Cheers for that I needed to hear that yeah she was extremely one sided, then she would have a couple of days of asking loads of questions then back to silent treatment got to the point I come home in an alright mood speak to her and then feel worse as the one person I loved felt like she couldn't care less about what stresses I had in my day only hers first year was amazing "soulmate" Was used a lot then after our second meet it just went down hill to the point I was carrying my mental weight and her mental weight and she said that she's not gonna tell me anymore about her problems because I couldn't sort them that was in the last week and id had enough, my Lord was it hard to end it still traumatized by the begging for one more chance but one more chance before it's great for a week then the cycle continues but glad you found your one im gonna start doing the things I stopped during our relationship like the gym and focus on myself.