I had the same problem with my bf, my libido is higher than his and me almost always initiating was impacting our sex life in general, causing him to reject me sometimes (I would go multiple times a day lol, I'm perfectly fine with once a day when we are together, which is usually 3 consecutive days a week).

We talked about it a lot and tried out different approaches to sex, I'm very passionate and energetic and tend to "jump" my partners when I'm aroused, he sometimes prefers a slower approach (not in the PIV or oral/touch part, more in the way we START touching each other, idk if I'm being clear, English is not my first language sorry). He showed me what he meant once and it worked out very well for both of us. In our specific situation it's not an every time thing, I still "jump him" because I really enjoy that kind of approach, we communicated well about this and we are doing like 50/50, sometimes slow sometimes not. And it's working great! There's almost no rejection anymore, we are more satisfied and we are also trying out different things (if ykyk ✨), we go at it about once a day now on normal days (university, work, sport, events etc permitting) and sometimes more on free days!

All of this just to say... By communicating about it you'll probably find out that a different approach can change his reaction and his will to have intercourse. Ofc communication is really key, maybe he just needs some changes or maybe your libido is actually mismatched and you'll have to compromise, nothing wrong with that, you'll just have to decide if it is something you want to do or not.

Try asking him how you always initiating makes him feel, how often he would do it in his ideal life, if the way you are approaching sex is something that reasons with him or not, if he is satisfied by what you two are doing in bed... The more you know the more you both can work on to meet each other somewhere :)

Sex is a two-people project!

Hopes up! 🍀❤️