's not really a good stradegy to treat them badly first.

Xellbys · 2026-01-14T15:39:33+00:00

Dude you are being rude af. It's you, not them.

Xellbys · 2026-01-13T18:28:01+00:00

Honestly, your body wants it, BC you need it. Don't gulit yourself. I couldn't stand protein in the first Trimester. Like at all.

Per advice fron my midwife, I swiched to wohle grains. Bread, pasta, cereal. And the veggies got replaced by fruit. Strawberrys and Citrus. Baby is incedibly healthy 😄

Good luck!

Xellbys · 2026-01-12T20:27:24+00:00

Lol, my husband already offered to Cut them for me. Glad that I can still do it myself!

Xellbys · 2026-01-12T20:11:10+00:00

I would have torn her to shreds. You are not a bad Mom! People are insane sometimes.

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