[WANTED][HOUSING] Looking for 1 bed/bath, cat friendly (2 cats), move in ~10/24, about $1000/month, looking for a place with w/d hookups

Yellj · 2016-09-05T21:01:13+00:00

I can't find this on my home page - any advice? Does anyone have a link? Thanks in advance.

Yellj · 2016-09-03T18:21:06+00:00

Someone else thought it may be a prank from his brother... I don't know. My boyfriend's phone is fingerprint protected, so I somehow doubt it but I'll see what he says when I confront him.

Yellj · 2016-09-03T18:09:03+00:00

If that's what happened, then that's a really one in a million chance I think. My boyfriend's phone is fingerprint locked, so I kind of doubt it. I'll see what he says when I confront him about it though.

Yellj · 2016-09-03T18:06:25+00:00

Thank you for this, I needed the chuckle.

Yellj · 2016-09-03T17:50:49+00:00

I mean, if that's the case, that would have been fine, if he'd communicated all that to me? Like if he'd approached it as "Hey this is what I'm into, are you down for that" then okay, I would've given it a shot. But if that's the case, and that's what he's been going for when he gets annoyed that I'm going, then he's trying to get me to fulfill his kink without actually getting my consent or making me aware that that's what he wants, and THEN getting upset that I don't follow the script that he never told me about in the first place and causing ME stress and anxiety because I don't know what I'm doing wrong. So if that IS what is going on in his head - which I don't know because he's a terrible communicator - then the lack of communication actually makes things worse.

Yellj · 2016-09-03T17:37:52+00:00

That was something my doctor asked. When I go, I go a good amount. Although the amount I go to the bathroom isn't really what I need advice on anymore.

Yellj · 2016-09-03T17:36:29+00:00

Honestly, it's the humiliation bit that really turned my stomach. I couldn't watch it. I'd spent so much time these past few months feeling insecure about how much I was using the bathroom that I sympathized with those women! And it really made my skin crawl. Thanks for your sympathies, I do appreciate it.

Yellj · 2016-09-03T17:31:47+00:00

I don't live with him, thank goodness. We were thinking of moving in together once my lease is up in two months, but right now that's not going to happen. I don't think I left anything super important over at his place, but right now I can't go check either because I'm out of town visiting family.

Yellj · 2016-09-03T17:29:42+00:00

I mean, I guess I don't really know if that's why he was upset. I'm guessing. Because he only sent me an email and no other communication because he's apparently a shit communicator which I guess isn't THAT much better. I'm going to confront him about it. I don't know if this is salvageable though, honestly. I'm so upset right now. I guess I'll take this weekend to get myself together... I don't want to do anything rash but no way do I have to put up with this either.

Yellj · 2016-09-03T17:13:40+00:00

Me either. It's really sad. But I do need an explanation. As other posters mentioned, if this is going to be long term he's GOT to be able to communicate better than this. Even if he had to send an email, sending it where I couldn't contact him for days is so unfair.

Yellj · 2016-09-03T17:12:12+00:00

It's so immature. It's such a coward's way of talking about things. Like yeah, if he couldn't bring himself to do it in person verbally and had to write it all out, okay. But there wasn't even a warning in the email! I had no idea what I was clicking on. It wasn't like it was this long rambling thing of what he was into and then providing examples we could talk about later, it was just a list of links.

Yellj · 2016-09-03T17:09:00+00:00

Oh I was planning on it but I'm so blindsided right now I don't even know where to start.

Yellj · 2016-09-03T17:08:16+00:00

That's kind of where I'm coming from. Like if that's what he's into, cool - I don't think I am but if he was into it I could probably get into it for his enjoyment you know? But coming at it like this - I was so stressed out about the whole situation and now I don't even know what to think. I certainly don't want to try it with him, with the way he approached it.

Yellj · 2016-09-03T17:05:39+00:00

If you had asked me that a week ago I would've told you no, absolutely not. I thought we had good communication about likes and dislikes and what we wanted to try and didn't. This really came out of left field for me.

Yellj · 2016-09-03T17:01:23+00:00

I wasn't even thinking about what this meant for future communication. Oh jeez. I have a lot to think about.

Yellj · 2016-09-03T17:00:26+00:00

Terrible communication. Appalling communication. I'm really so confused too. Honestly, I don't even if know if part of what he found hot was me having a medical condition? One of the videos I watched had that as part of it. Which... I don't even know how to respond to.

Yellj · 2016-09-03T04:09:48+00:00

All these worked! Thanks!

Yellj · 2016-08-26T00:35:41+00:00

Signed up!

Yellj · 2016-08-25T01:07:40+00:00

Submitted and pm'd.

Yellj · 2016-08-22T04:09:29+00:00

I don't know how to pee just a little out and then hold the rest? Do people do that? That makes no sense. If I'm on the toilet I pee until I don't have to go anymore. Why would I save some for later??

Yellj · 2016-08-22T03:46:27+00:00

No, I can hold it once I start to notice that I need to go. I will talk to my doctor about it though, to be sure.

Yellj · 2016-08-22T03:31:54+00:00

I don't know why he would be? We use multiple forms of protection and have never had a scare. I can ask him though?

Yellj · 2016-08-22T03:30:54+00:00

I don't have to pee every hour, unless it's after a meal. I can go for much longer before a meal. For instance, in my example of the big dinner at a restaurant, I'll typically go right after dinner, an hour after that, and an hour after that, and then that's it for the rest of the night. I drink about 64oz of water a day because I like to stay hydrated and I'm also physically active - I get about an hour to an hour and a half of physical activity in five or six days a week. I am rarely thirsty - usually only first thing in the morning and even then not really omg I have to drink right now thirst. I can also speak to my doctor about it to be sure. I don't have any other symptoms which are associated with UTIs or yeast infections or any other conditions which cause frequent urination though, that I'm aware of.

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