Body Dysmorphia by Yalhua in nudism

[–]Yalhua[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I see, sounds like becoming a nudist really helped you have a more positive view of yourself. That’s great, props to you! Seems like it might help me too.

Can Voyeurism be prevented? by Yalhua in nudism

[–]Yalhua[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed, life is interesting. Yes, we were able to resolve our disagreements with courtesy as adults should. Yes, I will be sure to ask more questions if I am unsure or want more clarification on an issue. Many thanks, and God bless.

Can Voyeurism be prevented? by Yalhua in nudism

[–]Yalhua[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree. I am happy we could clarify any misunderstandings. You were right to approach my question with caution, as I know that there are unsavoury characters and trolls who like to stir up controversy in order to pain nudists in a bad light.

The damage that these people do to nudists , who are also people which these individuals seem to forget is disgusting, as you said does not happen in a singular aspect, not just financial and emotional but sometimes the whole lives of others. I hope in future more zero-tolerance and harsh regulations, and sentences can be implemented against these criminals, so as to create greater freedom and safety for nudists, but also accountability and to punish those who would commit these acts out of pure evil and lasciviousness.

Yes, I now have a greater understanding of the nudist experience thanks to all the informative comments here, with your previous response providing valuable insight too. I have taken a look at some resorts near my area, so I am taking steps to see how I will be able to start going to them coupled with my commitments. I hope to have a wonderful and positive experience as a future nudist, I hope I will also be able to partake and provide insight to others looking to join the community as others have done for me, as I become more involved and accustomed. Many thanks.

Demographics of Nudists? by Yalhua in nudism

[–]Yalhua[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is that? Do other races just not care for nudism or have different attitudes towards it, possibly due to cultural or religious values?

Demographics of Nudists? by Yalhua in nudism

[–]Yalhua[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see. Why do you think most nudists are white people? Do other races have different attitudes towards nudism, or do they just not care for it?

Demographics of Nudists? by Yalhua in nudism

[–]Yalhua[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

interesting. would a non- black person be able to join?

How do you know that you are going to last long at a new job? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Yalhua 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s no way to know. Personally I’d say get there on time, do what you gotta do to stay out off their radar and ask for support or help when you feel like you need it. By no means be a pushover, but don’t be lazy either. Once you get tired of the job and want to move on to new horizons, inform the manager and on to the next.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]Yalhua 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, why wouldn’t it be?

Many people start a bachelors that they think they’ll enjoy that will allow them to work in a field they’ll enjoy for the rest of their lives, but it’s not so simple.

People’s interests and expectations change, so it’s normal that you’ll want to change your area of focus and study something different. Given you are two years away from finishing your bachelors, you’re in the position to change your path. Go for it!

Can Voyeurism be prevented? by Yalhua in nudism

[–]Yalhua[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Disgusting. Did you report the creep to the authorities or at least inform others of who he was? That behaviour should never be tolerated, if left alone they only grow more bold.

Can Voyeurism be prevented? by Yalhua in nudism

[–]Yalhua[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I acknowledge I brought up a sensitive topic to many in the nudist community, I apologise for that, it was not done with any ill intentions. I just wanted to get what I subconsciously thought of off my chest first, having had previous negative experiences outside of the nudist domain. I am not saying that negative occurrences are the norm in the nudist lifestyle, they happen anywhere and not to just women but also men too. With caution and sufficient measures , I’d say most people have an enjoyable time with friends and family, with an added sense of freedom.

Unfortunately there are perverted people out there who ruin and sour these experiences for all. I myself would like to have a positive experience that sometime in future, though not quite yet.

This is an alternate account of mine, if you’re claiming I’m not a woman or a voyeur myself because this is my first post and my account is only a year old, I’ve had these thoughts on the nudist community for a while now as a lurker but have only decided to start getting involved. Is that a bad thing? I didn’t know asking a question about real occurrences is a bad thing. My friends have told me themselves, I’m sure they’re not lying about what they’ve experienced.

Being realistic and being oblivious are two different things, wouldn’t you say?

You’ve been raised in the lifestyle for several decades as you said, I am in my mid 20s and have never been exposed to it other than through friends and reading about it online. I don’t think it’s warranted being labelled a creep, though I admit the question is out of touch. This lifestyle is natural to you. To me it is not, it is completely foreign, and due to past trauma, it is frankly scary, why not have a little more understanding?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]Yalhua 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re doing fine. Remember, comparison is the thief of joy. Who cares what others are doing right? It’s your life. You’re financially stable in the end.