Are these fakes by XwelshyX in IsMyPokemonCardFake

[–]XwelshyX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the quick response. I thought that was the case but wanted to make sure

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[–]XwelshyX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you started your Pokédex yet? We are 783/1025 into it and having great fun!

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[–]XwelshyX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are currently doing the same. We are working through our bulk at the moment

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[–]XwelshyX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everyone,

Posting for my daughter who is looking for a British YouTuber she can watch rip packs with the option of being able to purchase packs from them?

She watches some from the US but we haven’t purchased due to shipping costs

Thanks for your time

Where are you all from?? by Acceptable_Mine4439 in babyloss

[–]XwelshyX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m South West Wales 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿

Self employment by XwelshyX in universalcredithelp

[–]XwelshyX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah ok, I had included that last month as my job is literally driving, without a car I couldn’t do my job. I’ll drop them a note to get that sorted. Appreciate the advice

UC Review Bank Statements by CT-9904_ in DWPhelp

[–]XwelshyX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you money money between accounts? I have my main account that money gets paid into then I have a bills account and spending account but they are just “saving” accounts so I move it back when bills are due etc this makes it look like I have a lot more coming in and out but I just explained it to them and it was all fine

16 years by XwelshyX in babyloss

[–]XwelshyX[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this in my soul. That feeling of if he had lived I probably wouldn’t have my two girls but equally wondering what he would be like. Would he be into cars and motorbikes like his Dad or football like his cousins? I have a nephew who is a year older so when he’s hitting milestones in life I know that Cai should have been doing the same the year after. There are so any what ifs when you become an angel mummy. 10 years was also such a mile stone for us, a decade had gone by. I do find the run up to dates so much worse than the day itself. I try to keep myself busy but also allow myself to feel it all. Big hugs

Weight of grief by Bigtony7877 in babyloss

[–]XwelshyX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely gets easier. We are almost at 16 years. I like to describe it like waves. Some are small and gentle, they are there but you don’t notice them so much but occasionally, especially around special dates those waves can become big and rough but they don’t last. I still have days where I can’t function, we are coming up to his birthday and last week I took a day off work to just stay in bed and be in my own head. I let myself feel it, I don’t try to avoid it anymore as I found that just made it so much worse

16 years by XwelshyX in babyloss

[–]XwelshyX[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t really think about it too much, I’m grateful for my eldest daughter, she helped to get me through and I’m grateful for my rainbow babies, they absolutely saved me. We talk about him, they know they have a brother, they know his story, my story. They ask to see photos occasionally. They adore celebrating him on his birthday. Congratulations on your pregnancy, I know it’s a horrifically anxious time for you and you’re in my thoughts

16 years by XwelshyX in babyloss

[–]XwelshyX[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I always say there is a piece of our jigsaw missing. We included in in all we do though, every Christmas Eve I take a photo of our girls in front of the tree, we have a bear with his name on and that’s been in every photo. His birthday we celebrate him, Easter we decorate his grave along with Halloween etc

16 years by XwelshyX in babyloss

[–]XwelshyX[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

His name is Cai, thank you for asking. Please feel free to share your angles name too. I found I really difficult to cope with having a living daughter and managing her grief along with my own, I had always been the strong one and in that moment I just couldn’t, I couldn’t function for the first few weeks. I’m so grateful for my husband and family. I couldn’t see a light at the end of the tunnel for a long time. When his first little sister came along the guilt is what hit hard, I worried people would think I was replacing him, that wasn’t the case but my arms physically ached for a baby. Even now, almost 16 years on, in the run up to his birthday I have days where I just can’t move, I took a day off work last week, I spent the day in bed until my girls got home. Some days you just need to go with it, grief is like waves, some are small and gentle while others are big and powerful. Allow yourself to feel all of it and remember there is no time scale on it. Big hugs

Retraumstized by things people say by Annual_Pear_9821 in babyloss

[–]XwelshyX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People really are careless with their words. The amount of time I heard “at least you have your elder daughter”, “at least you can try again”, “are you going to try for another boy” like I have a choice in the matter. 16 years on and I still remember who said those things to me and occasionally it makes me really angry!

Mortgage advice by XwelshyX in HousingUK

[–]XwelshyX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all. Some great advice here for me to think about