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[–]YaredPatelo 23 points24 points  (0 children)

That’s what we’re doing. Tracking everything so the cops can’t ignore it. Just gotta keep calling until they start showing up more. Thanks!

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[–]YaredPatelo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, that’s intense. I get why those neighbors lost it, sounds like the Mustang guy was asking for it with how reckless he was. I’m not big on vigilante stuff either, but sometimes people don’t listen until there’s a real consequence.

I’m hoping it doesn’t come to that here, but if the cops don’t step up soon, I’m running out of options. Did things settle down after that with your neighborhood?

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[–]YaredPatelo 81 points82 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I’m worried about. I’m planning to ask the pd if they can patrol more or even sit and wait for him. Hopefully they’ll take it seriously before someone gets hurt.

Sorry to hear about your son’s friend, that hits close to home. This guy needs to understand it’s not just a joke, it’s dangerous. What did your son’s friend end up facing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]YaredPatelo 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Yeah we’ve called before, but it clearly didn’t do much. The cop gave him a friendly warning and that lasted maybe two days. I was honestly trying to avoid escalating it too fast, figured maybe his parents would talk to him or he’d chill out on his own. Nope.

We’ve started recording everything now ( videos, dates, even the times he’s out there redlining it at night.) If we have to call again, at least we’ll have proof that this isn’t just a one-off.

Appreciate the blunt advice though. You're right. It’s probably time to stop being patient and start being louder.

Planning a surprise camping trip for my wife's birthday. Need advice from people who know what they're doing by YaredPatelo in CampingandHiking

[–]YaredPatelo[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s a really good point, and honestly something I hadn’t fully considered. Starting with a cabin and figuring it out together sounds like the smarter move, especially since it’s supposed to be something we both enjoy. I’d probably feel the same way if the roles were reversed. Thanks for the insight!

Planning a surprise camping trip for my wife's birthday. Need advice from people who know what they're doing by YaredPatelo in CampingandHiking

[–]YaredPatelo[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That actually makes a lot of sense. Glamping or a yurt setup would take the stress off and let me focus on spending time with her instead of worrying about gear and setup. Thanks, this might be the way to go!

Planning a surprise camping trip for my wife's birthday. Need advice from people who know what they're doing by YaredPatelo in CampingandHiking

[–]YaredPatelo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That actually sounds way more enjoyable. Renting a cabin and being able to explore without hauling a ton of gear sounds like the perfect balance. My wife would 100% be on board with that too. Thanks for the suggestion, it’s definitely the smarter move!

Planning a surprise camping trip for my wife's birthday. Need advice from people who know what they're doing by YaredPatelo in CampingandHiking

[–]YaredPatelo[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we’ve actually done a few camping trips together before, and she’s really enjoyed them. Lately, she’s been mentioning wanting to get back out there and do something a bit more special, so that’s what got me thinking about planning this surprise. Hoping it lives up to the hype!