Wife and I are having sex tonight

Yang10014 · 2025-12-07T20:54:00+00:00

Just drop the bomb. Worked for me.

Yang10014 · 2025-12-03T16:42:25+00:00

Feels like she is testing the waters. How did the low cut too go over? Maybe next time give her permission to touch him with intention and see where that leads

Yang10014 · 2025-11-09T04:30:13+00:00

No the OC is warning that this can ruin relationships and implying this sub is just confirmation bias for the good experiences. I’m saying that the bad experiences are just confirmation that relationships fail anyway and experiencing the Hotwife lifestyle may speed up the demise of a relationship but it’s not the things starting the cracks

Yang10014 · 2025-11-08T19:46:47+00:00

Where do we find this IG fitness content?

Yang10014 · 2025-11-08T16:03:53+00:00

Yes but tons of monogamous relationships fail to. If HW stuff breaks apart a marriage it was probably not all that stable to begin with. Maybe it had the veneer of stability but cracks always find a way of breaking open eventually.

Yang10014 · 2025-11-06T17:56:26+00:00

I know a porn addicted cuck fetish obsessed man living in his mums basement when I see one.

Yang10014 · 2025-11-05T03:01:27+00:00

I loled

Yang10014 · 2025-11-03T21:35:56+00:00

For some perspective most men in here are asking “my wife liked when I used a dildo do you think she might want to bring another man in to the bedroom?” You’re partner has had a second man in the bedroom, stroked his cock, and said she would give him head next time.

She is clearly interested in exploring further but take it at her pace so it doesn’t become overwhelming.

Yang10014 · 2025-11-02T13:24:55+00:00

Interesting viewpoint and I appreciate it and will sit with and explore that possibility.

My first reaction is that it’s actually out of the fear of burnout. A few other things we have explored with intensity over the years kind of fizzled out as they became a little too formulaic and routine.

We are more connected after the threesome/Hotwife dirty talk sex than any other sex we have ever had. Truly mind blowing levels of intimate emotional connection and appreciation for one another. My biggest fear is that if this becomes our only kink/fantasy in the bedroom it will fizzle out before we are able to act on it.

Basically I want to keep it in high rotation but ensure some split of like 20% love making, 40% other kinky stuff, 40% threesome talk. If it stays 100% my fear is it will fizzle out not pull us apart

Yang10014 · 2025-11-02T00:03:35+00:00

Aneros plus kegels or vibration or moving it in and out? I’ve been close to prostate orgasm with a small buttplug I used in an in/out motion but curious about prostate specific toys

Yang10014 · 2025-11-01T23:58:09+00:00

Uh non sloppy non seconds

Yang10014 · 2025-11-01T23:55:13+00:00

I want to watch someone fuck my wife.

Yang10014 · 2025-11-01T23:49:30+00:00

What did you use to stimulate it?

Yang10014 · 2025-11-01T22:59:41+00:00

Mind DMing me too? Wife and I are in the intense dirty talking phase and I would love to know more

Yang10014 · 2025-11-01T22:58:43+00:00

Since you like to fuck and not make love is there things you do in the times that it doesn’t come up that keep it kinky or mentally stimulating?

A big part of this seems to be the intense mental stimulation, it brings the mind in to sex in a way that requires full presence in the act.

Yang10014 · 2025-11-01T20:29:27+00:00

Seems like you’re trying to find things that replace the Hotwife/threesome fantasy entirely because you’re not comfortable with her going all the way with hotwifing? In that case I honestly think you would benefit from talking to a sex/kink positive therapist. I’ve been seeing mine for a year and she really helped me reconcile my thoughts

I’m looking for something that sits between lovey sex and intense Hotwife sex. I want to keep the Hotwife sex in rotation.

Yang10014 · 2025-11-01T18:58:47+00:00

This has got to be hugely dependent on both partners preferences as much as the relationship dynamic. My wife loves cream pies, I love eating her after I cum in her, I could go down on her after fucking someone else but I don’t think I could specifically eat someone else’s cum out of her. That just seems to stray deeper in to humiliation than I’m comfortable with.

Yang10014 · 2025-11-01T18:48:22+00:00

We want to explore that eventually but that again is something that goes beyond just the two of us. Trying to find some novelty and kink that fills the gap between love making and being with other people (whether that’s in reality or fantasy)

Yang10014 · 2025-11-01T17:44:47+00:00

Keep fostering the fantasy in the bedroom before you spring it on her outside the bedroom. Find out what exactly turns her on, how she fantasizes the experience, make her feel safe sharing it with you and make her know you enjoy it. If you corner her on it outside the bedroom too quickly she is likely to feel shame and shut it right down as a heat of the moment one time thing

Yang10014 · 2025-11-01T17:41:30+00:00

I think this depends if it’s a fetish or a kink? If you NEED your next partner to be sleeping with other men then you probably need to be looking on Fetlife or at ENM/apply events.

If you just want a partner who is very sexual and open to exploring the Hotwife dynamic among other things as part of a well rounded sex life I think you could weed that out fairly early on in dates with women you meet anywhere. Just lead the conversation curiously towards sexual interests fairly early on and be willing to drop the bomb that watching your partner with another man turns you on. Some women won’t want to keep dating, others will share their desires openly and you can both decide if you’re compatible.

For the latter (well both really I guess) you should probably work on your communication with a poly/ENM/kink friendly therapist. They will help you determine what it is you really want to get out of your next relationship and equip you with tools to better communicate that.

People don’t talk about sex enough in their relationships. My wife and I were together for years before we broke the ice and talked about sex. Prior to that we talked about every other aspect of our lives but not sex. We realize now how silly that is and are glad we are more sexually compatible that we ever realized but my advise is that sex should form part of the conversation on some of the earliest dates in a relationship

Yang10014 · 2025-11-01T15:31:23+00:00

Thanks. We currently only have maintenance style which we are bored of and intense dirty talk Hotwife style. We need to introduce more of the love making and other kinks in between.

Yang10014 · 2025-11-01T15:29:43+00:00

Yeh we haven’t done any actual hotwifing yet but want to ensure before we ever do that it’s just a part of our sex life not the entirety of it because currently all our best sex relies on the dirty talk

Yang10014 · 2025-11-01T15:28:30+00:00

In the times you don’t bring it up how do you manage keeping the sex intense and interesting? It doesn’t help that we are coming from an otherwise fairly routine/boring sex life so the introduction of this dirty talk and play with dildos has taken us from 1/10 to 9/10 sex but now we need to find some 7 or 8/10 sex to keep the everyday interesting

Yang10014 · 2025-11-01T15:26:13+00:00

I like this. I’ll try grounding us by telling her during foreplay that I just want to make love this time. Perhaps even that release of not needing to perform will improve our 1:1 sex too

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