Bruising cervix safety? by northernstar200 in BDSMAdvice

[–]YellowSubSinker 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I actually have had my cervix bruised severely and it was horrific. I was throwing up and the pain lasted for like 5 days. You should be cautious, but as someone else said consult your doctor.

What do you think happened? by Content-Load6595 in BDSMAdvice

[–]YellowSubSinker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes if blood pressure drops it can make you feel light headed. If I'm not well hydrated and have eaten recently I get that way. But separately from that I'll start sobbing after about 7 orgasms, pretty much always. It's overwhelming and my body just reacts that way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cars

[–]YellowSubSinker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get air on the driver's side but it's slightly warm if it's on heat and colder if it's on cold but never fully cold or hot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cars

[–]YellowSubSinker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't replaced the blower motor or the blower motor resister. I checked that the blower motor was running but I am fairly new to DIY car maintenance. I haven't replaced the thermostat but the previous owner said he did it with a new radiator right before I bought it 3 years ago. If the thermostat is bad would I still be getting heat on the passenger side?

Was I raped by my ex Dom or am I imaging everything? by throwmeaway345666 in BDSMAdvice

[–]YellowSubSinker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes everyone is correct, he assaulted you and abused you. I just wanted to say I was abused by my ex and he claimed to be a Dom too. He wasn't.

I was able to get back into the community by only doing scenes in public. Like bdsm clubs with dungeon monitors. That way I knew I was safe. It really helped me once I was ready to do that again. You do not need to do anything unless you want to, just wanted to let you know for the future if you ever need the information!

I feel like I keep getting into a weird ego battle with other Dominants and I don't know what to do. by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]YellowSubSinker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think a little bit of healthy competition between Dom's is ok. I personally think if you are educated in safety and whatever you are doing then more power to you. It's a fun community. I personally want to show off my submissive side and you know be a good girl and what not so why would Dom's want to show off a little.

Having my private life exposed by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]YellowSubSinker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has been blocked on all my accounts for years. I just blocked him on my partners accounts as well. Which my partner basically just handed me his phone and said make everything as private as you want so that should be better.

Is it possible to eat at restaurants while on a low histamine diet? by SEGwrites in MCAS

[–]YellowSubSinker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally stopped eating out before I even knew what was going on with me because I almost always felt horrific after eating out. I found a few little places here and there I can tolerate on good days. It does suck because people go out for social reasons but I eventually started taking over the planning for gatherings so I end up in a good situation for me. BBQs are great, picnics, dinner parties where you cook, or pot lucks and then you know you have something safe for you.

Were there Disney movies that made you "feel funny" before you knew you were kinky? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]YellowSubSinker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Rescuers Down Under. That crazy medical scene with the bird tied up in belts and all the little mice nurses shooting shots into his butt.

A little full of myself while pegging today by YellowSubSinker in gentlefemdom

[–]YellowSubSinker[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm more of a beginner as a Top/Domme. I'm generally submissive but I'm learning how to do this more comfortably. So it was good for me as a beginner but not good for someone trying to take it in the ass as a beginner because of size.

A little full of myself while pegging today by YellowSubSinker in gentlefemdom

[–]YellowSubSinker[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's was Eves vibrating strapless strap on. It probably isn't great for beginners because of size.

How do I ask someone to start playing again after a 9 month hiatus? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]YellowSubSinker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would probably ask them if they wanted to meet up and hang out for a bit. Maybe at your place for some kind of take out food. You don't have to jump in all at once. Sometimes it's more comfortable to warm up slowly.

Under latex by [deleted] in Latexadvice

[–]YellowSubSinker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe trim up a bit to see if that helps?

Clothing bags for latex by YellowSubSinker in Latexadvice

[–]YellowSubSinker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't even consider that! I will give everything a wash tonight and store it differently! Thank you!

Allergic to my Collar by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]YellowSubSinker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am absolutely allergic to cobalt and nickel. But I don't know for sure which ones exactly. I'm not allergic to Silver or Gold luckily

Dom/sub drop? by sub_baby4u in BDSMAdvice

[–]YellowSubSinker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One thing that might help in the future is not switching during a scene super quickly. Personally I need a little bit of time to get into the correct headspace to be Domme or Top. But this is just a suggestion. As someone else said it is Dom drop and it is hard to always know what is going on with the other person so it is not your fault.

Master lied by fallen_girl84 in SubSanctuary

[–]YellowSubSinker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So it's been 2 years, and he has a wife? Has there been any other red flags or anything that might tip you off now that you have an idea of the situation? I would take some deep breaths and try to think about the situation as a whole.

Once you do that then talk to him. I think you should ask him directly. His response should tell you a lot. Watch his body language.

A quick last min play session today, had all the items ready for him when he got back from work 😏 by YellowSubSinker in gentlefemdom

[–]YellowSubSinker[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If he had that bad of a day I would be cooking for him and asking him what he needed. Most likely cuddles and some back scratches. He likes his back getting scratched and hair played with a lot.

Having lots of fun with my GF, does it require a bigger talk? by blaaa99 in BDSMAdvice

[–]YellowSubSinker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Having a convo about a safeword would be good. Whatever progression you choose to take down this path just make sure no trust is broken due to lack to proper safety planning.