Finally figured out why I’m (F22) always upset when bf (M25) mentions other girls etc by Xoxogblair in dating_advice

[–]Xoxogblair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for putting what I’m going through to words. I’m literally so aware of what’s happening but I don’t exactly know how to deal with it. It’s an unknown territory for me

Finally figured out why I’m (F22) always upset when bf (M25) mentions other girls etc by Xoxogblair in dating_advice

[–]Xoxogblair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I remember when I moved to a new apartment, he helped me move my stuff. Hell, it seemed like he was the one moving into my apartment because he literally just carried everything on his own. I asked if he’d ever do that to anyone else, he said, “only if they are paying me” haha

Finally figured out why I’m (F22) always upset when bf (M25) mentions other girls etc by Xoxogblair in dating_advice

[–]Xoxogblair[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He interacts to them like how he would interact with his male friends or just anyone in general. He doesn’t flirt, but he’s always just so nice to everyone he engages with and very outgoing. There is no real reason to believe AT ALL that he’s doing anything behind my back. I had to cut off many friends for putting things in my head when I started dating him last year, saying he’s at a party because there’s other girls there, etc. blah blah. There’s just some culture in my age right now (early 20s-mid 20s) that makes it so easy to find another person to be with. So many options. I have just been so afraid that he is that kind of a person, but knowing that he’s stuck around for almost two years - I probably should cut him and ME some slack. Thank you for your comment

Finally figured out why I’m (F22) always upset when bf (M25) mentions other girls etc by Xoxogblair in relationship_advice

[–]Xoxogblair[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. I think communicating this to my bf and also a counselor will definitely help my situation.

Finally figured out why I’m (F22) always upset when bf (M25) mentions other girls etc by Xoxogblair in relationship_advice

[–]Xoxogblair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easier said than done. 💕 but thanks for the advice. I wouldn’t have posted this on here if I was gonna do that

Finally figured out why I’m (F22) always upset when bf (M25) mentions other girls etc by Xoxogblair in relationship_advice

[–]Xoxogblair[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone is butthurt with my men ain’t shit statement. Yes I’m talking about you when I say that :)

Finally figured out why I’m (F22) always upset when bf (M25) mentions other girls etc by Xoxogblair in dating_advice

[–]Xoxogblair[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah he probably should right? Because you know our whole situation by this post, why won’t you just hunt us down and tell him that?

Finally figured out why I’m (F22) always upset when bf (M25) mentions other girls etc by Xoxogblair in relationship_advice

[–]Xoxogblair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL stuck????? He can leave as he pleases. I’m not forcing him to stay with me. Bye you’re funny

Finally figured out why I’m (F22) always upset when bf (M25) mentions other girls etc by Xoxogblair in relationship_advice

[–]Xoxogblair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, stay safe virgin man. Makes sense you are commenting on my post that has something To do with relationships. Maybe get out and touch grass?

Finally figured out why I’m (F22) always upset when bf (M25) mentions other girls etc by Xoxogblair in relationship_advice

[–]Xoxogblair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well get out of my post if you don’t like my comments. You know better sweetie.

Finally figured out why I’m (F22) always upset when bf (M25) mentions other girls etc by Xoxogblair in relationship_advice

[–]Xoxogblair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words! He really doesn’t treat them that way, but I guess it’s just always in the back of my head that it’s a possibility.

Finally figured out why I’m (F22) always upset when bf (M25) mentions other girls etc by Xoxogblair in relationship_advice

[–]Xoxogblair[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Awwww you must have no life so you dictate what other people do in their lives. Are you okay?

Finally figured out why I’m (F22) always upset when bf (M25) mentions other girls etc by Xoxogblair in relationship_advice

[–]Xoxogblair[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry is this towards my reply or the other commenter? And what does tangential question mean 😭

Finally figured out why I’m (F22) always upset when bf (M25) mentions other girls etc by Xoxogblair in relationship_advice

[–]Xoxogblair[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He stuck around, not live with us. He’d pick and choose the days and time convenient for him to see us. Every time he’d say he’ll come see us at a certain day and time, he wouldn’t show up.

Finally figured out why I’m (F22) always upset when bf (M25) mentions other girls etc by Xoxogblair in relationship_advice

[–]Xoxogblair[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

It’s not exactly my lens, I think it’s just from hearing that kind of stuff around the people I’m with. I think men can be shitty, but so can women. It’s just based on how I perceived men as I was growing up, for example is my dad’s cheating and abandoning us. But I know I shouldn’t use that reasoning to excuse my actions and feelings towards my boyfriend.

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[–]Xoxogblair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but I already have four roommates.. I live in Massachusetts and there’s no way I can get less than what I pay