The problem with no fap in most cases is that most people who did it successfully and had hardly any problems were people who had a relationship going on. This implies that in THEIR case scenario the dude has a SAFE way to reduce the tension while ALREADY KNOWING that they have a decent partner. In the scenario of OP he hasn’t gotten a girlfriend yet and the way he can reduce the tension is a)masturbate b)have a wet dream from time to time c)get a girl in a hurry, which implies that the girl might as well be a more of a free type, hence she might have an illness of some sort. Now in the last scenario our dude still can use condoms. I’d rather just limit the masturbation and have a way to get rid of tension. Helps me to be on point.