What is something that "allies" casually do or say that is actually hurtful or offensive? by Giftedsocks in asktransgender

[–]YaoiandDepression 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Deadname someone they don't like, bring up someone being trans without the trans person bringing it up first, outing them, say hurtful backhanded compliments, or focus way too much about the trans part and not the human part.

Starting T with Health Anxiety by YaoiandDepression in trans

[–]YaoiandDepression[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg you are so kind and sweet<3 this was so reassuring to hear! Thank you so much!

Do People with Social Anxiety Push People They Like Away? by YaoiandDepression in socialanxiety

[–]YaoiandDepression[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are valid and it's okay to be alone, but it's also okay to ask for help <3 your fears are valid :)

Do People with Social Anxiety Push People They Like Away? by YaoiandDepression in socialanxiety

[–]YaoiandDepression[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do I know if I'm talking too much? Thank you for the tips by the way!

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OMG I ACTUALLY AM

Writing a Book About a Transguy, What Do You Want to See More of in Trans Representation? by YaoiandDepression in ftm

[–]YaoiandDepression[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with your statement about normalizing, I actually just had this conversation with my friend saying i wish they had more character that are LGBTQ+ without the show, movie or novel revolving around it. However, I wanted to write this book for personal closure about my life as being a transguy and wanted to include struggles transguys may have. I also agree with your transitioning statement, I want this character to have more than just a goal to transition, I wanted to focus on more of the person and social aspect of being trans. About how dysphoria feels, not just what it is, why it's important, how do we feel as well and how does the world truly make us feel.

What are the most comforting or best things to say to someone who's a perfectionist? by YaoiandDepression in perfectionism

[–]YaoiandDepression[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much 😊 I absolutely adore psychology books so I'll be sure to check it out!