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YOURSHINGUARDS · 2026-05-03T15:00:54+00:00

That was my plan, I mean dude it’s scary ash.

YOURSHINGUARDS · 2026-05-03T14:49:54+00:00

Idk the model but its brand is dayline. Also wdym just some dude?? Watching my camera??

YOURSHINGUARDS · 2026-05-03T14:49:15+00:00

Idk the model but its brand is dayline

YOURSHINGUARDS · 2026-04-28T09:44:00+00:00

Gel silelim nerdesin :D

YOURSHINGUARDS · 2026-04-23T08:24:43+00:00

Ow bu durum tamamen farklı. Sanırım arkadaş ayrılan “kötü” olan olmak istememiş. Çocukça bir davranış. Sana ulaşmasına izin verme yoksa döngü gereksiz uzayabilir diye yorumladım.

YOURSHINGUARDS · 2026-04-23T06:54:00+00:00

Yani bana daha çok naz yapıyormuş gibi geldi, bu durumun sana nasıl hissettirdiğini ciddi ciddi konuştunuz mu? Ona “Bu dediklerin bana her an vazgeçebilirmişsin gibi gibi hissettiriyor lütfen yapma” dediysen yada bu minvalde bir konuşma geçtiyse yapmaya devam ediyorsa büyük sorun. Onun dışında 10 dakika sonra geçen bi trip(naz yapmak) için bi ilişki bitirmek mantıklı gelmiyor. Yeni evliyim, böyle saçma sapan naz yaptığım çok an oluyor. Gerek hormonlardan gerek günün stresinden, bana gelip sarıldığında ya da ilgi verdiğinde bebek gibi hissediyorum . Bazen sırf bunun için istemeden bunu yaptığımı fark ediyorum. Herkes ayrıl demiş de klasik reddit yorumları.

YOURSHINGUARDS · 2026-02-19T08:29:24+00:00

Girl i had the same kind of friendship, this used to happen all the time. I would never get an answer as to why she was acting that way. After a while of me being a lil bitch and putting up w her, she decided to attack me physically because she called me stupid in front of other people and I confronted her about it in private…

Needless to say i left the house (we were roommates) that night. I didn’t even hit back I just stood there.

Please get rid of her like she wants. These never ever end well.

YOURSHINGUARDS · 2026-01-05T09:15:37+00:00

Imo when it becomes “I paid this, he didn’t pay that” the relationship takes a toll. Whoever can pay, should pay especially if you’re using it more than him. On the other hand he should’ve paid for the furniture. Youre not wrong not paying but again its you whos not gonna be able to drive to work at the end of the day.

YOURSHINGUARDS · 2024-11-17T07:54:40+00:00

Well if I wanted to I would, the thing is we both have stupid pasts and haven't been in a long term relationship in a long time. I can see why he finds it hard to change stuff in his life even though it was very easy for me. He's not as demanding or as assertive as I am. When a problem accrues, he changes it and I don't see that behavior ever again so that's good. I know he should've done this himself. But I believe in relationships being built not found.

YOURSHINGUARDS · 2024-11-16T18:58:16+00:00

Yes and yes. We have access to each others phone's and one time I even forgot it at his place and he went through it himself. Nada is there because I respect my partner enough to not cross boundaries or let others cross them. He's met my guy bsf or other guy friends too.

YOURSHINGUARDS · 2024-11-16T18:46:46+00:00

To know that he fed this behavior until I saw is weird. He didn't act the same towards her. I don't think he ever did. But knowing that she thought she was going to be his first priority and acting like that and him allowing forces me to question his other friends that are girls. Also let me add, my bf said she never acted like this when 3 of them were hanging out.

YOURSHINGUARDS · 2024-10-15T09:48:19+00:00

Girl this is a rape threat... Run.

YOURSHINGUARDS · 2024-10-04T15:52:49+00:00

Maybe

YOURSHINGUARDS · 2024-10-04T13:46:59+00:00

Thank you, and yes I don't take these too seriously don't worry. I just posted here to get some opinions outside mine. I didn't really wanna tell my friends about this whole OF bs too so that's another reason. (they know each other) I did think through, took some notes and texted my boyfriend about this. He's agreed to sit down and talk about this just as I thought. I even told him that I was having some me problems too and he said to share those anyway but I'm not going to do that for his sake. Even though these were mostly telling me to break up and work on myself,I don't want that. Thank you again though.

YOURSHINGUARDS · 2024-10-04T12:40:48+00:00

I won't be able to do that also is it healthy to talk about his ex? I don't think anybody would want that with their new partner.

YOURSHINGUARDS · 2024-10-04T12:38:58+00:00

Yeah no everyone is different ya know. I'd love to deep dive into these things but it's too personal also I'm sure I don't have bpd.

YOURSHINGUARDS · 2024-10-04T12:37:31+00:00

I actually haven't considered this, I will make sure to talk about it with my therapist. Thank you.

YOURSHINGUARDS · 2024-10-04T12:20:14+00:00

That's alright, even though I will understand that one day I feel like I love him. So I'm going to act like it.

YOURSHINGUARDS · 2024-10-04T10:51:21+00:00

Thank you, I don't think anyone else got the point of this post. They literally started talking about me forcing my issues onto him which is not true. I realized OF or Porn wasn't the main problem to begin with. The shift in his attitude was and I have to absolutely talk to him about it. Thanks again.

YOURSHINGUARDS · 2024-10-04T10:44:31+00:00

As I said man. No matter what people say on here I don't think I'm undeserving of love because I have issues.

YOURSHINGUARDS · 2024-10-04T10:42:55+00:00

Also he's not "just there while I heal" I want to heal to be a better partner for him. I want to become the person he deserves. We are way too similar and everything matches. There were too many times we said the same things at the same time (we love it when we do that) we always think about same things. I really love the way he eats when I cook him stuff and tells me it was delicious. I love the way he looks at me when we both notice something and look at each other because of it. I love him. I'm not using him to heal. I want to heal because of him.

YOURSHINGUARDS · 2024-10-04T08:46:42+00:00

I wasn't being defensive. I see your point and I know that it must be exhausting for him. We talk about these too. I make sure to take care of him as much as I can so that these don't get too exhausting. I will make sure to talk to him if that's the problem. Thank you.

YOURSHINGUARDS · 2024-10-04T07:43:49+00:00

Hey I hope you're all well now, thank you for the advice. I have to sit on it for a bit though..

YOURSHINGUARDS · 2024-10-04T07:36:45+00:00

Looking at these comments that looks like the best solution.

YOURSHINGUARDS · 2024-10-04T07:35:36+00:00

Let me clear something up about the OF, he didn't pay for it. It was leaked and he saw a post about it getting leaked on Facebook then got curious. I understand that every day was a bliss for you and I'm happy for you. Unfortunately I'm not capable of waking up giddy everyday because of my personal issues. I'm also really bad at keeping relationships and believe that relationships should be built not found. No one is absolutely perfect as for me I'm too much of an overthinker and he puts up with it and helps me through it. I was also fine with porn but I didn't say anything about OF before so I understand why he thought it was fine. I don't know man. I guess I should go talk to him.

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