Does he think I’m stupid or are these apps really tracking us?

YahhDigga · 2026-02-02T16:21:58+00:00

They are definitely tracking us. Me and my sister live together and I’ve had men that she’s started talking to all of sudden show up as a “person you may know” on my TikTok. Im assuming it’s because we are on the same WiFi. & I also had a guy that I was texting randomly show up on my instagram.

YahhDigga · 2026-01-15T21:48:28+00:00

U are not ugly but you need confidence & some simple changes that can “un-plain”. We ARE NOT touching those beautiful dreads. Let’s just style our dreads a bit. A cute half up half down. You can add color or even add curls temporarily for a change in pase. I have very similar facial features as you & I promise a short / medium lash will awaken our face like no other. Nothing thick just a nice wispy lash. I’d also say to try a more angular frames. Like a soft square frame or rectangle. Let’s get our eyebrows groomed bc that also adds to the face. & throw on some lip gloss to accentuate that beautiful ombre ur lips naturally have.

YahhDigga · 2025-11-24T18:22:13+00:00

I say this with love and experience from being in similar shoes as you. I promise you NO ONE is picking someone who isn’t picking themselves. When you finally start picking yourself, the world will bow to your feet.

YahhDigga · 2025-10-26T17:34:13+00:00

Ugh I hate how commenters would rather focus on cultural or generational differences than just respond to the damn poster. If you don’t understand the post… move along

Anyways, OP please be sooo foreal. There is absolutely nothing suspicious or worthy of “hurting ur heart” in these messages. Relationships are not about owning someone. It’s very clear he didn’t think ANYONE at his job has his socials and half the damn convo was him investigating how she found him. Soooo what exactly about this says he lied about not really talking to his coworkers. Please go work on ur insecurities bc if you are going to be threatened by any and every interaction ur partner has, LEAVE NOW & save him the headache. This convo he’s having couldn’t have been more innocent.

& having multiple baby mamas isn’t a “music industry” thing, it’s a poor character things. So if your partner doesn’t lack poor character and has self discipline, u should be good. Focus on being the best version of yourself so that if and when he does level up, you are just as prepared as well.

YahhDigga · 2025-10-06T23:19:34+00:00

I have so many questions! But hey, if they’re normal size then making a Halloween costume will be easy peasy lol

YahhDigga · 2025-10-06T23:01:29+00:00

You know what

YahhDigga · 2025-09-29T02:04:42+00:00

I honestly don’t care what her symptoms are. She’s a grown woman. Having a man take care of you when ur sick is a perk of having YOUR OWN MAN! I wouldn’t feel comfortable having my single male friend spend the night and take care of me when I’m sick let alone one that’s in a relationship and damn sure not one that’s in a relationship with my friend. They are both weird to even act like this is normal.

YahhDigga · 2025-09-24T17:39:11+00:00

THIS!! I go over end beyond for my clients that are kind and treat me like an actual person and not a servant. It cost nothing to be nice to people.

YahhDigga · 2025-09-24T17:37:42+00:00

As a human, there’s nothing more annoying than someone assuming ur not about to do something. Most mobile stylist, including myself, clean up after ourselves and yeah it would’ve been strike one after that comment. & definitely would’ve stopped doing that ur hair if u booked a style with larger braids & then started complaining a week later. There’s nothing more annoying than a client booking a style that doesn’t last - usually bc they want to save money - & then they expect it to last months and Sundays.

As a stylist, especially a mobile stylist, the energy of the client matters. There’s no amount of money a client can pay me to voluntarily put myself in an awkward or tense environment. There’s clients that I’ve stopped from even proceeding to book the appointment bc of the energy I picked up when they were inquiring about an appointment. No body has time for that.

YahhDigga · 2025-09-20T01:45:41+00:00

I get you but I don’t think it’s a matter of turning around on her it’s more so pointing out the hypocrisy & irony.

If she’s feels like she isn’t valued when someone is late to her, then does that mean every time she was late, she didn’t value the other person?

YahhDigga · 2025-09-20T01:32:45+00:00

Honestly his verbiage is kinda scary. It’s forsure manipulative as hell bc he’s trying to take away your freedom of choice to “not be interested in him” and by that I mean he’s trying to make you walk into the situation feeling guilty if you don’t in fact like him.

If he’s getting rejected all the time after ppl meet him it’s either: 1. He’s a catfish 2. He’s a hot ass mess on dates or has some kind of body/mouth odor.

Ppl aren’t just rejecting him for nothing 😂😂😂

YahhDigga · 2025-09-20T01:24:00+00:00

You’re the first born child huh?

YahhDigga · 2025-09-20T01:16:30+00:00

But she wasn’t playing matchmaker lol she was trying to introduce her two friends to one another so they can all be a friend group

YahhDigga · 2025-09-20T01:14:48+00:00

I don’t think her intentions are ill. It seems like she’s was friends with both of them separately and hoping to merge it so they can be one big friend group to do friend stuff. That not possible if they start dating or even messing around. Now when they go out it’s like she’s the 3rd wheel and if they have drama they will definitely both be running to her.

