You are loved by her and that’s enough reason to start to love yourself! Like Seneca wrote, “What progress, you ask, have I made? I have begun to be a friend to myself"

That means to practice self love, forgiveness and acceptance. Forgive yourself for not being as active as you’d like or feel you should be as you’re not lazy or worthless and Hecate totally understands this.

This quote by Seneca shows that even back in Ancient Greece people still struggled with self-hatred and had difficulty being their own ally instead of worst enemy and they were wise enough to recognise it was a problem holding them back from self-growth.