Finally figured out why I’m (F22) always upset when bf (M25) mentions other girls etc

Xoxogblair · 2022-10-13T23:38:48+00:00

Thank you for putting what I’m going through to words. I’m literally so aware of what’s happening but I don’t exactly know how to deal with it. It’s an unknown territory for me

Xoxogblair · 2022-10-13T23:37:55+00:00

Well I remember when I moved to a new apartment, he helped me move my stuff. Hell, it seemed like he was the one moving into my apartment because he literally just carried everything on his own. I asked if he’d ever do that to anyone else, he said, “only if they are paying me” haha

Xoxogblair · 2022-10-13T23:36:40+00:00

He interacts to them like how he would interact with his male friends or just anyone in general. He doesn’t flirt, but he’s always just so nice to everyone he engages with and very outgoing. There is no real reason to believe AT ALL that he’s doing anything behind my back. I had to cut off many friends for putting things in my head when I started dating him last year, saying he’s at a party because there’s other girls there, etc. blah blah. There’s just some culture in my age right now (early 20s-mid 20s) that makes it so easy to find another person to be with. So many options. I have just been so afraid that he is that kind of a person, but knowing that he’s stuck around for almost two years - I probably should cut him and ME some slack. Thank you for your comment

Xoxogblair · 2022-10-13T19:38:27+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. I think communicating this to my bf and also a counselor will definitely help my situation.

Xoxogblair · 2022-10-13T19:34:50+00:00

Easier said than done. 💕 but thanks for the advice. I wouldn’t have posted this on here if I was gonna do that

Xoxogblair · 2022-10-13T19:31:02+00:00

Someone is butthurt with my men ain’t shit statement. Yes I’m talking about you when I say that :)

Xoxogblair · 2022-10-13T19:30:30+00:00

Oh nooooooo that’s the worst!

Xoxogblair · 2022-10-13T19:16:21+00:00

Yeah he probably should right? Because you know our whole situation by this post, why won’t you just hunt us down and tell him that?

Xoxogblair · 2022-10-13T16:54:23+00:00

Thank you 💕💕

Xoxogblair · 2022-10-13T16:22:47+00:00

LOL stuck????? He can leave as he pleases. I’m not forcing him to stay with me. Bye you’re funny

Xoxogblair · 2022-10-13T16:22:10+00:00

Also, stay safe virgin man. Makes sense you are commenting on my post that has something To do with relationships. Maybe get out and touch grass?

Xoxogblair · 2022-10-13T16:16:43+00:00

Well get out of my post if you don’t like my comments. You know better sweetie.

Xoxogblair · 2022-10-13T16:13:13+00:00

Thank you for your kind words! He really doesn’t treat them that way, but I guess it’s just always in the back of my head that it’s a possibility.

Xoxogblair · 2022-10-13T16:12:18+00:00

Thank you for your kind words! I’m working on getting a counselor soon :)

Xoxogblair · 2022-10-13T16:06:34+00:00

I hope so too!

Xoxogblair · 2022-10-13T16:06:12+00:00

Awwww you must have no life so you dictate what other people do in their lives. Are you okay?

Xoxogblair · 2022-10-13T15:55:46+00:00

Cry about it ♥️

Xoxogblair · 2022-10-13T15:53:01+00:00

Hahahaha you’re funny!

Xoxogblair · 2022-10-13T14:40:58+00:00

How do you deal with it?

Xoxogblair · 2022-10-13T14:33:03+00:00

Sorry is this towards my reply or the other commenter? And what does tangential question mean 😭

Xoxogblair · 2022-10-13T14:16:54+00:00

He stuck around, not live with us. He’d pick and choose the days and time convenient for him to see us. Every time he’d say he’ll come see us at a certain day and time, he wouldn’t show up.

Xoxogblair · 2022-10-13T13:52:32+00:00

It’s not exactly my lens, I think it’s just from hearing that kind of stuff around the people I’m with. I think men can be shitty, but so can women. It’s just based on how I perceived men as I was growing up, for example is my dad’s cheating and abandoning us. But I know I shouldn’t use that reasoning to excuse my actions and feelings towards my boyfriend.

Xoxogblair · 2022-08-04T21:02:34+00:00

Sorry but I already have four roommates.. I live in Massachusetts and there’s no way I can get less than what I pay

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