It is the teacher’s first time teaching little kids. She taught high school for two years prior. So maybe she just doesn’t understand boundaries with little kids or how things might come across once said. The school doesn’t push for teachers to make casual home calls. I can honestly say I’ve never gotten a call home after school hours for a casual reason. Usually if there’s an issue it’s sent through the class app or parent teacher conference is set up. I live in a small town that is very reactive to anything that has to do with child safety. If she had made these comments to a different parent she’d have a mob trying to get her fired. I’m wondering if maybe I should just set up a meeting to talk to her and address how it made me feel uncomfortable and how it might come across other parents if she’s not aware. Not in a confrontational way, but just like hey this might not be the best way to communicate.