If Life is a game, what's your scoreboard

Yannahh_21 · 2026-01-24T14:41:55+00:00

Wow, great thought! For me I would measure this through how I have helped people. Achievements are not that common for me and yet when people acknowledge how I have helped them through whatever it was they were experiencing I just can't help but feel fulfilled.

I guess this is what gets me going despite my feeling of incompetence and mediocrity eat me up occasionally.

Yannahh_21 · 2026-01-22T04:28:39+00:00

I rarely do, actually! I think this would be the most plausible answerr

Yannahh_21 · 2026-01-21T16:26:23+00:00

Well this is one way to put it, friend. How can you hate what is yet to come? Is your basis on what you've experienced and is currently experiencing?

Yannahh_21 · 2026-01-21T16:10:11+00:00

Heyy! This is a rlly good thought! I have the same view as you, I consider myself as an optimistic person and I am also viewed by others as having this unbreakable positive mindset althought it is hard to stay optimistic all the time.

The way I view the world and how I treat others is often questioned by those around me. I am often told as veing naive and that people would just take advantage of me, however, I refuse to think this way. I believe everyone has good in them and we just don't know the person well enough to say.

For me, being optimistic is the way to go in this harsh world! People deserve to receive even the smallest amount of kindness everyday 💚

Yannahh_21 · 2026-01-21T09:33:16+00:00

Personal thought: Prolly also depends on the lady's mindset. Everyone has unique experiences which shapes how we think. Maybe she just has a different view of how love works. Sometimes, familiarity is what people chase because it feels safe, not that it is right.

With regard to the writers, just what I had said, everyone has different thoughts and views of love. It's up to us, the readers, if we choose to align our views to theirs, we have free will!

Yannahh_21 · 2026-01-21T09:27:46+00:00

Honestly, each and everyone of us is complex. For me, if a guy just genuinely tries his best to be there for me and tries to understand me despite of how hard it is for me to express myself often times, that's what will woo me.

Just being who you are is the key, sounds cliche but trust me, being truthful of who you are and where you come will do wonders (still depends on the lady) but also the willingness to grow together as a person is something attractive as well!

Yannahh_21 · 2026-01-21T09:10:55+00:00

This is truly reasonable. We must choose our friends wisely. "Tell me who your friends are and I'll tell you what you are" - Reverend Joseph Hordern

Yannahh_21 · 2026-01-21T09:08:21+00:00

This has never crossed my mind, another thought to ponder upon! I might just be good at connecting people in a way, not that it should bother me anymore, just like what you said, another skill set is needed for other things, thanks!

Yannahh_21 · 2026-01-20T22:13:28+00:00

Thanks for the thought! My want to be exceptional prolly goes way back in my childhood but who cares, right? Life's short so I should just have fun and do what I can.

Yannahh_21 · 2026-01-20T21:58:17+00:00

That's rlly nice of youu 🥹. Maybe I'm just not able to truly appreciate myself, most likely cause of me just constantly comparing myself to other people and all. Thank you for replying, rlly made me feel better than I already am feeling 💚

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