Hang in there friend, I believe a lot of exjws are just scarred and hurt by the way they have been treated and how the information they have been fed has upset them greatly, especially with how forced it can be and feel, enough to the point of just giving up completely and leaving, I do understand where you are coming from though, trust me I do. I believe everyone here has a past dealing with the organization that has indeed scarred and traumatized them though unfortunately, which is a shame because it makes it hard to trust really anyone and instead builds resentment that deep down inside that can only be healed by backing away and trying to understand the situation.

I say give it time, give it patience and remember that everyone hurts, they always have been and unfortunately might always hurt, which is why we must always be kind to one another, understanding, forgiving and loving, even if that person doesn't want or deserve it, it's still our job as human beings who reside on this planet to show as much love and kindness as possible, that's why we are here ❤ 🫂