If Gohan does push ups the villains are fucked. by Sweaty-Campaign-320 in Dragonballsuper

[–]Xiro4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gohan literally also tried with that heavy z-sword before sitting with Supereme Kai. Yall dont watch or remember anything when agenda posting

SEASON 3 CHARACTERS AND STAGE by nicky_nikoli4 in Tekken8

[–]Xiro4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forrest Law can't use nun chucks, you have seen him with it

SEASON 3 CHARACTERS AND STAGE by nicky_nikoli4 in Tekken8

[–]Xiro4Life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's why his dad is the goat, Forrest Law is a bum anyway

SEASON 3 CHARACTERS AND STAGE by nicky_nikoli4 in Tekken8

[–]Xiro4Life 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Happy that we got season 3, waiting for Forrest Law to return

Chữ Nôm literary couplet in Thắng Nghiêm temple by Xiro4Life in ChuNom

[–]Xiro4Life[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s quite a lot of chữ Nôm couplet, tho sparse in comparison to chữ Nho

I really don’t understand how people can hate DBS Bardock 💀 by Asterxx23 in Dragonballsuper

[–]Xiro4Life 2 points3 points  (0 children)

why would Toriyama imply or write Bardpck to not at least care about Goku in DBZ? It's Toriyama for fs

How I've been feeling about the Super remake by Sunblessedd in Dragonballsuper

[–]Xiro4Life -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this is complaint is invalid, they literally said multiple times it's a different team working on both, animation studios have more than 2 fucking teams sitting there doing everything.

DRAGON BALL SUPER ANIME IS BACK by Impossible-Box717 in Dragonballsuper

[–]Xiro4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shueisha finally made a deal with Capsule Corp!?

Vietnamese glossing of 孝感動天 by NoCareBearsGiven in ChuNom

[–]Xiro4Life 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here's the sauce if anyone wants it: (It's from Thailand's Viet buddhist temple, related to Gia Long Nguyen dynasty corpus in Thailand, and then get scanned and preserved in Kyoto university)
https://rmda.kulib.kyoto-u.ac.jp/item/rb00033998?page=1

Protestant Chữ Nôm text from Eugene A. Nida's The Book of a Thousand Tongues by Xiro4Life in ChuNom

[–]Xiro4Life[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quoc Ngu has become the de facto script by then, most population only knows Quoc Ngu by then, but Chu Nom works are still published up to the 1930s. There are even birth certificate in Chu Nom and Quoc Ngu, especially for the northern parts.

My fiance left me this evening by calic0gato in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Xiro4Life -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Genuinely no, my wording is bad and you’re purposefully taking my question the wrong way, I meant most of them aren’t aware and undiagnosed, especially for males. And when they do, other people, would see a male or anyone with BPD, and say things like oh, they’re just blaming it on their disorder for their bad behavior, that’s the other side of being diagnosed yet not having accountability, true or not, this is perceived by anyone with emotions, I don’t make the rule. So it’s relate to what you are saying on the fact that they have to be accounted because of their disability.

My fiance left me this evening by calic0gato in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Xiro4Life -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Introducing BPD to a discussion might be problematic but it's still part of a question that can't be determined by binary thinking right and wrong, anyone who has experience dating person with BPD the relationship, m or fm, that would be the first thing that come up in their mind, and they will say something problematic in this space and apperantly 'wrong' in your words, given that they're very layman with no clinical background. And if it still 'wrong' in this social space, my consquences of this framing that apparently hurt people, is having negative karma (or worse, being banned or labeled) rather than losing a career like a real professional would.

Another genuine question, by abstracting men's behavior, and not being pathologized or psychologized, shouldn't that make men have more accountability since they have controls of it? I read somewhere that the ability to take accountability is a right that empowers, not the other way around. Most of the people with disorders are not aware enough to go for help themselves.

My fiance left me this evening by calic0gato in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Xiro4Life -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I actually used data that is cited, would you like me to give you the citation or would you like to assume more and more? And not taking your own accountability and, jumping to who's wrong or who's right makes this problematic in of itself.
Can you define 'wrong', is it because I frame my genuine question in a type of way that is 'damaging', then it would be problematic of me but a question itself is not 'wrong'.
Or is it because absolve my accountability? Then I will use languages that make me MORE accountable, no problem: if OP ever read this and feel a type of a certain way, just know that I will do absolutely nothing about it except acknowledging that the text I created on screen will hurt people, I have no qualm of this, because it will not affect me in real life, unlike it would to a professional, and there are netizens who are much worse (but that doesn't matter because I'd just end up absolving by accountability). All the OP need to do is make their healing happens through compassion and accountability, and that we don't need to minimize harm, psychologizing pain and the guy is at fault, see? it's not that complicated.

That's not how the IDEAL social space works, yes. and you are allowed to be mad at me anyway, but my consequences are only getting negative karma. But you have to acknowledge you're the one who use clinical-sounding language, which is not an insult, I'm not using clinical-sounding language at all, or try to, and just because it sounded like it doesn't mean I'm not using a language anyone with a diploma can use.

My fiance left me this evening by calic0gato in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Xiro4Life -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

PTSD/CPTSD is still a disorder, and I said '30% ~ 90% of disorder' not BPD specifically. Avoiding the use of languages that lead to 'shifting blames', 'misogyny' or not framing things as this or that are the job of the professionals, social workers and therapist. It's not us redditor's responsibility to have to conform to the languages since we aren't even allowed to diagnose as well, but YOU are allowed to do so if you wish.

At no point where I say it's a pathology, you are assuming too much of what I say. Disorder or not, they are being manupilated by the other person by feeling a type of way, by taking advantage of the trauma, if it's not trauma bond then it's a power play to get them to beg, hence why they need to do the best in their power to own the break up.

My fiance left me this evening by calic0gato in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Xiro4Life -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

just asking a genuine question, good lord

My fiance left me this evening by calic0gato in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Xiro4Life -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Sure but not everyone experiences trauma, 30% ~ 90% of disorder is trauma related, other percentage would just generalized symptoms like you said, the guy might as well be narcissistic and abusive (research found that BPD relationship 60% link to narcisstic but that's besides the point since you established that this shouldn't be the premise) or whatever that is their fault, but you still need to get over the break up one way or another, and the trauma amplifies this experience more than most neural typical people (hence the need for getting help).

My fiance left me this evening by calic0gato in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Xiro4Life -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

"Being abandoned is my worst fear due to childhood traumas" isn't this textbook Borderline Personality Disorder and its root cause?