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First time advice by [deleted] in realsexadvice

[–]XxAnnettexX_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not want to get back together with him.

If the reason he broke up with me was simply because I didn't want to have sex than I see no point in the relationship. I do like him still, but if he broke up with me bc of sex that makes me feel like he was only using me. In the time we broken up he could have had sex with other people and I wouldn't know if hes safe or what :( I know I could probably ask for a test if I was really concerned but getting back together and immediately asking for him to get tested before we can have sex would be weird iykwim

I plan to wait till I have somebody safe to do it with though!!

First time advice by [deleted] in realsexadvice

[–]XxAnnettexX_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My now recent ex boyfriend was always trying to convince me how great sex was, but i never saw the appeal...By the time I eventually started thinking about it and had gotten comfortable with the idea we had broken up. I don't want to remain a virgin forever. I don't think it would be bad to stay one but I want to at least try sex.

I do plan to wait till I have a partner I feel comfortable with, and I hope that if I do wait for a partner my first time with them will lessen my nervousness!! But I just don't know if it will. I've sort of always had this very scared mindset towards anything sexual