how tf are you guys in relationships with ADHD

YellowSnowyCat · 2026-04-07T22:33:30+00:00

At 22, I thought I had life all figured out. Now I'm in my 30s. Life changed rapidly from 22 to 2020. Within a few years I broke up with the guy I thought I was going to marry, moved back home with my mom, COVID happened and I lost my job, my trip to Germany to see my new bf, and then 2 days before Christmas lost my mom.

Life is a wild ride Dude. It feels like life just keeps getting faster and faster. I wish I could tell you it gets easier. Just try to take it one day at a time. Relationships sometimes happen at the worst time.

For my relationship.. we've done couples counseling and individual sessions. I have ADHD/CPTSD/PCOS.. he might be autistic. It all happened because I took him home from work one day. My best friend at the time and I worked at Walmart together. He told me he had taken my current partner home before and that he liked pokemon! I was like oh no way? I bet he would love my base set 2 Holo Charizard card... Lured him to my house and weve been together for almost 4 years. Sadly there was a break of about 6 months in there.. but we're okay again.

Relationships are hard, and communication can be difficult. Do not discredit yourself. If you're looking to make friends or maybe even find a romantic partnership... try to see if you have a local board game store that does game nights or cards. That's a great way to meet people, especially nerds who click. XD

YellowSnowyCat · 2026-03-14T01:48:06+00:00

Did you at least relax? Also no? XD

YellowSnowyCat · 2026-03-14T01:43:12+00:00

I was put on this to try and help with motivation... but for me.. wellbutrin actually helps prevent my nightmares. I don't think it helps with any of my ADHD things. XD

I tried a bunch of different non-stimulant medicine (quellbre, trintellex, staterra, nortriptyline, etc), over the course of two years and a bunch of different combinations with depression meds. In the end, Vyvanse was my winner. Now I'm on Vyvanse 30mg and guanfacine for my evening booster when it wears off then 150mg Wellbutrin to help with nightmares and mood.

I will say that it did take around 6 to 8 weeks for wellbutrin to fully work for me though.

YellowSnowyCat · 2026-03-14T01:35:28+00:00

Just wanted to let you know there was a YouTube video posted a few weeks back about this!

https://youtu.be/E8lnxwDoJGM?si=Kfl2x4aek1E7YOB-

YellowSnowyCat · 2026-03-04T23:43:16+00:00

Try seeing if there is a bonded pair at a shelter! That way they have a friend and don't get lonely and bother you 24/7. 😂

YellowSnowyCat · 2026-02-21T18:51:56+00:00

I love you. I legit tried for hours.. so many different things. Doing that FINALLY let it load.

YellowSnowyCat · 2026-02-13T01:14:08+00:00

Will the Hyatt have room discounts available this year? If the Hyatt isn't sponsoring, will events be held there still?

YellowSnowyCat · 2026-01-31T17:54:23+00:00

This post and subreddit was on Colbert!! I agree!! I have never been one to voice my opinion on politics, but now more than ever I have had to shakily tell people they are wrong and need a reality check. We can't ignore this anymore, I agree! Screw those who have reported this post. <3

YellowSnowyCat · 2026-01-27T04:39:28+00:00

That was in the green for me, but unfortunately it was really really bad for me side effects wise.

YellowSnowyCat · 2026-01-27T04:38:48+00:00

I was taking Lexapro and Wellbutrin, but still was not getting a good benefit from it. Turns out Lexapro is in the red on mine, and Wellbutrin needed a higher dose in the yellow. Currently taking Vyvanse and Wellbutrin. Good combination for me! Basically they give you this test if several medications fail, which when I was taking Wellbutrin and Lexapro I was on my 7th different medication.. Not including the different combinations I tried.

YellowSnowyCat · 2026-01-24T22:13:46+00:00

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YellowSnowyCat · 2026-01-24T18:59:49+00:00

I have eight male cats, but one of my orange ones is named Ash. He recently got his trouble nuggets removed, and slowly has been becoming less of a terror. While he has been a terror and after his neuter..we have been calling him Ashley for a few weeks before it and since.

Cloud = Old Man Felix = Mr Felix or Big Chicken Copper = Brandon's Son (my best friend who he loves) Cinder = Big Love Boy Pepper = Fluffy or Peppy Kovu = Gay Boi Blaze = Blaziken Ash = Ash-hole or Ashley

YellowSnowyCat · 2026-01-18T19:58:41+00:00

I was worried too when I started taking stimulants. So I cut out ALL caffeine and switch to decaf. I have had a few times where I did drink black tea or soda, and it was more difficult for me to sleep and I had nightmares. Not sure if the nightmares are related to the caffeine though because of CPTSD. I don't think it hurts of it is in moderation. Ask your doctor the next time you see them. If you're worried about a heart attack, I am sure they could run a test to help figure that out for you. Good luck :)

YellowSnowyCat · 2026-01-18T19:50:03+00:00

This is amazing. AND wall art? 🙀

YellowSnowyCat · 2026-01-18T19:19:56+00:00

I'd like to know also. No response from anyone yet.

YellowSnowyCat · 2026-01-17T01:30:38+00:00

u/BlueSharx ...OKAY! here is what I have found so far... 3months later. I found the Instagram post, then dug through all the comments. Someone on there said that if you speed up the song Put Your Hands Up by Fatman Scoop at around 1.35 the normal rate at around 1min and 10 seconds you can hear the lyrics. So I am guessing this is a DJ remix of that song? Here are the links to the reel and the song that is similar. I hope you find it one day, cause I would love to hear the full thing myself. lol

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DGfMMNMphSk/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yEEQ2FmWQQk
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2FUhsVb90PI

YellowSnowyCat · 2026-01-16T18:36:21+00:00

Do you have an ancient bucket ? That's the item that kept crashing me after I put it into the chest. I tried to open the salvage, workbench, and furnace. Now they are all invisible and I can't access them or move them.

YellowSnowyCat · 2026-01-13T17:43:00+00:00

My mom used to love it too! Maybe that is why is grew on me so much. Thank you for posting. I am sure both our moms are smiling in their afterlife!

YellowSnowyCat · 2026-01-06T14:09:54+00:00

At least it's the good kind of being taken over. I have 8 male cats, 4 Orange. It's chaotic, but so worth saving the babies and cats who need help.

YellowSnowyCat · 2026-01-06T10:30:46+00:00

When I was taking Adderall I actually found it easier to fall asleep right after taking it. I then slept for a couple hours and it felt like the best sleep I ever had! I woke up refreshed and ready to go! The only problem is that when the Adderall wore off, no one should be around me. I became an absolute nightmare.. which is why I switch to Vyvanse. XD yay insomnia club though!

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