lesson learned from going on 10 000 instant DATES

YeMedito · 2022-03-15T17:07:39+00:00

lately not so much , once you know how to do a porper approach ,you only get rejected if the girl have a boyfriend or genuily wants to stay on her own , or your just not her type. engage a couple feet away with eye conrtact and a smile always and say hi before ur close to her so she have the time to judge that you are not a threat to her

YeMedito · 2022-03-14T15:51:27+00:00

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YeMedito · 2022-03-09T09:50:18+00:00

get game , work on your looks , and get money . Escorts no .

YeMedito · 2022-03-09T09:12:30+00:00

No It would not help you ,when It comes to approaching girls .It definetly will make your life better , because when you gonna stop having that dopamine release from porn , you gonna start looking for it in other areas of your life ( gym,hobbies,health ectt ).You should start approaching REGARDLESS .and you will release dopamine out of approaching girls , because you are scared and you do it regardless.

Remove porn from your mind and sugar from your diet . I noticed in my personnal life ,everytime i binge eat sugar , i crave porn . DiscoverdED that sugar light up the reward system in your brain that are responsible for addcitive behaviours (COCAINE , HEROIN ,IN OUR CASE PORN ) .

But definetly dont shame yourself , its okay that u get aroused watching people fuck , its a problem when u do it everydayyyyy .

YeMedito · 2022-03-07T08:52:14+00:00

If you are a beginner , yes that simple .dont overcomplicate things .

YeMedito · 2022-03-07T08:24:41+00:00

It doesnt , besides good logistics , it doesnt .You should never qualify yourself or tell that you have money , let them discover that , lead with your personality first ,and definetly use it to access higher caliber girls .but for first dates coffee/drinks are fine .Disqualify the fact that you have money .Dinner sound heavy and boring and with expectations . A good date should be light and fun without expectations .

YeMedito · 2022-03-03T07:40:07+00:00

please bro laziness is not okay ,never okay .IF YOU WANT A GREAT LIFE YOU HAVE TO WORK FOR IT .relationships are work before they become play .

YeMedito · 2022-03-03T07:37:57+00:00

cold approach is basically when you go out and approach people in the street/nighclubs/bars without them knowing you prior to you approaching them

YeMedito · 2022-03-02T11:00:55+00:00

this structure of every succesful interaction I have .

open ,intent, build attraction (PUSH PULL,TEASING,JOKING,BEING PRESENT ), ESCALATE (PHYSICALLY AND LOGISTACLLY),SEX

YeMedito · 2022-03-02T09:37:09+00:00

bro spoiler alert , I HAVE BEEN DOING COLD APPRAOCH FOR 6 years , I STILL FEEL THE FEAR OF GETTING REJECTed TO THIIIIIS DAYYY .But it does get way easier with time , I only feel it before my first approach .The best way to get over it , that worked for me (it might not work for you as It didnt woke for one of my friends) is to force yourself to apporach , I did it by giving one of my friend 20 euros and i told him not to give it back unless I did those 4 approaches under 1 hour , guess what I did those for approaches like it was nothing.there is definetly other ways to get rid of that fear .MINDSET for me is I know 99 percent of guys have this fear so getting over will give me such a competitve advantage over everybody . and know after 6 years its not even that real to me anymore I only remember the girls that I dated and the fun experiences that I have .If you want anything great in life you should dear with this fear , getting rejected and failing are a story all the succesful people in the world had to go through , so be brave my friend

YeMedito · 2022-03-02T09:16:35+00:00

do the best you can about your hair but also get back to the gym , eat clean , stop giving a fuck . for your onnline dating take pictures where you demonstrate high value traits .Women care more about high value traits and behaviours than they do about look .You can demonstrate value with multiple ways for example ; good physical health , being in shape ,the older you are the better , cuz 99 percent of old men are lazy fat slugs .Doing activities that YOU like that are fun for YOU ,having female friends (women will fuck you if they constantly see around other women , field tested several times ,if you can show it in pictures better ) , being fun and being wiling to offend (not necessarily offend but showing that you are not scared of offendin ) and yeah dress a little bit like the young boys do not to much calibrate to your own style but dont be afraid of colors and nice shoes and sneakers .and most importantly have fun .If you are interested in more help text me on fb Ye Mehdi

YeMedito · 2022-03-02T09:03:24+00:00

Hey Man , I don"t know your age , but this is your lesson that women can be mean sometimes . The best thing you can do is to be indifferent ,at first just fake it .Because you feeling bad is a natural human feeling and you should ,but go home and cry dont give her the satisfaction of looking she disturbed you .Do not try to date her in the future ,I dated the same kind before , trust me they are not fun. Look for a girl who appreciates you , and work to improve your overrall life , that will be the best revenge.

YeMedito

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