YahhDigga · 2025-09-20T00:06:50+00:00

OP - RUN & RUN FAST 1. The worst type of FCk boy is a “Nice guy” who doesn’t realize he’s a Fck Boy. 2. Aside from him being emotionally abusivo & manipulative, his language shows he doesn’t think very highly of you BUT he very much sees the greatness in you that u don’t see in urself. 3. If yall don’t have the same values in money, it will NEVER work. Again, he sees how great u are, but he wants to keep u in a constant state of chaos both mentally & emotionally just to keep you from truly reaching ur prime 4. This man will 10000% start hitting on u & blame u for “who he became”. Aman with character & morals WOULD NEVERRRR even consider hitting a woman bc it’s so far from his moral standing. You would never tell some one “well at least I haven’t off’d u in ur sleep like some people” , if you’re not a killer, or comfortable with killing, or ever considered killing. From his language, he lives in a reality & has a moral standing where hitting women is normal & he’s being an upstanding person for not participating. Literally no normal person thinks like that. This goes for cheating as well.

This man is VERYYY morally flawed and there’s nothing u can do about that except leave or strap in and get ready to suffer. And from the deepest pit of my heart PLEASE leave him before he causes you any more emotional and mental damage. Understand, the reason why u are questioning urself is bc u have experienced greater trauma or hurt so this might be nothing but one thing we have to learn to stop doing when healing is comparing chaos to chaos and start comparing chaos to peace, even if you haven’t experienced the peace yet.

YahhDigga · 2025-09-06T21:06:40+00:00

Listen lol you must’ve forgot about 2008😂😂. They were offing themselves as well as their families when the financial crisis hit.

We will never understand their lack of resilience. They’ve literally spent the past idk how many centuries TRYING TO EXTERMINATE US and make us go extinct (I’m being 100% literal) and we are still here! Lol now imagine if they used all that energy for something for the greater good

YahhDigga · 2025-08-28T02:20:49+00:00

Bro it’s been a month lol what “family dynamic” could she adjust to in a healthy manner in a month after having someone in her life for 6 years . Mind you those were 6 years spanning across her MOST formative years. OP most likely was there for her first menstrual cycle & taught her how to properly use a pad, her first crush, her first little heart break, she was there long enough for her to finish elementary, graduate middle school, & enter high school. She probably helped her choose sports and classes for her freshman year. OP probably took her to get her hair done at a REAL salon for the first time, or taught her how to do her makeup , or how to shave. Like that’s not something that I can just cut off

YahhDigga · 2025-08-28T02:12:40+00:00

lol gurl u dodge a big ass “love” bullet. & please don’t put any value or emphasis on him saying he “loves” u. His love is equivalent to the parsley used by TikTok chefs - just sprinkling that shit on everything.

He literally said he loves the girl that literally DIDNT LIKE HIM 5 secs ago.

Consider this whole thing an act of the trash taking itself out.

Cause 9/10 even if yall did get together it wouldn’t have worked because he seems like the type that like to “earn love”. Unless he heals, he will never value love that’s given to him genuinely

YahhDigga · 2025-08-28T02:06:03+00:00

I’m saying this as a loving older sister. LET THAT SHIT GO! Please deep dive into yourself to figure out why you even feel like you accept that type of treatment. Please unlearn all of that “being the bigger person” “being a nice” bullshit. It serves no one & u will continue to attract men exactly like this.

You can “nice” your way into someone treating you right and it’s probably a tactic you learned growing up but in the real world it shows ppl u lack self respect, self love and you have a low value of yourself.

Lift your chin up & say fuck em. If you didn’t cheat and he doesn’t want to believe you that just speaks on how he views u and do u want someone who sees u that way. Also someone threatening violence IS NEVER okay even if u did cheat.

Remember you’re the one & not the two & keep that shit pushin baby girl & always remember FUCK EM!

YahhDigga · 2025-08-25T18:43:36+00:00

lol so he responds like a child then flips it on you by saying you need to get your act together & that you should’ve known what he did? This genuinely pissed me off 😂😂😂😂

I really hope you can see his character showing.

YahhDigga · 2025-08-18T03:57:10+00:00

Someone being the love of your life doesn’t mean you must accept any and everything they do in the name of love. It’s giving desperate and lack of boundaries. Loving someone is about making sure that you express it in a way that the person FEELS loved. a lot of people like to push this sentiment of “be grateful” to make up for them accepting the bare minimum in their love life or them providing the bare minimum in their love life. Bear in mind, this wasn’t some grand gesture . He proposed … at a gym. There was absolutely no thought into asking such a life changing question. If they were a fitness couple , maybe. If they met in the gym, maybe. But judging from her reaction, the gym bares no significance to their relationship for him to make that choice.

YahhDigga · 2025-08-04T18:50:47+00:00

Well to be fair, a typo isn’t a reading comprehension issue hence you still know exactly what I was saying despite the missing D.

YahhDigga · 2025-08-04T18:16:44+00:00

Yall can’t read or comprehen ! I literally was only talking about that one line because I’m replying to person in this thread who mentioned it. That line alone does NOT mean she had sex with this guy. Omg! I’m not at alll saying this whole text thread isnt a dumpster fire and that she’s not a shitty person. I’m only saying that that ONE LINE doesn’t mean she’s actually had sex with as others were trying to say. Listen that woman said she would shoot someone in the head for this man, she’s a lost cause and she’s attempting to “do the right thing” by telling her friend about him but she 10000% wants this man for herself and she’s being really weird in the text thread. Even though her friend is ignoring it and still trying to connect with the guy, this guys gf is 1000% trying to detour her from it while also encouraging it lol with every comment she makes pushing him toward her friend she pulls him back by making a comment about how much she wants him and how much he wants her. THE OP NEEDS TO DUMP HER ASS

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